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Outrageous Article "The Thin Line Betwween Love and Lust" (Barf Alert)
Time Magazine ^ | April 23, 2002 | Michael Kinsley

Posted on 04/23/2002 1:42:30 PM PDT by sonrise57

The Thin Line Between Love and Lust

Men who serve boys and men who abuse them have some things in common

Robert Baden-Powell, the British military hero who founded the Boy Scouts, had an intense interest in teenage boys and their bodies. This interest expressed itself with a forthright innocence that to our post-Freudian sensibilities seems to have pretty clear sexual overtones. There is no evidence that Baden-Powell ever acted on this aspect of his enthusiasm for youth, and scouting enthusiasts both deny and resent the implication. But the specter of what was on Baden-Powell's mind might well make modern American parents reluctant to send their sons off for a wholesome weekend in the woods with scoutmaster Bob. And it would probably doom efforts by someone similarly inclined to start an organization like the Boy Scouts today. Would that be a good thing?

Millions of American adults dedicate their lives to serving young people as teachers, coaches or spiritual advisers. Roman Catholic priests, in particular, dedicate themselves to a degree most of us cannot even imagine. Why do they do it? Sheer goodness can explain a lot, but not everything. Even the most saintly among us is moved by a complex stew of motives, some admirable and some less so, some conscious and some unconscious. The sin of pride, for example, helps seduce many into goodness. Fear of real life is part of what tempts some into the cloister. And for a small fraction of those youth-serving millions, sexual longing plays a role.

Even many of those who put themselves among young people for reasons that are partly sexual probably do so with no conscious predatory intention. They may hope to gain some pleasure from mere propinquity, and also from helping young people in wholly admirable ways. Some are fooling themselves, with disastrous consequences. But many undoubtedly succeed in their lifetime project of service and self-denial, doing much good and no harm. They are surely more heroes than predators.

Societies other than the U.S., while not exactly laughing off the sexual abuse of children, manage to acknowledge this reality without the same episodic hysteria. In England, for example, the "randy vicar" is a stock comic character. And even in America we recognize and tolerate the inevitability of certain tendencies that have occasional antisocial consequences. The military services would have a harder time filling their recruiting quotas if they were successful in screening out everyone with an unhealthy enthusiasm for violence. Instead they work to control and channel those impulses, and they largely succeed.

Sure, there is a pretty obvious distinction between thinking illicit thoughts and acting on them. But it is not so easy to purge the actual predators without punishing those heroes of sublimation or losing their valuable contributions to society. Why? Because the line is hard to draw in practice. Is the football coach who spends a bit too long towel snapping in the locker room after the game a predator or a sublimator? Because fear of succumbing to temptation must surely plague even those who remain steadfast, and imposing ruination as the cost of succumbing will drive such people away--or condemn them to a lifetime of psychological torture. Because, finally, even this obvious distinction between thinking and acting is being swept away in the nation's current frenzy over predatory priests.

The correct response to all this may well be: too damned bad. Protecting children is more important. But at least these considerations ought to make us appreciate the dilemma of having officially designated bad guys.

The Roman Catholic Church is far and away America's biggest social-service agency. As such it does a tremendous amount of good: tending the sick, feeding the hungry, counseling the troubled and running a school system that is the envy of secular educators public and private. So what were Boston's Bernard Cardinal Law and other church officials thinking when they covered up sexual abuse of boys and girls by priests and allowed the offenders to start again in new parishes with fresh, unaware victims?

Maybe they were thinking that God works in mysterious ways and that all this good work may depend in part on people who are doing good for bad reasons. Maybe they were thinking that protecting the church's supply of such necessary people involves a trade-off, a balancing of considerations. There is no question that Law and his colleagues got the balance badly wrong. But at least we should try to understand why they may have thought there was one. Understand, and maybe even sympathize a bit.

