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FReeper Canteen ~ Sunday Chapel ~ THE POWER OF A TEACHER ~ 07 October 2018
Serving The Best Troops and Veterans In The World !! | The Canteen Crew

Posted on 10/06/2018 5:02:40 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska


 


 

 

 

THE POWER OF A TEACHER


Yesterday, I related the story of a young man who had been labeled as "retarded," yet achieved remarkable success because of one teacher who convinced him that someone else's judgment need not become his reality. The account pointed out the importance of a healthy self-image, and the power of a vision. Today, I want to expand on that thought a bit. What was it that made the teacher in that story so different? Confidence? Experience? Expertise? No, I think it was something far more basic. Let me illustrate with another example.

Eric Butterworth tells the story of a college professor who once sent his sociology class into the Baltimore slums to take case histories on 200 boys. Based on these histories, and their previous studies of sociology, the students then evaluated each boy's likelihood of future success. In every case the prognosis was the same: "This kid doesn't have a chance."

Twenty-five years later, another professor came across that study and had his students follow up. The shocking results contradicted all accepted sociological theory. Twenty of the subjects had died, or had moved away and could not be located. Of the remaining 180, however, all but four had achieved more than ordinary success as lawyers, doctors and businessmen! What could account for this remarkable turn of events?

Intrigued, the professor investigated the matter further. Soon a consistent pattern began to emerge. Each of these men had been motivated and encouraged by a teacher. In fact, by the SAME teacher! She was much older now, but still alive and alert, so the learned scholar sought her out. "What magical formula," he asked, "had she had used to pull these boys out of the slums and into successful careers?" Her eyes sparkled as she said with a gentle smile, "It's really very simple; I LOVED those boys."

That's the real key, isn't it? As someone has said, "People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care." I have an acquaintance who wants very much to be a coach. He is knowledgeable of his sport, experienced (as a player) and credentialed as a coach. Yet he has proven to be totally ineffective at teaching and motivating young players. Why? They view him as a "bully" -- arrogant, uncaring and harsh. And the fact that they neither respect nor trust him is reflected in their performance.

Consider, on the other hand, the example of Annie Sullivan, who took on the task of training a child with multiple handicaps. In his book, THERE'S A LOT MORE TO HEALTH AND NOT BEING SICK, Bruce Larson points out that, when Ms. Sullivan began her work, her charge was little more than a "hostile, rebellious, untamed animal." With "tough love", however, Ms. Sullivan fought her way in to the girl's life and released one of the most gifted and inspirational women of all time -- Helen Keller. Larson concludes, "Each of us has the power to perform miracles of that sort, if we can begin to communicate to other people that they are important to us, and of supreme value in the sight of God."

One of the most cherished passages in the Christian scriptures (I Corinthians 13) concludes with the statement that three things -- faith, hope and love -- will last throughout eternity. "But the greatest of these," it advises, "is love." May our lives and our legacies reflect that guiding principle.

CAPT J. David Atwater, CHC, USN



 

 



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To: The Mayor; ConorMacNessa; SandRat; 2111USMC; Jet Jaguar; Publius; PROCON; mountainlion; HiJinx; ...

Hello Veterans, wherever you are!!

A Blessed Lord's Day and Shavua Tov to you.


21 posted on 10/06/2018 7:37:16 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Hey there, Kathy.

Yes, it was a fun day, as always. The highlight was when a friend showed up with his adorable little grandson to check out the museum. He was one of my “adoptees” several years ago when he was deployed to Afghanistan with the National Guard. Due to that “adoption”, he and his wife and Hubby and I became friends and are friends to this day.


22 posted on 10/06/2018 7:41:57 PM PDT by radu (God bless our military men and women, past and present)
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To: radu

No work today...I’m in no mood to do anything for “them”. Not a happy camper.


23 posted on 10/06/2018 7:52:19 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Gee, I can’t imagine why you wouldn’t be in the mood to do anything for “them”. :-)

Did you and your brother knock off a bunch of things on your list?


24 posted on 10/06/2018 8:15:53 PM PDT by radu (God bless our military men and women, past and present)
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To: lightman
"...make glad in Thy might those who lawfully govern, that with them we may be led to victory over our adversaries,..."

"...save those who have been called upon to govern us, leading us to that victory which is from heaven,..."

