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My fiance told me to abort my baby on Thanksgiving. Instead, I chose life
Washington Examiner ^ | November 24, 2022 | Faith Dalton

Posted on 11/25/2022 5:31:51 AM PST by karpov

“This is going to ruin your life.” “You have to drop out of college.” “This is a mistake.” “Abort the baby .”

These words, uttered by people whom I trusted and loved most in this world, struck me like a knife.

When I learned I was pregnant , I was 21 years old and still in school. I was engaged to be married, and while those two pink lines came as a complete shock, I wanted to be a mother.

My feelings were overlooked by those close to me. Rather than offering support, my family and friends responded with criticism and doubt. It was Thanksgiving Day, and my fiance at the time told me to abort the baby and that we could "try again after we got married.” When I insisted on keeping my child, he abandoned me.

Scared, alone, and with no support, I stumbled upon the Pregnancy Resource Center of Rolla, Missouri. I sought out a free ultrasound, which was one of the many services it provided. While there, I met Jane Dalton, who served as the center’s client services director. I told her my situation, and in turn, she asked me what I wanted.

I wanted to be a mother — and a good one at that. But I also wanted to finish school and become financially self-sufficient. Jane told me that I could do all of those things and that the PRC would be there to help.

I soon moved into the maternity home connected to PRC and was immediately surrounded by love and support from complete strangers rather than the fear of family and friends that my life would hold less value as a mother.

(Excerpt) Read more at washingtonexaminer.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: abortion; crisispregnancy; prolife; prolifeping
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To: IrishBrigade

what sin, exactly, did she commit...?

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smh.


21 posted on 11/25/2022 6:26:18 AM PST by Responsibility2nd (Fake News. Might be true; but it’s designed to distort, mislead, brainwash and BS sheeple. )
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To: IrishBrigade

Premarital sex as a start.


22 posted on 11/25/2022 6:28:59 AM PST by GingisK
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To: AAABEST

What kind of idiot man seeks a wife, but doesn’t imagine that life-time commitment may involve children?


23 posted on 11/25/2022 6:31:46 AM PST by PGR88
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To: IrishBrigade
what sin, exactly, did she commit...?

Well, let’s start with Original Sin. How’s that? Then the commandment against adultery maybe?

Seriously?

Hoss

24 posted on 11/25/2022 6:31:53 AM PST by HossB86 (Christ, and Him alone.)
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To: HossB86

Fornication, not adultery.


25 posted on 11/25/2022 6:34:01 AM PST by Responsibility2nd (Fake News. Might be true; but it’s designed to distort, mislead, brainwash and BS sheeple. )
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To: IrishBrigade

One day ,as an unmarried woman, she just woke up pregnant?


26 posted on 11/25/2022 6:34:37 AM PST by sopo
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To: fuzzylogic

You might consider changing your handle to “clearlogic.”


27 posted on 11/25/2022 6:38:25 AM PST by gloryblaze
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To: IrishBrigade
what sin, exactly, did she commit...?

Here's a hint.

It wasn't a virgin birth. And she wasn't married.

28 posted on 11/25/2022 6:39:43 AM PST by grey_whiskers ( (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.))
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To: Nifster
His rights don’t include murdering his baby

Apparently hers *do* according to most states. Or, to hit up the man for 18 years of child support, because it's her body, according to most states.

29 posted on 11/25/2022 6:41:08 AM PST by grey_whiskers ( (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.))
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To: sopo
One day ,as an unmarried woman, she just woke up pregnant?

One of womens' favorite sayings regarding fornication, when it's time for *any* sort of consequences, is

"It just ...happened."

This is why chaperoning of all dates before marriage was a good idea.

(Men have always pressed for sex. The sexual revolution was when someone convinced the women that giving in was a good idea. And it only went down hill from there.)

30 posted on 11/25/2022 6:43:40 AM PST by grey_whiskers ( (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.))
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To: fuzzylogic

Well there ya go. You did the “right thing” and have been rewarded. After Roe, males were relieved of this expectation. It didn’t make males or females better people.