Michael Kinsley is founding editor of Slate.com


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KEYWORDS: catholicscandel; liberalpuke; pedophilia
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I was absolutley outraged when I saw this article. Did any one else see this?
1 posted on 04/23/2002 1:42:30 PM PDT by sonrise57
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To: sonrise57
...sexual abuse of boys and girls by priests...

What Girls? All of the news reports that I have seen is reports of Male perverts molesting young men.

2 posted on 04/23/2002 1:48:37 PM PDT by Little Bill
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To: sonrise57
This represents everything sick about the liberal mind.
3 posted on 04/23/2002 1:49:00 PM PDT by RAT Patrol
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To: sonrise57
Robert Baden-Powell, the British military hero who founded the Boy Scouts, had an intense interest in teenage boys and their bodies. This interest expressed itself with a forthright innocence that to our post-Freudian sensibilities seems to have pretty clear sexual overtones.

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Clear to whom? A psychotic? That a few kooks are drawn to the boy scouts is undeniabley true. It is also true that many fathers become scoutmasters because their sons are in the scouts.

Some years ago I met a man who over a 40 year period ren four 4H clubs, two at a time. It wasn't because of a sexual interest. It was his commitment to public service and the future of farming in Iowa.

4 posted on 04/23/2002 1:50:20 PM PDT by RLK
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Ahhhhh, if I had only followed my instinct years ago when I crossed paths with Michael Kinsley on the streets of D.C. - I would have cold-cocked the little weasel!
5 posted on 04/23/2002 1:50:59 PM PDT by GodBlessRonaldReagan
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To: sonrise57
There is no evidence that Baden-Powell ever acted on this aspect of his enthusiasm for youth, and scouting enthusiasts both deny and resent the implication...

"...but the guy's dead and gone and can't defend himself so I'm going to take advantage of the opportunity to smear his good name."

What a load of cr@p.

6 posted on 04/23/2002 1:51:02 PM PDT by randog
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Is the football coach who spends a bit too long towel snapping in the locker room after the game a predator or a sublimator?

I'm willing to bet that Kinsley has never played sports in his life. Even if a football coach were a double-gaited NAMBLA spokesman, he would never be a "predator" in any sense unless he was a moron -- 95% of his players could probably lay a thorough beating on him.

7 posted on 04/23/2002 1:51:07 PM PDT by Alberta's Child
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To: RLK
Also, I am sick of people who interpret events according Freud who don't know jack shit about Freud or psychoanalysis.
8 posted on 04/23/2002 1:52:24 PM PDT by RLK
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To: sonrise57
Is slate.com still in operation?
9 posted on 04/23/2002 1:54:17 PM PDT by Slyfox
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"Even many of those who put themselves among young people for reasons that are partly sexual probably do so with no conscious predatory intention."

Michael Kingsley is sicker than just Parkinson's. If you are sexually interested in children, you ARE a sicko.....AND you WILL prey on them.

10 posted on 04/23/2002 1:54:57 PM PDT by Ann Archy
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To: sonrise57
He has always been one of the most disgusting, slimey little fruits on the planet. Nor I am surprised that the Wash Post regularly prints his columns. Trust him to come out with an understanding essay on pedophiles and their motives. But to compare and contrast, go back and read, for instance, what he wrote about Clarence Thomas and some of his other little exercises in "tolerance." The guy is an intellectual hypocrite with whom you wouldn't want to shake hands unless you had some Lysol spray within reach. He has been for years. Nothing new here. But the part about the randy vicar really got me; like we want to mimic them. I think I read that there are now more Moslims in Great Britain than members of the Church of England.
11 posted on 04/23/2002 1:55:45 PM PDT by 3AngelaD
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Michael Kinsley he's a leftist shill and homosexual apologist.
The sum of his article is "Everybody does it, come on now."

Where have we heard this before.

12 posted on 04/23/2002 1:58:53 PM PDT by demlosers
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Robert Baden-Powell, the British military hero who founded the Boy Scouts, had an intense interest in teenage boys and their bodies.

