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A Message from the War: Tell your children
NRO ^ | 4/7/2003 | Susan Konig

Posted on 04/07/2003 3:28:48 PM PDT by Utah Girl

Our kids know America is doing a noble thing in Iraq.

They know about brave PFC Lynch and her rescuers. About Coalition soldiers giving chocolate to Iraqi kids. About statues of Saddam Hussein being toppled. About water and food coming in by the ton to aid suffering Iraqis.

We can't tell them everything because they are all under nine. How do you explain the hunt for a man like Chemical Ali, who gassed the Kurds? Or the discovery of a warehouse filled with human remains, where atrocities were committed and photographed for posterity? Or about a pregnant woman blowing herself up in order to harm our soldiers?

The facts say a lot about the mission:

They grab conscripts off the streets and order them to drive suicidally at Coalition troops.

We renamed their international airport for the capital city, not for its cruel dictator.

They herd civilians into the crossfire.

We cradle babies who were wounded in the crossfire.

They torture children in front of their parents.

We give water, candy, and smiles to shyly approaching children.

We provide EPWs with the best medical care they've ever received.

They execute our captured soldiers and jeer over the bodies.

Our kids don't know all of that.

But they know about 9/11. About one little classmate whose dad went to work that day and never came home. About the baby brother who would never know his father. About that student's older brother who came to school and spoke to the kids before he was deployed to Kuwait. About our friend, a major in the United States Marine Corps, who is in Iraq. They saw him on TV.

We received an e-mail from him this weekend:

Hi guys — I am just out of Iraq and heading back in in a few days. Things are OK. Most people are saying things are going great, but I stay more grounded than that as I feel if I asked a number of parents who lost some of our Marines at Nasiriyah they would not agree with our perspective. This is a real thing and kids are not coming home — this is not an adventure anymore. I truly feel like we are doing good here as this world will hopefully be a better and safer place. It is your job to let your children know that other people paid a sacrifice for them when they will be able to play little league baseball without having to show papers to cross a county border or get searched by armed military in a "police state."

Some of the things I have seen make me proud to be an American, but more so it MAKES ME APPRECIATE IT. We do not have our children living with no electricity, no shoes, no water, filth in the streets with trash stuck to barbed wire, waiting at corners to beg a foreign military for handouts as they drive by. Our kids do not literally spend an entire day filling dirty old plastic containers with water that leaks from a pipe at a military checkpoint. We do not have a war-torn town or mass graves on the outskirts of our town where hundreds of our residents were either shot in the head or gassed by our own leaders leaving children with their eyes wide open and foaming blood draining from their little cute-noses still being held by their also dead parents...and our kids do not hide their faces in fear of death if their faces ends up in a photo which may be thought of as "aiding the enemy."

No — we do not have those problems — we get upset because we expect to be given everything and it is always someone else's fault. We blame our crimes on the neighborhood we grew up in. We get upset because the cable goes out or the traffic light is too long...and God help us if the AC goes out — yeah our lives are practically unbearable...

Our kids have not read this e-mail but I think they would get it. Don't worry, Major Dave, we'll let the children know.

Susan Konig, an NRO contributor, has just written a book, Why Animals Sleep So Close to the Road (and other lies I tell my children).



TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; Foreign Affairs; Government; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: childrenandwar; currentevents; education; freeiraq; history; homeeducation; homeschool; homeschoollist; iraqifreedom; school; susankonig

1 posted on 04/07/2003 3:28:48 PM PDT by Utah Girl
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To: Utah Girl

2 posted on 04/07/2003 3:33:51 PM PDT by admiralsn (The regime change in the US began in Nov '00, and continued in Nov '02. It will be complete in '04.)
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To: Utah Girl
You know, UG, I figure when kids are old enough to ask the questions, they are old enough to deal with the answer.