31 posted on 11/25/2022 6:46:21 AM PST by DeplorablePaul ("..)
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To: DeplorablePaul

I don’t know why 21 would be too young, either. My mother had me at 19, and she married Dad after she got pregnant with me. My grandparents on both sides loved me.

Why is it so hard for some families to just do that?


32 posted on 11/25/2022 6:53:34 AM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: HossB86

True. The original Greek word for adultery in the New Testament meant any sex outside of marriage, not just extramarital affairs.


33 posted on 11/25/2022 6:57:13 AM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: grey_whiskers

That said, I do admire her for her choice in having the child, and I appreciate the role of the pregnancy center and the Daltons for helping her. But doing what gains the admiration of man, even “doing the right thing “ is not the way to God. Believing in the sufficient and effective death of Christ for all sins is the only way.


34 posted on 11/25/2022 6:58:31 AM PST by sopo
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To: karpov

Pregnancy Resource Center of Rolla, Missouri.


Didn’t Elizabeth Warren demand that the Feds investigate PRCs as existential threats to womankind?


35 posted on 11/25/2022 7:01:08 AM PST by hanamizu
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To: karpov

Sounds like an Internet story.


36 posted on 11/25/2022 7:29:23 AM PST by faucetman (Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts )
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To: AAABEST
or have the child grow up with a “father” that wanted him/her dead.

A father in dire need of redemption, which God wants for him. Life will usually provide opportunities for learning to love.

37 posted on 11/25/2022 7:33:54 AM PST by Buttons12 ( )
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Actually porneia is the Greek word for fornication and moicheía Is Greek for adultery.


38 posted on 11/25/2022 7:39:50 AM PST by Responsibility2nd (Fake News. Might be true; but it’s designed to distort, mislead, brainwash and BS sheeple. )
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To: clee1

Once again, my story:

I’ve mentioned before on FR how my mother sat this farm boy down the evening of my 16th birthday (before I left for town to see my friends, and cruise), and had a one to one talk. Her speech to me was riveting, her eyes locked on to me, as though this was a life or death message. (I knew my parents marriage was not strong. Dad was a Gregory Peck lookalike, and was pursued by various women. Their marriage failed 7 yrs after that speech).

Her love and concern for her children was immeasurable. I was a late bloomer, and when I finally physically matured, getting dates with very attractive girls was easy. Saying no was quite difficult, but I simply wasn’t going to give in to a girl I wasn’t in love with. A few girls dumped me for that reason.

Every guy should have a mom like I had. In that talk to me, she stressed that I respect myself AND the young lady I’m with. To not let myself get talked into something I would regret later. She was VERY emphatic that I not take advantage of a girl, saying if she found out I did, she would slap me HARD!

Then at 23 I was rewarded with a 21 yr old virgin, who made me wait until wedding night 11 months later. We both awkwardly started learning about sex that night, and 44 yrs later (Aug 12th) we still smile about our joint learning experience. The way God intended it to be.


39 posted on 11/25/2022 7:48:22 AM PST by Zuriel (Acts 2:38,39....Do you believe it?)
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To: grey_whiskers

**This is why chaperoning of all dates before marriage was a good idea.**

My first date was the Prom in high school. Some volunteer parents were present at all times. My second date was the first weekend at a Presbyterian college in Kansas. The girls brother lined up his best friend and friend’s fiance (seniors) to double date with his sister and I. He was probably thinking the football player has too much testosterone.

The brother’s friend ended up seeing the sister he was guarding being rather aggressive, and me being quite restrained. I didn’t go out with her again, concluding that the girl was definitely in the ‘easy’ category.

(Men have always pressed for sex. The sexual revolution was when someone convinced the women that giving in was a good idea. And it only went down hill from there.)

Sex outside of marriage is not a character builder, it’s a character corrosive.


40 posted on 11/25/2022 8:11:28 AM PST by Zuriel (Acts 2:38,39....Do you believe it?)
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