Was on the plane the other day, sitting in an aisle seat. A young stewardess asked if I wanted a drink. She had the bluish most captivating eyes I’d ever seen. I noticed a wedding ring also. When she delivered the drink I said to her, “You have amazing eyes.” She looked right back at me and said that was very nice of me to say that, and she goes about her job.
The guy next to me says, “Buddy, you shouldn’t be talking to the flight attendants like that, they’ll throw you off the plane.”
I said, “ Did you see her eyes?“
He says, “Of course I did they’re gorgeous.”
About a half hour later she returns with another drink for me, ( which I hadn’t ordered.) Then she proceeded to talk with me. Every chance she got she returned to talk.
I’m 69.
With respect to flattery there are basically two kinds of women: (1) women who appreciate flattery and respond positively to it; and (2) women who respond negatively to flattering comments, pretending to be offended and indignant but secretly enjoying the attention.
I need that!!
I’ve been having a panic since 51 last May!!
Seeing someone 15 years younger and not sure if I was washed up or not!!
Rocking at 69. I like that! :)
“Was on the plane the other day, sitting in an aisle seat. A young stewardess asked if I wanted a drink. She had the bluish most captivating eyes I’d ever seen. I noticed a wedding ring also. When she delivered the drink I said to her, “You have amazing eyes.” She looked right back at me and said that was very nice of me to say that, and she goes about her job.
The guy next to me says, “Buddy, you shouldn’t be talking to the flight attendants like that, they’ll throw you off the plane.”
“I said, “ Did you see her eyes?“
He says, “Of course I did they’re gorgeous.”
About a half hour later she returns with another drink for me, ( which I hadn’t ordered.) Then she proceeded to talk with me. Every chance she got she returned to talk.
I’m 69 “
I compliment women all the time here in Japan and they love it , always thanking me for noticing , etc...I’m 67
Way to go, playa. Good for you.
Just came up on the elevator with a couple of women in their 50s...ish. Each attractive, one longer blonde hair and the other, short, recently styled brunette hair. They were continuing a conversation started earlier and the brunette was reaching toward the back of her head mentioning that she thinks she needs to go back to the stylist. She then looked at me and laughed and said, I’m sure you don’t need to hear two women talking about this stuff first thing in the morning...
I told her that was okay and her hair looked very nice. She smiled with a natural wink (kinda like smiling with her eyes... I love people who smile with their eyes) and she thanked me as we reached their floor, the door opened and they stepped out. As the blonde continued their conversation, the brunette turned back and wished me a wonderful day.
Good, positive vibe to start the day. Always acceptable.
They love a little attention as do I. Nothing sexual although there is always that undercurrent.
My wife of 30 years takes this old war horse for granted and I have found that the girls have husbands that have forgotten to compliment them.
Being a Southern boy, my mom always taught me, under pain of a spanking, to notice and compliment on a new hair doo, piece of jewelry or if they really got dressed for no reason but to present a pleasing image. At first a lot of the girls (all about 20 years younger thought this was a bit quant but now they love the attention. Oh, I also like the attention back, especially the sparkling eyes and smiles. Oh to be 20 years younger and single. Life is good.
#6 Come Fly With Me - Frank Sinatra
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_gSFMQdGsc
You charmer, you.. (wink)