My daughter and son know everything that they want to know about this war--they just ask. Sounds like an interesting book title from the author. I can't wait for the sequel: "Why Does My Teenager Not Believe Anything I Say?"
3 posted on 04/07/2003 3:35:28 PM PDT by L,TOWM (Liberals, The Other White Meat)
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To: admiralsn
Thanks for that picture. I saved it to my hard drive.
4 posted on 04/07/2003 3:37:18 PM PDT by Utah Girl
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To: admiralsn
Love the picture - she will, hopefully, never have to suffer as other little girls before her. She will never hang by her hair so her husband will agree to enter the army; she will never be forced to watch as her family is put through a shredder for some unknown charge; she will never have to lose her children to a disease caused by malnourishment. Hopefully, she will never know these things.
5 posted on 04/07/2003 4:15:32 PM PDT by CyberAnt
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To: Utah Girl
Great post Utah Girl. Thanks!
6 posted on 04/07/2003 4:20:51 PM PDT by Boxsford
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To: Utah Girl
........................We provide EPWs with the best medical care they've ever received.

They execute our captured soldiers and jeer over the bodies.

Our kids don't know all of that.

Neither do the war protesters... or the Democrats.

7 posted on 04/07/2003 5:15:56 PM PDT by 11th Earl of Mar
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To: 11th Earl of Mar
Some war protestors do. I work with a few, they tell me that the Iraqis can do anything they want to protect their land, and anyway, we're the one who started the mistreatment of the POWs because of the way we're treating the terrorists at Gitmo. At this point, I usually walk away from them. :)
8 posted on 04/07/2003 5:18:06 PM PDT by Utah Girl
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we're the one who started the mistreatment of the POWs because of the way we're treating the terrorists at Gitmo

Tell your 'friends' that these Talibaners and Al Queda terrorists were living in caves eating grubworms and scorpions when we took them. At least we feed them three square meals per day- plus they get fresh air and sunshine.

9 posted on 04/07/2003 5:34:57 PM PDT by 11th Earl of Mar
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"It is your job to let your children know that other people paid a sacrifice for them when they will be able to play little league baseball without having to show papers to cross a county border or get searched by armed military in a 'police state.'"

Obviously Major Dave, having been otherwise reasonably occupied, has not read about what's in the proposed USA PATRIOT Act Mark Two.

He should have heard about what was in Mark One, of course, by now. And given a damn about what those whose orders he obeys want to impose when he gets back home. If he had, he wouldn't have dismissed the coming -- no scare quotes here -- police state as being a figment of imagination, no worse than the kids fearing a monster under the bed.

10 posted on 04/07/2003 6:12:42 PM PDT by Greybird (“Fest steht und treu die Wacht, / Die Wacht am ... Tigris” -- at least come back alive, boys, dammit)
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Oh, by the way, as to being searched by armed military (or abetting those who do it) ... what are all those fellows at the airports doing who seem to be wearing khaki and green, and carrying automatic rifles?
11 posted on 04/07/2003 6:16:05 PM PDT by Greybird (“Fest steht und treu die Wacht, / Die Wacht am ... Tigris” -- at least come back alive, boys, dammit)
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To: Utah Girl
Tell them the truth, they need to handle it. Gory details can be left out, but tell the truth. My seven and four year old daughters are reminded often about the bad guys that flew airplanes into our buildings because we go to church.
12 posted on 04/07/2003 6:39:05 PM PDT by SENTINEL (Proud USMC Gulf War Grunt !)
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To: *Homeschool_list; 2Jedismom; homeschool mama; BallandPowder; ffrancone; WhyisaTexasgirlinPA; ...
ping.
13 posted on 04/07/2003 8:36:19 PM PDT by TxBec (Tag! You're it!)
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To: SENTINEL
My daughter is three. She's asked me more than once about why bad men crash airplanes and kill everyone inside. That's what angers me about 9/11 more than anything else - that my daughter has to ask questions like that.
14 posted on 04/07/2003 8:41:52 PM PDT by Terabitten (Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of All Who Threaten It)
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To: Utah Girl
This war has greatly gave interest to my 13 year old son. He has a far better understanding of communism now. He certainly understands why we say liberals are socialist/communists too. I tell him as truthfully as I know how, the answer to any question he may have. Smaller children may not find this as interesting as say "Blues Clues" or Clifford, but one thing is for certain, they hear everything their parents are talking about.
15 posted on 04/07/2003 8:42:32 PM PDT by goodseedhomeschool
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To: Utah Girl
BTTT
16 posted on 04/08/2003 12:34:49 AM PDT by ppaul
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