“Was on the plane the other day, sitting in an aisle seat. A young stewardess asked if I wanted a drink. She had the bluish most captivating eyes I’d ever seen. I noticed a wedding ring also. When she delivered the drink I said to her, “You have amazing eyes.” She looked right back at me and said that was very nice of me to say that, and she goes about her job.
The guy next to me says, “Buddy, you shouldn’t be talking to the flight attendants like that, they’ll throw you off the plane.”
“I said, “ Did you see her eyes?“
He says, “Of course I did they’re gorgeous.”
About a half hour later she returns with another drink for me, ( which I hadn’t ordered.) Then she proceeded to talk with me. Every chance she got she returned to talk.
I’m 69 “
I compliment women all the time here in Japan and they love it , always thanking me for noticing , etc...I’m 67
It’s because you’re sincere and genuine, and not a jerk like Matthews, O’ Reilly, and all the other guys that think they’re hot stuff...when they’re stupid.
If you flirt, like Matthews did, you flirt with the intention of going all the way, otherwise, knock it off.
What you and I do, is give an honest opinion.
I always notice when my girls here have a new do, or make up or something. And I’ll bring it up at the morning meeting, like
“Ok, Melissa what’s with the cute new hair do.”
Doesn’t matter if they’re married or not.
But I never cross the line with them at work....ever.