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Why I choose to be politically correct
The [Duke] Chronicle ^ | 01/16/2019 | Nathan Heffernan

Posted on 01/20/2019 3:21:49 PM PST by ml/nj

In the past few years, anti-politically correct (PC) movements have grown in popularity and vigor. Groups of young college conservatives have criticized the liberal hold on universities and conservative activists have mocked censorship and “sensitivity” among young millennials. The sentiment that “people get offended by anything these days” seems to be growing among the larger population. Scandals of comedians getting booted from gigs for racially insensitive remarks or being fired from hosting an awards ceremony due to old homophobic tweets have sparked discussion over whether PC culture has gone too far. Even at Duke, students and professors complain about the PC culture on campus.

Politically correct means non-offensive and non-controversial. As racial minorities and niches of LGBT communities gain political clout, the amount of identity factors that we are exposed to increases. Some appreciate this diversity, while others see this diversity as more people they can’t offend. The anti-PC culture of arguing that “people get offended too easily” shifts blame on an individual’s surroundings, and away from the individual who was offensive or careless with their words. It makes political correctness seem like society’s flaw, and that the individual holds no responsibility for their words and how their words make people feel.

I view political correctness as an opportunity to connect to a broader range of people. I do not see it as a restriction. My life experiences have not specifically taught me the struggles of other racial, sexual, and gender minorities. However, I do know respectful language, or PC terms, that members of certain communities ask outsiders to use. In an institution such as Duke, we are surrounded by an extremely diverse population. Through being politically correct, I can make my words accessible to and respectful of a larger amount of my peers at Duke, instead of solely people with similar life experiences to mine.

Being ignorant to different identities shuts out people from hearing your message, and it dwindles your audience. A few weeks ago, Kevin Hart was dropped from his hosting gig at the Oscars due to a resurfacing of tweets using the word “f*g” as well as a joke about him beating his son up with a dollhouse if he turned out to be gay. Many, including Ellen DeGeneres, defended the comedian, arguing that these were old jokes from years ago.

The issue was not that society had somehow decided to be offended by Kevin Hart. Rather, Kevin Hart decided in those years to exclude gay people from his audience by making them the target of those jokes. He lost that community as a potential fan base as a direct result of his choice to make homophobic comments.

When I was in middle school, I said plenty of offensive things. I pushed boundaries and ignored political correctness often. But then I grew up. I learned about the experiences of people different me. And I didn’t become politically correct because society or this "liberal university" pressured me, but because I gained more empathy for certain communities. I dropped about 10-12 words from vocabulary, including words like “retarded” and “ghetto.” I have not lost any ability to communicate my ideas or thoughts from my political correctness. I still make mistakes, but with good intentions I never feel like I have to worry.

I understand that it can be difficult to use the correct vocabulary in an academic environment focused on social justice. I also believe that criticisms of political correctness are borne out of a nostalgia for past eras where racist, sexist and homophobic comment were more commonplace. It is important for us to take ownership of our words, and understand that our message reaches the audiences we choose for it.

I don’t want people to monitor their language to fit within a societal rule book. Instead, I want us to understand the perspective of affinity groups and learn how our words impact their communities. This way, we can implement socially conscious language from a genuine desire to be more respectful, rather than an obligation to adhere to a set of rules.

Learning to be non-offensive takes patience. People will get angry at you for things you have been saying for your entire life. Instead of resorting to defensiveness, try to understand where their anger is coming from. For minority groups, this anger can come directly from life experiences. It takes a strong will to step back and realize that what you have said is truly hurtful, and it is easy to dismiss others’ anger as a societal flaw. But when you learn to re-evaluate your words in that way, you expand your own opportunities for knowledge.

Nathan Heffernan is a Trinity sophomore. His column runs on alternate Wednesdays.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; Philosophy; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: correct; dnctalkingpoint; dnctalkingpoints; ellendegeneres; genderdysphoria; homosexualagenda; kevinhart; nathanheffernan; pc
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Where does he say that what you do or think is offensive?

I think you need to take a course in Logic; or maybe English isn't your native tongue.

ML/NJ

21 posted on 01/20/2019 3:38:56 PM PST by ml/nj (.)
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To: ml/nj

I am not politically correct. No were my forebears politically correct. I am leaving this one with you. Enjoy.


22 posted on 01/20/2019 3:39:07 PM PST by sport
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I still make mistakes, but with good intentions I never feel like I have to worry.

Wow.

Truly dumber then advertised.

He thinks that by making himself oatmeal he will offend no one and be safe from the SJW.

