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Study: 4 In 10 Men Have Experienced ‘Inexplicable Sadness’ After Sex
Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy ^ | 7/27/18 | Joel Maczkowiack and Robert D Schweitzer

Posted on 07/28/2018 12:51:26 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom

Having sex may feel like a badge of honor for many men, but for others, it’s an act that, once finished, brings about intense feelings of sadness. Researchers for the first time ever have identified that women aren’t the only ones who can suffer from this emotional tidal wave in the bedroom, better known as postcoital dysphoria, or PCD. PCD occurs when a person has enjoyable consensual sex with a partner, but is met with “inexplicable feelings of tearfulness, sadness, or irritability” afterwards.

...men can and do suffer from PCD which results in feelings of sadness, tearfulness or irritability following sex.

Researchers from the Queensland University of Technology say PCD had only previously been recognized in women, but after a survey of 1,208 men from numerous countries — including the United States, United Kingdom, Germany, and Russia — it’s clear that the condition is more common among males than one might expect. In fact, four in 10 participants recalled suffering from PCD symptoms at some point in their lives.

“41% of participants reported experiencing PCD in their lifetime with 20 percent reporting they had experienced it in the previous four weeks,” said Maczkowiack, a masters student at the university’s school of psychology.

As many as 4 percent of the individuals, who voluntarily participated in the online questionnaire via postings on social media and psychological research websites, said they battle PCD symptoms regularly. Men acknowledged that statements such as “I don’t want to be touched and want to be left alone,” or “I feel unsatisfied, annoyed and very fidgety. All I really want is to leave and distract myself from everything I participated in,” applied to them when thinking about times they’d made love. Others described feeling “emotionless and empty” even though the sex was otherwise satisfactory.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: marriage; psychology; sex
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To: chrisser
Is this after turning on the light?

Yeah, or when the beer goggles wear off...

41 posted on 07/28/2018 1:28:05 PM PDT by Paradox (Don't call them mainstream, there is nothing mainstream about the MSM.)
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To: LostInBayport

Ding! Ding! Ding! Winner!

That’s the post of this topic!


42 posted on 07/28/2018 1:30:18 PM PDT by llevrok (Established 1950.)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

I do not believe this at all.


43 posted on 07/28/2018 1:32:02 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man ( Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

Maybe the sadness comes after they sober up and see what they went to bed with...


44 posted on 07/28/2018 1:32:20 PM PDT by Cowboy Bob ("Other People's Money" = The life blood of Liberalism)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

I had that problem, but I did find a way to fake my orgasms to compensate for the sadness.


45 posted on 07/28/2018 1:32:40 PM PDT by Bringbackthedraft (?? forgetaboutit.)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

Maybe the sadness comes after they sober up and see what they went to bed with...


46 posted on 07/28/2018 1:32:51 PM PDT by Cowboy Bob ("Other People's Money" = The life blood of Liberalism)
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To: mosaicwolf

Knowing how screwed up some people are these days, I wouldn’t be surprised if it were to address the first same-sex experience.

And it may very well linger on during the relationship or be carried over to others.

I’m not all that interested in the topic. It sure doesn’t apply to me.


47 posted on 07/28/2018 1:33:26 PM PDT by DoughtyOne (01/26/18 DJIA 30 stocks $26,616.71 48.794% > open 11/07/16 215.71 from 50% increase 1.2183 yrs)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom
Study: 4 In 10 Men Have Experienced ‘Inexplicable Sadness’ After Adultery
48 posted on 07/28/2018 1:34:29 PM PDT by campaignPete R-CT (Committee to Re-Elect the President ( CREEP ))
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To: ProtectOurFreedom
Oscar Wilde married a woman to “hide” his being gay. They honeymooned at Niagara Falls.

When asked what he thought about the Falls, “It was the second most disappointing thing of the honeymoon”

49 posted on 07/28/2018 1:35:19 PM PDT by llevrok (Established 1950.)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

bookmark


50 posted on 07/28/2018 1:38:22 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

It’s either that or gnaw your arm off.


51 posted on 07/28/2018 1:38:47 PM PDT by Spok ("What're you going to believe-me or your own eyes?" -Marx (Groucho) to sun spot6)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

52 posted on 07/28/2018 1:48:30 PM PDT by DFG
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To: clearcarbon

Yes...absolutely true. A long hot shower after the government abuse doesn’t even begin to wash away the feelings of filth.


53 posted on 07/28/2018 1:55:05 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom
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To: Lazamataz

Chin up, Laz. We all need time to recharge!


54 posted on 07/28/2018 1:56:54 PM PDT by Crucial
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To: ProtectOurFreedom
Well when the beer goggles come off yeh. 😀
55 posted on 07/28/2018 2:01:15 PM PDT by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

I think wishing the gals would magically turn into a booze loaded poker table with other 4 guys after it is all over has always been a bit unrealistic.


56 posted on 07/28/2018 2:02:11 PM PDT by bobby.223 (Retired up in the snowy Mountains of the American Redoubt and it's a great life!)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

Sad after sex but during sexthey just couldn’t get it up


57 posted on 07/28/2018 2:04:09 PM PDT by bert
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

Not if you are the girl


58 posted on 07/28/2018 2:04:29 PM PDT by al baby (Hi Mom Hi Dad)
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To: Drew68

LOL...shudder...ewww.


59 posted on 07/28/2018 2:08:42 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom
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To: LostInBayport

Who knew there was a conservative in Bayport!?!?


60 posted on 07/28/2018 2:09:33 PM PDT by Hoosier-Daddy ("Washington, DC. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious")
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