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Parents press board to cancel sex survey (Virginia)
Washington Times ^ | Wednesday, January 22, 2003 | By Jon Ward

Posted on 01/21/2003 10:20:46 PM PST by JohnHuang2

Edited on 07/12/2004 4:00:29 PM PDT by Jim Robinson. [history]

Fairfax County parents, upset about a school district plan to administer a sex survey to high school sophomores and seniors, are asking the county's Board of Supervisors, which is paying for the study, to quash the questionnaire.

"The schools are getting out of control," said Karen Budd, an Oakton mother of two. Her younger child attends a public middle school and her elder child attends a private Catholic high school. "They are assuming parents' responsibilities, and parents are letting them," she said.


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TOPICS: Front Page News; News/Current Events; US: Virginia
KEYWORDS: contradictorydesires; fairfax; fairfaxco; pta; sexeducation; virginia
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To: JohnHuang2
The survey, which would be administered to selected 17- and 18-year-old seniors, and 15- and 16-year-old sophomores, poses about nine questions about sexual habits, including: "How old were you when you first had sex?" "Have you ever had oral sex?" "The last time you had sexual intercourse, what one method did you or your partner use to prevent pregnancy?"

Try asking these questions over the internet, then meeting up at Burger King to discuss it further, and see what happens.

-PJ

21 posted on 01/23/2003 5:47:00 PM PST by Political Junkie Too
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To: JohnHuang2

Correction: They pretend to be surprised when people get upset.

22 posted on 01/23/2003 5:50:51 PM PST by Cultural Jihad
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Yes! Yes! The answers to these questions are needed!

This man is paying for the survey with the $400,000 he got from Iraq to make a movie:


23 posted on 01/23/2003 6:02:15 PM PST by weegee
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To: ladylib
But don't you wonder if their answers go into some sort of database somewhere?

If it's being conducted at the school, perhaps it's going in their "permanent record"!

24 posted on 01/23/2003 6:03:43 PM PST by weegee
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To: pram
This must be a concerted assault.

Most likely, there is a commercial enterprise in back of it.

The current "random drug testing" push is being directed by the Drug and Alcohol Testing Industry Association (see www.datia.org), a lobbying group whose sole purpose is to push drug testing of all kinds. Their approach starts with a 'survey,' which gets mailed off to a group that 'analyzes' the survey, and comes back with results that say "you have a real problem here, and something must be done!" -- the answer, of course is their product: random drug testing of students.

The drug testing companies are largely owned by the drug manufacturers (Roche, SmithKline, etc.) who could be setting these schools up for some kind of 'program' -- like getting the schools to pay for contraceptives, etc. (just guessing here, but it seems plausible).

Better get the parents organized and/or elect some new board members -- if the current board has allowed this to happen, they are much more likely to defend themselves than to listen to a few disgruntled parents.

26 posted on 01/23/2003 6:26:31 PM PST by Ed_in_NJ
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To: weegee
Probably to a database in Hillary Clinton's NY office. She's big on human engineering.
27 posted on 01/23/2003 6:27:48 PM PST by ladylib
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To: Billthedrill
If students are individually permitted to drop out of the survey, it has no validity as a survey. You either include everyone or you randomly sample a statistically adequate number. All other issues aside, it would appear that the authorities in Fairfax have commissioned a meaningless survey.
28 posted on 01/23/2003 6:27:55 PM PST by mathurine
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To: mathurine
That's why these people want "passive consent." They know if enough parents opt their kids out, the survey means nothing. However, in NJ, parents actually have to give their permission -- no "passive consent." No signing on the dotted line, no survey.

Why should it be the school's business who is boinking who and how, or who is taking drugs? It should be out of their purview -- none of their business. They claim they want to know so they can develop curricula.

If schools really taught students how to read, write, reason, and do math, half these problems would go away.

I don't trust any school administrator who says "We want to teach the whole child" because he is more interested in indoctrination rather than imparting academic knowlege.
29 posted on 01/23/2003 6:51:17 PM PST by ladylib
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To: JohnHuang2
Students may choose not to participate and their parents may also sign a form opting them out of it, but only a small percentage of students did not participate in 2001.

Why is the option always to "opt-out"? Why can't it be "opt-in"? Ask for volunteers to participate in the study and choose from a cross-section of these.

They are attempting to solicit the "geek factor" - what's the matter, your mommy doesn't want you to answer the questions? - using peer pressure to ensure participation by those unwilling.