He does not understand that good intentions will not protect him. His very existence is an offense and unless he somehow manages to become the "minority of the week" something that he says, does, wears or even his expression will be used to beat him into a pulp.

And even if he becomes a "minority" he is still going to have to deal with the "more victimized then thou" SJW.

The scale keeps changing.

Who would have thought that a black woman immigrant from a third world county would be attacked because she does not believe women should be forced to have bits of their private parts carved off? Yet it is so.

23 posted on 01/20/2019 3:39:50 PM PST by Harmless Teddy Bear (Somewhere there's danger, somewhere there's injustice, and somewhere else the tea is getting cold.)
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To: ml/nj

So he doesn’t?


24 posted on 01/20/2019 3:40:30 PM PST by x
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25 posted on 01/20/2019 3:40:42 PM PST by simpson96
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To: SamAdams76

Perversion has become prudent. Black is white and white is black. We have slipped into Bizarre world (or Sodom and Gomorrah.


26 posted on 01/20/2019 3:41:07 PM PST by richardtavor
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To: ml/nj

These little sh*ts are more than ready to throw us all on the bonfire. Anybody who misses that is missing the point.


27 posted on 01/20/2019 3:43:32 PM PST by jocon307
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“Kevin Hart decided in those years to exclude gay people from his audience”

No. If true, gays stayed away because they closed their minds.

This is an extreme example - the problem is that PC excludes the true genius that built the West: Plato, Augustine, Chesterton, Jefferson, Teresa of Avila, Locke... dozens.


28 posted on 01/20/2019 3:43:39 PM PST by ReaganGeneration2
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To: ml/nj

That stupid liberal know-nothing obviously likes to be led around by his nose ring.


29 posted on 01/20/2019 3:44:46 PM PST by Bullish (My tagline ran off with another man.)
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Most folks can’t seem to catch a clue....regarding this!!!

Political Correctness is MARXIST TOOL...

Look it up!!!


30 posted on 01/20/2019 3:45:01 PM PST by Halgr (Once a Marine, always a Marine - Semper Fi)
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“I don’t want people to monitor their language to fit within a societal rule book.”

Um, yes he does. This is one confused young man. Wonder if he lacked a full-time dad...


31 posted on 01/20/2019 3:45:57 PM PST by polymuser (It is terrible to contemplate how few politicians are hanged today. - Chesterton)
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It’s one thing to be tactful, non-confrontational or even politically correct. It’s quite another to be scorned, ridiculed and even fired for not being pc.


32 posted on 01/20/2019 3:46:59 PM PST by skr (May God confound the enemy)
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I said plenty of offensive things.

Well, too bad for you, kid. If you ever cross the wrong person, every last one of those "offensive things" will make its way onto social media, and you will never, ever get a job in the "woke" universe you're helping to create.

33 posted on 01/20/2019 3:47:03 PM PST by madprof98
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Why is it always whitey that has to understand? Do minorities have any obligations in so called ‘race relations’?


34 posted on 01/20/2019 3:47:44 PM PST by Altura Ct.
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When he said politically correct means being non-nontroversial and non-offensive, I quit reading. Anything can be defended with sufficient dishonesty.


35 posted on 01/20/2019 3:50:17 PM PST by Spok
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To: SamAdams76

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxhwM06lLUs


36 posted on 01/20/2019 3:50:48 PM PST by Osage Orange (Whiskey Tango Foxtrot)
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To: Altura Ct.

it looks like DUKE has succumbed to the deep state....so sad!!!

Current generations have no clue as to what MARXISM really is....Political Correctness is just one tool the bad guys use....


37 posted on 01/20/2019 3:51:54 PM PST by Halgr (Once a Marine, always a Marine - Semper Fi)
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To: ml/nj

He chooses to be politically correct because he’s afraid his ultra-PC university will expel him for being anything else.


38 posted on 01/20/2019 3:52:31 PM PST by rightwingintelligentsia (Democrats: The perfect party for the helpless and stupid, and those who would rule over them.)
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To: ml/nj

Political correctness is tyranny with manners.


39 posted on 01/20/2019 3:54:14 PM PST by Impala64ssa
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This is a student at Duke University which supposedly only accepts the brightest student.

Nah. A celtic-wasp friend of our family went there with her blue-eyed blond son, who had applied, and were escorted around campus by a (middle eastern heritage) sophomore who gleefully shared his SATs, which were more than 100 points lower than those of the blond visitor from the top of his class—who a few weeks later was turned down for admission. Too American.

40 posted on 01/20/2019 3:55:35 PM PST by Albion Wilde ("A wall, not because we hate the people outside of it, but because we love the people inside.")
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