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A Cross to Bear [If You Think Church Has Learned Its Lesson, READ THIS!]
Cleveland Plain Dealer Magazine ^ | 6/16/02 | Tom Breckenridge and David Briggs

Posted on 06/29/2002 10:04:07 AM PDT by Diago

 

A Cross to Bear

06/16/02Tom Breckenridge and David Briggs
The Plain Dealer

Most Catholics are shocked and angry about the church's sex abuse scandal. But in some Cleveland diocese parishes, the revelations are particularly troubling. At least eight parishes have had more than one of their priests accused of sexual abuse.

At Holy Family in Stow, reeling congregants have learned that three priests who served the church during the 1970s had been accused of abusing minors.

Even worse, they have lost their "Father Joe" - the Reverend Joseph Lieberth, 60, parish pastor - to suspension for alleged abuse of a minor.

A 15-foot banner bearing messages of support for Lieberth went up in early April in the church sanctuary. The sympathy, however, was far from universal.

Many parishioners could not bring themselves to sign. One teenage parishioner said she would be afraid if Lieberth returned. Others were taken aback by the pastor's admission of an "isolated incident" involving a 17-year-old boy.

"There's concern for this young man, too," says parishioner Evonn Welton, 47. "It's hard to reconcile."

Congregants at Holy Family are not alone in dealing with a troubling past. A Plain Dealer review of where alleged abusive priests have served (See Chart, Page 12) shows that parishes such as Ascension and St. Patrick, both in the West Park neighborhood of Cleveland, had more than one alleged abuser working at the same time and had several priests with histories of alleged abuse assigned to them during the 1980s.

Other parishes, such as St. Joseph in Avon Lake and Holy Family, would see a succession of alleged abusive priests.

In all these churches, the anger, denial, shock and sadness is deeply personal.

"My main concern is why a parish with such a large amount of children would have more than one priest like that," says Holy Family member Bibiana Seislove, 39.

Seislove, who teaches at a Catholic middle school, says she and her husband are struggling to answer the questions of their four children, who attend Holy Family school.

"It's damage control at this point," Seislove says. "We don't have the answers."

For those left behind in the parishes where clergy have been accused of abusing children - the members, the alleged victims and their families, and the new priests assigned there - the sadness is palpable.

Like hundreds of others going back generations at Ascension, Katie Corbett thought she knew the priests. Now she is struggling to reconcile her fond recollections of the holy men who shaped her family's spiritual life with shocking images now emerging of abused children and shattered victims.

"There's an internal conflict," says Corbett, 48, coordinator of youth ministries at Ascension. "This is not the person that we knew and yet there are allegations of terrible things. It's so heartbreaking."

Corbett says she remembers seeing the Reverends Gary Berthiaume and Allen Bruening routinely doing good works at Ascension.

So it seemed innocent enough to her back in the 1980s when she and her children would run into Bruening at a hotel pool near the parish.

"We'd talk with him," Corbett says. "He would be there sometimes with kids from the parish."

Few people back then thought priests were capable of the sorts of acts of which so many have been accused.

The mother of one abuse victim was almost embarrassed to tell another mom her concerns about the Reverend Bruening's plans to take their children on a trip to Niagara Falls.

Is this guy OK? she asked, half-joking.

"Well, the kids would tell us," they decided.

"We almost laughed about it, Gee, we're not being nice. We're going to hell for just thinking about it.'"

What Corbett, the victim's mother and other parishioners only recently learned is that according to victims, Bruening would use those trips to the pool to seduce young boys.

As a child at Ascension, Frank (not his real name), now a young West Side adult, says he not only had to contend with Bruening, but also with Berthiaume, who was sent to the Cleveland diocese after serving six months in a Michigan prison for child abuse. Back at Ascension school after the swimming trips, says Frank, both priests were waiting in the showers.

While Bruening stood naked in a one-person stall, says Frank, Berthiaume would be ordering him to join the other priest in the shower.

"Here I am, a little kid, and here is this pastor, you want to believe you're a good kid," Frank says. "This person is the next closest thing to God. You would do anything that they would say. How could you question these people?"

A couple of miles west of Ascension down Puritas Avenue, parishioners at St. Patrick's also grapple with the memories of the holy men who served them.

There, the Reverend Thomas Burg, 63, a now-inactive priest named by the diocese in April as the subject of abuse allegations, served with the Reverend Donald Rooney in the mid-1990s. Rooney committed suicide last March after being called into the chancery to discuss an allegation he abused a teenage girl at St. Patrick.