Yes!! An excellent morning prayer. Thank you.

25 posted on 10/06/2018 8:18:55 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: radu; PROCON
After I wake up from my unscheduled nap later this evening, I will get a chance to read all about the confirmation.

I am so disgusted with my rino senator, Murkowski....PP lackey.

26 posted on 10/06/2018 8:22:10 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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Good evening, ML...((HUGS))...and a Blessed Lord’s Day and Shavua Tov to you and yours.

Hope you and Penny, and maybe Blue, had a good day.


27 posted on 10/06/2018 8:27:08 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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Shavua Tov.
Wishing all our Jewish troops, veterans, families, allies, friends, and Canteeners
a peaceful and prosperous week.


28 posted on 10/06/2018 8:27:42 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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Prayers for our troops, veterans, families, allies, friends, and Canteeners
for a safe and peaceful week ahead.


29 posted on 10/06/2018 8:28:40 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: MoochPooch; left that other site; SkyDancer; onedoug; BTerclinger; DeoVindiceSicSemperTyrannis; ...

He Who blessed our forefathers Abraham, Isaac and Jacob - may He bless the fighters of the Israel Defense Force, who stand guard over our land and the cities of our G-d from the border of the Lebanon to the desert of Egypt, and from the Great Sea unto the approach of the Aravah, on the land, in the air, and on the sea.

May HASHEM cause the enemies who rise up against us to be struck down before them. May the Holy One, Blessed is He, preserve and rescue our fighting men from every trouble and distress and from every plague and illness, and may He send blessing and success in their every endeavor.

May He lead our enemies under their sway and may He grant them salvation and crown them with victory. And may there be fulfilled for them the verse: For it is Hashem, your G-d, Who goes with you to battle your enemies for you to save you.

G-d bless and keep your children safe, Alouette.


30 posted on 10/06/2018 8:29:15 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: radu

That is really neat about your highlight of the day...glad you got to share the museum with them.

Did the little one gravitate to any one thing?


31 posted on 10/06/2018 8:35:43 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: unique1; USMCPOP; JFoxbear; Dad of Chris Mason; debm29palms

God Bless our military men and women who have given their all.

Thanks, unique.


32 posted on 10/06/2018 8:36:42 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Excellence; TADSLOS; Tax-chick; RightOnline; LUV W; GodBlessUSA; KC Burke; Coldwater Creek; ...
Thanks, Military Families, for your service to our country.


John Conlee ~ They Also Serve


33 posted on 10/06/2018 8:38:05 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska
It's a fun night for reading. It's even been fun to watch CNN in small doses. LOL! Enjoy!
34 posted on 10/06/2018 8:39:19 PM PDT by radu (God bless our military men and women, past and present)
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To: All


35 posted on 10/06/2018 8:40:15 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: radu

The list tomorrow....he needed sleep badly. He can only be on the slope so many days with this company, but he got here yesterday evening and goes back Tuesday. He needs the physical and mental rest first.

I just took a pizza out of the oven, so he can eat and take another nap if he wants. He has also spent some good amount of time on the phone with his wife in Georgia.


36 posted on 10/06/2018 8:43:48 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Jet Jaguar; txradioguy; Excellence; TADSLOS; JemiansTerror; Tax-chick; DocRock; Colonel_Flagg; ...
To our Military -

Thank you for protecting us. Sleep well and safe.
May you be protected. May your families' hearts be at ease.

Thank you to our Allies.

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To those of our Military and Allies who gave their all,
- May your souls rest in peace. May your families be comforted.
May your/our country always remember.


37 posted on 10/06/2018 8:44:59 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: All

The Lord's Prayer

38 posted on 10/06/2018 8:48:38 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Yes, it WAS neat. Would’ve been neater if his wife had been with them but it was a “boys day out”. LOL

The little one seemed most interested in the Jeeps. We have one that we allow kids to sit in, with helmets and small cammo shirts they can wear to have their pix taken. His face lit up when I told him he could sit in it. He was in shy-mode up to that point but after that, I was his best friend.


39 posted on 10/06/2018 8:48:40 PM PDT by radu (God bless our military men and women, past and present)
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To: radu

LOL! Anything with wheels...and “she let me sit in it!”


40 posted on 10/06/2018 8:52:09 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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