Ya gotta kinda wonder about people who think about homosexuality all the time and who see homosexuals everywhere and claim that everyone has intense interests in "boys and their bodies".

13 posted on 04/23/2002 2:00:13 PM PDT by Slyfox
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Sure, there is a pretty obvious distinction between thinking illicit thoughts and acting on them

I'm having an illict thought about this idiot right now. He's lucky I can't act on it! What an A$$hole!!!!!!!

14 posted on 04/23/2002 2:01:35 PM PDT by shiva
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To: sonrise57
I definitely wouldn't let Michael Kinsley babysit my kids.
15 posted on 04/23/2002 2:04:59 PM PDT by Registered
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To: sonrise57
the British military hero who founded the Boy Scouts, had an intense interest in teenage boys and their bodies. This interest expressed itself with a forthright innocence that to our post-Freudian sensibilities seems to have pretty clear sexual overtones

To Michael, I'd say, "show me...prove it"...

An overly sexualized person might find a man's interest in the healthy minds and bodies of young boys in that day and time "sublimated sexuality", but to the mind of the times, sich interest not only seemed innocent, it WAS. Interview with Robert on the origins of scouting If this man had interest in the bodies, minds, and hearts of young boys, it was because he knew that only with sufficient training could these young boys survive in a world where many of them would become soldiers. In those early days of warehouse education, scouting was a boy's first encounter with real tests of manhood, survival, physical endurance...something he could never learn from books in a schoolroom. Many thousands of Boy Scouts died in wartime, but without their scouting experiences, I'd imagine the death toll would have been much higher.

I think Michael must have some issues...The war against the Boy Scouts continues...gays couldn't force their way in...so, now they're hoping to convince the gullible that the founder was himself gay...

16 posted on 04/23/2002 2:05:05 PM PDT by lsee
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I was absolutley outraged when I saw this article. Did any one else see this?

I stopped reading Time magazine many years ago, when in the guise of reporting the news, they ran one too many smears on the Conservative position on a major political/social issue. They have never deviated from a strong Leftwing bias, that I know of.

This article is a clever piece of rather vicious insinuation, coupled with a pretense of kindly intent: In short, an example of skilled propaganda. The thrust of that propaganda is most certainly not to make people more understanding of any problem, but rather to make people less willing to take strong stands against one of the most evil aspects of the assault on traditional values.

William Flax Return Of The Gods Web Site

17 posted on 04/23/2002 2:07:54 PM PDT by Ohioan
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To: Registered
Agreed. He sounds awfully defensive about being sexually interested in kids.
18 posted on 04/23/2002 2:08:20 PM PDT by Dog Gone
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To: sonrise57
I thought the stuff about powell was old news- letters talking about the "beauty of a young, innocent naked lad" etc.

Still, that was then, this is now- I think chutney ferrets of the victorian era were more chaste. Now, I think they act on their urges with gay abandon...(sorry, couldn't help it...) and should be discouraged from associating with the objects of their perfervid perversions.

19 posted on 04/23/2002 2:11:55 PM PDT by fourdeuce82d
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To: sonrise57
Kinsley is apparently trying to restate the commonsense notion that our motivations are complex, and become more complex as the stakes of our decisions increase.

Alas, he has instead produced an unreadable mess that appears to be trying to convince us to give the RC hierarchy a break for covering up their molestation problem.

In reality, once a person makes the transition from thought to action it's nowhere near as complex as Kinsley makes it: the priests are guilty of actual crimes (which makes those who cover it up accessories after the fact.)

Beyond that, those people are no longer fit to be placed in a position of trust, especially since child molesters are notoriously recidivist. They should have been removed. Indeed, the Scripture is very clear on this.

By taking the "tough choice" route, Kinsley is trying to provide an out to men who very obviously do not deserve one. The only reason I can think of for his doing this is that both he and the cover-up artists are protecting some other element of their agendas.

20 posted on 04/23/2002 2:14:34 PM PDT by r9etb
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