Former parishioner Patrick Kiley says that he's still angry about the stone wall he hit when he, his wife and another couple confronted Burg and Rooney 16 years ago with concerns that Rooney had improperly touched their adolescent daughters.

Kiley says his daughter told him Rooney put his hand under her shirt and ran his hand across her bare stomach during confession, saying he was worried she might be developing an ulcer.

His daughter, 13 at the time, came out of the confessional in tears, according to her friends. But she did not tell her parents until a year later, in 1986.

The other couple, who asked not to be identified, say Burg ran his hands down the sides of their daughter's shirt during a confession, saying he was concerned she was losing weight.

Kiley complained to the diocese and went back to Burg. Nothing ever happened, he says.

"I suffer guilt that I didn't pursue it further," Kiley says.

Kiley believed then that Burg was covering for Rooney. He believes it more strongly now, given recent revelations that Burg himself had to leave the ministry because of allegations he abused minors.

"That news [about Burg] infuriated me," says Kiley. "But I was also relieved. I thought then that my suspicions about them were correct. ?They didn't want any of this to go forward. We weren't looking for money. We were looking for them to get rid of a priest we believed was a threat."

Kiley, 49, of Westlake, is no longer a practicing Catholic.

Corbett, who is still at Ascension, is "really, really torn. ?I felt my kids were safe here with these men. I feel very sad for those families who had a different experience."

St. Joseph's of Avon Lake is one of the diocese's fastest-growing parishes. The Lake Road church and school sit facing Lake Erie and a disquieting past.

"It's tremendously disappointing and it really hurts," says parishioner Carmen LoParo, 55 and a former FBI agent. "It's embarrassing to talk about these things."

The painful topic is the church's revered founder, the late Reverend Carl Wernet, and two other alleged abusive priests who have served at St. Joseph.

Eight women sued the diocese in 1993, claiming Wernet molested or raped them in the 1950s and '60s.

Wernet left St. Joseph in the mid-1960s. Then came Dennis Wirks, 58, who served there in the early Seventies. In April, the diocese named Wirks as a former priest who was accused of abusing minors.

The diocese transferred Wirks from St. Joseph to St. Barnabas in Northfield. Shortly after, the Reverend Joseph Labbe came in, serving at St. Joseph until 1981. Labbe, now 55, was suspended in April as pastor of Holy Angels parish in Bainbridge Township. He is among a dozen active priests suspended because of allegations of child sexual abuse.

St. Joseph school Principal Patricia Vaccaro, 53, speaks well of Wernet. "The only memories I have are of his being a very positive influence. Through his leadership, we are where we are today," she says.

For many others, Wernet's legacy is the problem. Alleged victims say divorce, attempted suicide, depression and other signs of emotional devastation carried across decades by girls who were molested as early as age seven by a priest who would give them holy cards and prayer books as gifts after abusing them.

An alleged Wernet victim, who declined to be identified, says it is "disgraceful" the way Catholic leaders have tried to bury the problem over the years.

"You know what kills me about the whole thing? My family and [I] are about the best Catholics anyone could imagine," she says. "It [the Catholic Church] is such a good route, and it just kills me that it can't seem to come to grips with the problem."

At Holy Family in Stow, the pain and opinions are fresh.

In a letter to the congregation after his April suspension, the Reverend Lieberth admitted "an isolated incident involving a 17-year-old boy," but, he explained, that after an extended assessment he was able to be assigned to Holy Family.

Another alleged victim, who says he was abused as a 16-year-old boy in the mid-1980s, disputes the assertion Lieberth abused only one child in an isolated incident.

Three other priests who served Holy Family during the 1970s had faced accusations of abusing minors: The Reverend Russell Banner, 64, who was suspended in April from Annunciation in Cleveland; William McCool, a former priest named by the diocese in April as having been accused of abuse; and the Reverend Joseph Seminatore, 60, who is vigorously denying a claim that he abused a teenager in the mid-1980s at a Catholic home for troubled youths.

The revelations at Holy Family and other affected parishes initially stirred a maelstrom of emotion. But many congregants are finding comfort with the passage of time and, their new spiritual leaders say, with each other.

"It's affected us all, no doubt," says the Reverend Timothy O'Connor, the pastor at St. Joseph. "It hasn't caused any kind of impasse, but I'd say it's a bit like after September 11. We re-evaluated our priorities and families got closer."