30 posted on 01/23/2003 7:04:56 PM PST by Shethink13
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To: Chemist_Geek
More seriously, I don't understand the reaction of some posters here. It seems to me that in order to fix a problem, to wit, sexual activity amongst the "yutes", one does have to know something about the extent of said problem.

The only problem I am interested in fixing is one that involves MY OWN CHILDREN, and I will solve said problem, if one ever exists, in the way I see fit, without the intrusion of some namby-pamby liberal educator who will only gum up the works.

If they are going to proceed in a fashion that is contrary to MY brand of upbringing, I will most definitely protest and insist they stick to the three R's.

31 posted on 01/23/2003 7:15:12 PM PST by Shethink13
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To: Political Junkie Too
HA! - couldnt you say that since sex and religion are so closely intertwined that in order to not offend my regilious practices, sex, and discussion of, should be banned from the classrom. Wouldn't want someone to violate my right to separation of church & state would we. Many religions are very modest when it comes to the topic of sex, and it is something only discussed in the privacy of your own home. Until my child becomes an adult, topics such as this should be kinda taboo huh?
32 posted on 01/23/2003 7:25:00 PM PST by m18436572
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To: Shethink13
Let me guess, you're opposed to the Census, too?
33 posted on 01/23/2003 8:11:22 PM PST by Chemist_Geek ("Drill, R&D, and conserve" should be our watchwords! Energy independence for America!)
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To: JohnHuang2
There is no such thing as an anonymous survey. Even when you don't put your name on it there are identification codes that allow the survey company to identify you.

I used to participate in the Harris on-line polls. Then one day they asked me about my marital status. When I answered I was single, never married, they responded by giving me a list of sexual preferences to choose from. Each option on the list was some form of perversion each more disgusting than the last. One option that was not on the list was straight, hetrosexual female.

I logged out of the survey then and informed the Harris Poll that I would not be participating in any more of their surveys. I recently blocked them from accessing my E-mail.
34 posted on 01/23/2003 8:47:34 PM PST by redheadtoo
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To: m18436572
couldnt you say that since sex and religion are so closely intertwined... discussion of, should be banned from the classrom.

Of course not!

Sex and religion are not closely intertwined. Religion is a societal construct (moral law), sex is biological (natural procreation). Or, religion is biological (endowed by the Creator) and sex is a societal construct (alternate lifestyles). In either case, both are independent motivators that co-exist together, often crossing paths but for different purposes.

Talk of banning is strong talk. There must be extreme dangers present to resort to banning. I hope that it doesn't require extreme measures to get school adminstrators to consider larger interests besides their own narrow viewpoints.

-PJ

35 posted on 01/23/2003 11:28:46 PM PST by Political Junkie Too
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Sex-based questions at issue in Fairfax