O'Connor still respects Wernet's work in building the parish and uses a card with Wernet's picture to mark his daily readings of Scripture and prayer. "It's like something happened in your family and you're not proud of it," he says. "We share each other's joys and bear each other's sorrows."

Particularly disturbing is the number of priests accused of abuse who were assigned to Borromeo Seminary in Wickliffe, where candidates for the priesthood prepare. The seminary had at least one alleged abuser assigned continuously from 1975 through 1991.

For the first time in 21 years, the pope ordered an apostolic visitation of every U.S. seminary. The pontiff wants to cut off the potential for abuse of children before a priest ever steps into a parish.

Monsignor Francis Maniscalco, a U.S. bishops' spokesman, calls it an opportunity "to assure the people that the candidates for the priesthood are suitable people, and any problems that might lead to immaturity in behavior would have been caught or addressed in seminary."

But there are some who believe seminaries have served as a breeding ground, rather than a check, on abuse. Borromeo was the home to several priests who have faced past allegations of abusing minors.

Leonard Ferrante, 65, a former priest who was identified by the diocese in April as having faced past allegations, was assigned to Borromeo from 1968 to 1976. The Reverend Anthony Muzic, accused in a lawsuit of abusing an altar boy, served there from 1974 to 1982. Muzic, who denies the allegations and was not named by the diocese as an alleged abuser, was a spiritual director at the seminary.

Martin Louis, 62, who is in prison for raping a minor, resided at Borromeo from 1981 to 1985. Labbe, the former priest at St. Joseph suspended in April for allegations a source said involved teenage boys, served at Borromeo from 1982 to 1991. He served both as dean of men and a recruiter for the seminary.

Those kind of assignments would not happen today, seminary officials say.

The Reverend Robert Stec, diocesan vocations director, says parents of seminarians can be confident people with abusive backgrounds will not be assigned to Borromeo, or to St. Mary, the post-secondary seminary in Wickliffe.

"Especially in light of today's current realities," he says, "the bishop has worked hard to make sure good, solid people serve in the seminaries."

The faithful at parishes served by not one, but several alleged abusers, are now left to pick up the pieces. At Ascension, visitors see a message on the church's Puritas Avenue sign: "Keep on Being Church."

The Reverend Joseph Fortuna created the motto that has caught on among congregants.

It's a reminder, Fortuna says, that the church continues to do good works, even as discouraging news reports pile up. "The church is not just bishops and priests. Don't get dragged down by this."

There is no easy grace, however. Angered churchgoers have expressed a willingness to forgive, but only if the church gets its act together.

For many, that means never returning abusive priests to parishes.

At St. Joseph in Avon Lake, parishioner LoParo advocates "zero tolerance" for priests who have ever abused a minor.

"There should have been punishment and punishment immediately," he says. "You can't hide in the shadow of the cross from the judicial system."

In Cleveland, longtime Ascension parish member Caroline Paull says that the Catholic diocese should never have assigned men like Bruening and Berthiaume to parishes in proximity to children.

Her son and two grandsons attended the church school. She feels disappointed and betrayed by the news that several priests with alleged abusive backgrounds were sent to Ascension, she says.

But she is staying. It is the church that has to shape up, says Paull.

"It covers things up, smooths it over and then pacifies people," says Paull, 61, of the church bureaucracy. "It was wrong, and now you have to fix it."

Plain Dealer general assignment reporter Tom Breckenridge and religion reporter David Briggs may be reached at 216-999-4696 (Breckenridge) and 216-999-4812 (Briggs), or through magmail@plaind.com


© 2002 The Plain Dealer. Used with permission.

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Time to Connect Some Dots

One of the parishes mentioned was Ascension Church:

"As a child at Ascension, Frank (not his real name), now a young West Side adult, says he not only had to contend with Bruening, but also with Berthiaume, who was sent to the Cleveland diocese after serving six months in a Michigan prison for child abuse. Back at Ascension school after the swimming trips, says Frank, both priests were waiting in the showers.