Jon Ward
THE WASHINGTON TIMES Published January 24, 2003

A member of the Fairfax County Board of Supervisors is trying to gather majority support to either remove questions about sexual activity from a larger survey on teen behavior to be distributed to high schoolers, or to eliminate the entire questionnaire.
     The survey was administered to 10th- and 12th-graders in the county's public high schools last year, but at that time it didn't contain questions directly related to sexual activity.
     Most of the survey deals with "youth risk" behaviors such as alcohol abuse, depression and thoughts of suicide.
     This year, however, nine questions specifically related to student sexual activity were inserted into the survey, creating a firestorm of debate not just among parents and students but on CNN's "Talkback Live" program and WTOP's "Ask the Executive," with Board of Supervisors Chairman Katherine K. Hanley appearing on the local show.
     The new survey is to be administered to students this April.
     The controversial questions ask students whether they have had sexual intercourse, when they last had it, with how many people have they had it, whether they used contraception and whether they have engaged in oral sex.
     Supervisor Stuart Mendelsohn, Dranesville Republican, said he would propose "anything from deleting those questions to rearranging the wording to stopping the funding altogether for the survey."
     Mr. Mendelsohn — who would need a simple majority of six on the 10-member Board of Supervisors to approve a motion — said he is trying to gather support from fellow supervisors.
     "There's some that are interested," he said. "It depends on the wording of the motion. I'm going to see what I can do over the next few days by talking to my colleagues."
     The School Board approved the survey with the nine sex-related questions and the Board of Supervisors is paying the $60,000 cost of administering it, Mrs. Hanley said.
     Students taking the survey fill it out anonymously, according to Mrs. Hanley, and they may opt out if they want. Parents will be notified of the survey, but they will not be given the actual questions. They may sign a form to exclude their children from the survey.
     Questions on the survey were submitted by the Youth Survey Work Group appointed by the Board of Supervisors and the School Board. The group comprised school and county staff, as well as parents of high school students and other local people, a government spokesman said. Mary Shaughnessy, director of Student Services, led the work group.
     Mr. Mendelsohn said his main objection was that teens who do not engage in sexual activity would have to repeatedly deny any sexual activity.
     "I think there should be one question that if you answer no, you skip the rest," he said. "Young people should not have to say nine or 10 times that they didn't do something."
     Public officials including Mrs. Hanley have said the survey is needed to determine which "youth risk" behaviors are most prevalent, including sexual activity.
     The county's Department of Health and the school system will use the statistics to shape their intervention and education programs, as they did with last year's survey — which did not contain questions on sexual activity — administered to 11,332 students in grades 8, 10 and 12.
     The plan this April is to administer the entire survey, with the sex-related questions, to grades 10 and 12. Grades 6 and 8 would receive the survey minus the sex-related questions.
      Kathy Stohr, parent of an 11th-grader at Westfield High School, said she plans to telephone other parents to warn them about the survey.
     "I think it's intrusive and it gives kids the wrong idea," Mrs. Stohr said. "It makes it seem like this sexual activity is normal and commonplace."
     Lynn Terhar, director of the Fairfax County District of the state PTA, said the PTA had not yet collected enough public opinion on the issue to take an official position. She said, however, that she had sent unofficial e-mail messages to supervisors "urging them to leave the survey intact with the sexual activity questions in it."
     "We know high school kids are sexually active," Mrs. Terhar said. "Anybody who doesn't think so is on another planet."
     The answers to the survey questions are the kind of data "we need to know about so we know where to put our resources," she said.
     Critics question whether high-schoolers would take such questions seriously and provide accurate data, but students who are aware of the issue have said that should not be a concern.
     "By the time a student reaches the 10th grade, he or she has the ability to think with a critical mind," said Matt Wansley, a senior at Thomas Jefferson High and the student representative to the School Board.
     "The family has primary responsibility to educate their children about moral behavior, but the schools have to approach it from a health standpoint," Matt said.
     "I'm more than happy to take it," he said of the survey.

WT

36 posted on 01/24/2003 3:37:44 AM PST by Ligeia
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To: BufordP; Ligeia
I guess you need to add me to your ping list,
remember it takes a village to raise a child,

Screw that, It takes a parent to raise a child,
and don't tell me how to do it,
there are only a couple of good guys on this board,

Ligeia, I think you know who they are can you alert the rest of us to who the good guys are. thanks,
37 posted on 01/24/2003 7:32:17 AM PST by vin-one (I wish i had something clever to put in this tag)
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To: Chemist_Geek
Those who oppose the idea of a survey, are acting like ostriches - sticking their heads in the sand and hoping it'll go away. Now, there is certainly room for debate about how to go about finding out about the problem...

Nonsense. Frankly, unless the sexual behavior occurs on the school grounds or on the school bus or at an event where the school is obligated to provide supervision (such as on a field trip), the behavior is none of the school's business.

It's time that the schools and the school boards get back to the business of actually teaching reading, writing, and math skills and left the social engineering to the parents. It is the parents' job to instill values and provide guidance in matters of sexual behavior. I repeat: It is none of the school's business!

38 posted on 01/24/2003 7:49:09 AM PST by Lion's Cub
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To: vin-one
can you alert the rest of us to who the good guys are. thanks

There are only four good guys: Mychele Brickner, Rita Thompson, Christian Braunlich, and Tessie Wilson. Mychele and Rita are especially in our corner. Springfield and Sully should be represented by a conservative or at least a Republican. We need to fix that in the next election.

39 posted on 01/24/2003 8:48:57 AM PST by Ligeia
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To: Ligeia
Ligeia is correct, except I would add the (non-voting) student rep to the Good Guy column. We need a lot of support from all Fairfax County Republicans (and Libertarians and everyone else who is tired of the the current Board's shenanigans) to get control of the School Board away from the democrats this November. Please send a private reply if you want more details.
40 posted on 01/24/2003 9:02:50 AM PST by StayAt HomeMother
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