While Bruening stood naked in a one-person stall, says Frank, Berthiaume would be ordering him to join the other priest in the shower. "

Sick stuff. I am sure they have straightened things at Ascension by now, right??? Well, no.

http://216.239.37.100/search?q=cache:bg0Qn_bWnFIC:brianhalderman.net/+%22brian+halderman%22&hl=en

Here is an excerpt from the former website of Brian Halderman, an openly gay Diocese of Cleveland employee preparing to join the Marianists. (see above google link)

"I am an active parishioner at Ascension of Our Lord Catholic Church in the West Park neighborhood of Cleveland. I serve the church community as a catechist, assisting with the sacramental preparation of the second graders of the parish. We prepare the children for full initiation into the Catholic Church through the sacraments of Confirmation and First Communion.

I also assist with the Gay and Lesbian Family Ministry of the Diocese of Cleveland.This ministry has been in existence since 1997 and has grown much since its inception. The ministry supports several parent support groups, gay and lesbian faith sharing communities, and a number of other spiritual and educational activities throughout the year."

*

According to the Diocese of Cleveland website, "three parish outreach groups exist to provide a place of support, affirmation and spiritual guidance to gay and lesbian Catholics. " The very first listed on the Diocese of Cleveland webpage is Ascension Church.

http://www.dioceseofcleveland.org/gayandlesbianfamilyministry/parish_groups/index.htm

An excerpt from an article by a gay man describing how the Gay and Lesbian Family Ministry team of the Diocese of Cleveland cruised gay bars after participating in the Gay Pride Parade was recently posted on Freerepublic.com:

"Eventually, Brian, who coordinates a lot of stuff for the ministry, showed up. [My source believes this is Brian Halderman, the Cleveland Diocese employee who is set to join the Marianists] He and I danced for a while until the show began. I have to admit that he's a good dancer...he was fun in that he wasn't so entranced in himself to forget to smile and talk to me occasionally....some people get like that, which sucks. He also seems to know a good fraction of everyone....I met a few of his friends during the evening."

And then of course we have the Gay Pride Rainbow Triangle that proudly flies on the Diocese of Cleveland website.

http://www.dioceseofcleveland.org/gayandlesbianfamilyministry/mission/index.htm

If you scroll down to the very bottom of Bishop Pilla’s Gay Pride Triangle page and click on webmaster, what do you think turns up? Well, of course, the e-mail address for bhalderman@dioceseofcleveland.org.

Lets’ close with an except from the Akron Beacon Journal:

Cleveland resident Brian Halderman is a faithful Catholic who plans to join the Marianist religious order -- the Society of Mary -- this summer as an openly gay man.``Silence is violence on this issue,'' said the 25-year-old Halderman, a member of Ascension Catholic Church in Cleveland.

``Part of the body of Christ is gay, whether you like it or not.'' Halderman, who works for the Cleveland Diocese as the technology utilization manager in its secretariat for education, said he is bothered by conservative members of the church who believe gay Catholics are promoting a homosexual agenda.

``I have no other agenda than that of the gospel and my work is to build the kingdom,'' said Halderman, who is part of a Cleveland Diocese-sponsored support group for gays and lesbians.

http://www.ohio.com/mld/ohio/news/local/3252903.htm?template=contentModules/printstory.jsp


1 posted on 06/29/2002 10:04:08 AM PDT by Diago
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To: Diago
This is not a joke, from the Official Diocese of Cleveland Website:

See it yourself, here:

http://www.dioceseofcleveland.org/gayandlesbianfamilyministry/mission/index.htm

2 posted on 06/29/2002 10:12:13 AM PDT by Diago
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To: Siobhan; NYer; Romulus; Polycarp; Askel5; eastsider
bump
3 posted on 06/29/2002 10:15:39 AM PDT by Diago
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To: Diago
The Archdiocese of Cleveland. A...

Homo Hotbed!


4 posted on 06/29/2002 10:16:07 AM PDT by ppaul
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To: Diago
This is not a joke.

No kidding.
No telling how many little boys these cruising perverts have molested.

6 posted on 06/29/2002 10:17:35 AM PDT by ppaul
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To: Diago
as an openly gay man.

What on earth does this mean? This is why Dallas didn't cut it. They didn't deal with this.

7 posted on 06/29/2002 10:25:01 AM PDT by HowlinglyMind-BendingAbsurdity
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To: Diago
``I have no other agenda than that of the gospel and my work is to build the kingdom,'' said Halderman, who is part of a Cleveland Diocese-sponsored support group for gays and lesbians.

As we said before, so say I now again, if any man preach any other gospel unto you than that ye have received, let him be accursed.
- St. Paul's letter to the Galatians, Chapt. 1, v. 9


8 posted on 06/29/2002 10:25:51 AM PDT by ppaul
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To: Siobhan; ThomasMore; Romulus; eastsider; maryz
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9 posted on 06/29/2002 10:26:36 AM PDT by HowlinglyMind-BendingAbsurdity
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To: Diago
Guess they never read the Bible, aye?
You'd think those who are suppose to peach the word would at least try to obey it themselves.
Oh well. There will be the apostate church - a liberal leaning politically correct church.
So far, I think we have a winner! This sounds like Sodomy Central.
Pretty sad, huh?
10 posted on 06/29/2002 10:29:24 AM PDT by concerned about politics
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To: Diago
``Part of the body of Christ is gay, whether you like it or not.'' Halderman, who works for the Cleveland Diocese

Yep. Sounds like we've found a winner all right.

11 posted on 06/29/2002 10:31:29 AM PDT by concerned about politics
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To: HowlinglyMind-BendingAbsurdity
Dallas was about PR. The bishops new if they wanted some good spin, they could not take on the root of this problem which everyone knows to be homosexuality.

If these bishops are truly concerned about saving souls and protecting children, they would have addressed this issue. Instead, they were worried about good press.

12 posted on 06/29/2002 10:33:34 AM PDT by Diago
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To: Diago
bump,I think I am going to throw up.
13 posted on 06/29/2002 10:34:27 AM PDT by fatima
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To: HowlinglyMind-BendingAbsurdity
At Ascension, visitors see a message on the church's Puritas Avenue sign: "Keep on Being Church."

This will really help.

14 posted on 06/29/2002 10:36:18 AM PDT by Diago
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To: Diago
You've seen the article by Thomas Sowell, right?

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/708068/posts

15 posted on 06/29/2002 10:36:58 AM PDT by HowlinglyMind-BendingAbsurdity
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To: fatima
Pray, pray, pray and fast!
16 posted on 06/29/2002 10:37:41 AM PDT by Diago
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To: HowlinglyMind-BendingAbsurdity
"You've seen the article by Thomas Sowell, right?"

http://www.freerepublic.com/fo cus/news/708068/posts

I hadn't gotten to it. Superb!



17 posted on 06/29/2002 10:40:40 AM PDT by Diago
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To: Diago
Sowell wrote this:Even as regards the pedophile priests, the media shy away from the plain fact that these cases are primarily cases of homosexual abuse of children. Fear of the homosexual lobby always seems to immobilize our crusading journalists, despite their brave talk about "the public's right to know" in other contexts. That same fear also immunizes the North American Man/Boy Love Association from criticism.

Whether it was primarily fear of the media frenzy which would follow, of the homosexual lobby, or of homosexual priests & activists who might "act up" in staged protests in churches, the bishops did seem somewhat cowardly in Dallas (except Bruskewitz, of course). Gotta love that guy for his courage.

18 posted on 06/29/2002 10:42:07 AM PDT by HowlinglyMind-BendingAbsurdity
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To: Diago
There needs to be a class action suit for BILLIONS of dollars. How many people PAID for a private education only to learn later that their dollars went to cover up abuses by the clergy?
I was amused by the news of the rocker from Chicago who was held on hundreds of thousands of dollars in bond for making a video with an underage teenage girl. How many priests have gone free for sexual advances on preteen boys? We now expect better behavior from our rock stars than we do from priests.

The best form of punishment is consequence. The Catholic Church needs to pay the consequence for years of abuse and coverups by being forced to sell off property to pay damage awards. It was a violation of laws to let those priests get away with these crimes. If we were talking about public schools the states would be paying millions of our tax dollars in retrubution expenses.
There are plenty of Christian institutions that put donations to good use without all the scandals that have plagued the Catholic Church. If I were Catholic, I would have stopped contributing after the first allegations were released in the 1980's. If parishoners had withheld support of their church until every suspect priest was turned over to authorities in the 80's, the church would have taken care of the problem then. As long as the money continued to flow, they saw no reason to stop their unlawful practice.

How different is the Catholic Church from the priests and Pharisees who Christ condemended during His ministry? People have been deceived into ignoring the Scriptures for fear it could ruin their church.

Who can miss Satan in this picture?

19 posted on 06/29/2002 11:10:16 AM PDT by The Brush
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To: Diago
thanks for the ping. How much longer, Lord?
20 posted on 06/29/2002 11:16:26 AM PDT by Polycarp
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