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When Did It Become Controversial To Keep Men Out Of The Women's Bathroom?
Townhall.com ^ | April 5, 2016 | John Hawkins

Posted on 04/05/2016 5:16:08 AM PDT by Kaslin

"But I will tell you what: the first man that walks in my daughter’s bathroom, he ain’t going to have to worry about surgery.” -- Lt. Gen. (ret.) William “Jerry” Boykin

I’m sure there are a great many people who are probably shocked to see that quote from William Boykin, but why should they be? Men have had that sort of protective attitude toward their daughters for as long as anyone can remember. That hasn’t changed, but what has recently changed is the profoundly unhealthy attitude many people in our society have taken towards transsexualism.

Determining what percentage of the population is actually transgender is very difficult. For example, would Bruce Jenner have counted before he started dressing in women’s clothes or not? But, the best estimate puts transgenders at about .3% of the population. However, if you’re talking about people who’ve had hormones and surgery and also dress in the opposite gender’s clothes as opposed to simply “feeling like a woman,” it’s most certainly lower. On the other hand, roughly 50.4% of Americans really are women. That means there are 168 women for every transgender person in America. Even if we accept that a transgender man dressed like a woman would be embarrassed to go into a men’s bathroom, doesn’t it make more sense for him to be uncomfortable than all those women? Why do his rights supersede the rights of so many women who just want to use the bathroom in peace without prying male eyes watching them?

Even with the limited experience we have as a society with this ridiculous idea, there have already been some incidents that should prompt the concern of lawmakers who are interested in protecting women in their state.

* "A Palmdale, California man wearing women’s clothing was arrested in a Lancaster Macy’s store after he was seen in a women’s bathroom. The man was allegedly videotaping women in the bathroom."

* “Seattle Parks and Recreation is facing a first-of-a-kind challenge to gender bathroom rules. A man undressed in a women’s locker room, citing a new state rule that allows people to choose a bathroom based on gender identity. It was a busy time at Evans Pool....The pool was open for lap swim. According to Seattle Parks and Recreation, a man wearing board shorts entered the women’s locker room and took off his shirt. Women alerted staff, who told the man to leave, but he said “the law has changed and I have a right to be here.”

How would you feel if you watched your 8-year-old daughter walk into a locker room and that man in Seattle walked in right after her? For that matter, what would you think about your college-aged daughter having to get dressed next to Bruce Jenner, who still has his male genitalia and is attracted to women? In a society where you can’t go five minutes without hearing someone scream “rape culture” or “it’s a war on women,” how is it that a threat to the safety, comfort and privacy of women in the bathroom is being treated like it is irrelevant?

It stems from the uniquely unhealthy way we treat this mental disorder and, yes, if you feel like you are the wrong gender, you have a mental disorder. The good news, especially if you’re young, is that it’s probably not a permanent condition. As the former psychiatrist in chief for Johns Hopkins Hospital Dr. Paul McHugh has said, “80% of those kids will” grow out of it as they get older.

So, what about the other 20% who will feel like they have the “wrong” gender long-term? Mental illness doesn’t make you a bad or broken person any more than a broken leg does, but like a broken leg, your disorder needs to be treated. Some people get over a broken leg in a few months. Others may have to deal with the consequences of that misfortune for the rest of their lives. So it is with mental illness. If you have a mental illness, it is possible that you may have to struggle with it for your entire life. That’s a sad reality that millions of decent people have to deal with every day.

Unfortunately, when it comes to transsexuals we make two huge mistakes.

First, we encourage them to embrace their mental illness. We don’t do this with depression, schizophrenia, paranoia, multiple personality disorder or almost anything else because it’s a terrible idea. It’s like telling someone who’s depressed that he’s worthless and everyone else would be better off without him. We would be appalled if anyone did that; yet encouraging someone to mutilate himself in a futile attempt to change genders is an even more horrible thing to do to another human being.

Our second mistake is that instead of having sympathy for people in that position, wishing them well and hoping for their recovery, we insist that everyone else cater to their mental disorder. There’s no law that says you have to stop cutting your hedges because your paranoid neighbor is suspicious of it. There’s no law that says you have to ask a person with multiple personality disorder whom he’s speaking to so you don’t shock him if you call him the wrong name. So, why are we willing to violate the privacy of half the population at one of their most vulnerable points during the day in order to cater to a mental disorder that afflicts a fraction of a percent of Americans?

This is insanity and until this mental health issue is no longer falsely treated like a civil rights issue, legislatures should do their duty and protect their female citizens by passing bathroom bills.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: bathroombill; genderidentification; moralabsolutes; privacy; romneyagenda; romneymarriage
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1 posted on 04/05/2016 5:16:09 AM PDT by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

When homosexuality became acceptable, gender separation became controversial.


2 posted on 04/05/2016 5:17:57 AM PDT by Jonty30 (What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
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To: Kaslin

:: First, we encourage them to embrace their mental illness ::

Precisely.
Sociopaths of the world, UNITE! Demand your rights!


3 posted on 04/05/2016 5:22:22 AM PDT by Cletus.D.Yokel (Catastrophic Anthropogenic Climate Alterations: The acronym defines the science.)
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To: Jonty30
Homosexuality is and will never be acceptable.
4 posted on 04/05/2016 5:23:41 AM PDT by Kaslin (He needed theThe l ignorant to reelect him. He got them and now we have to pay the consequences)
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To: Kaslin
"Homosexuality is and will never be acceptable."

Off to the re-education camp for you, comrade!

5 posted on 04/05/2016 5:30:03 AM PDT by Psalm 73 ("Gentlemen, you can't fight in here - this is the War Room".)
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To: Kaslin

Only the evils of liberalism could make it such an issue.


6 posted on 04/05/2016 5:31:49 AM PDT by boycott (--s)
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To: Kaslin

Deut 22:5 “A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman’s garment, for all who do so are an abomination to the Lord your God.


7 posted on 04/05/2016 5:31:51 AM PDT by DungeonMaster (the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.)
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To: Kaslin

We have a nation near the verge of economic collapse but liberals have made things such as this major issues.


8 posted on 04/05/2016 5:35:07 AM PDT by boycott (--s)
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To: Kaslin

It’s all about creating and nourishing the newest and biggest permanent victim group: dick choppers and grafters. By giving this group whatever it clamors for, the left guarantees reliable votes and contributions for years to come.


9 posted on 04/05/2016 5:35:27 AM PDT by I want the USA back (The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it will hate those who speak it. Orwell.)
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To: Kaslin

Gender ‘confusion’ rights is just a slippery slope away from pedophilia.


10 posted on 04/05/2016 5:36:07 AM PDT by FreedomGuru (Leave my gluten alone hands off)
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To: Kaslin

“if you feel like you are the wrong gender, you have a mental disorder”

Oh boy is this guy in trouble.


11 posted on 04/05/2016 5:38:13 AM PDT by V_TWIN
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To: Kaslin

Amen to that, FRiend!

I don’t want to feel like a woman, I just want to feel a woman, because “you’re only as old as the woman you feel”.

This world is filled with beautiful women; why should there even be any such thing as homosexuality?


12 posted on 04/05/2016 5:38:19 AM PDT by elcid1970 ("The Second Amendment is more important than Islam. Buy ammo.")
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To: Psalm 73

Smart toilets will be monitoring for any perceived micro-aggressions. Forward, comrades!


13 posted on 04/05/2016 5:41:11 AM PDT by Dirt for sale
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To: DungeonMaster

but don’t you see?

it is such prudish and chafing rules made by priests acting as the voice of God that must be discarded. It is not 1000 bc, it is 2016 AD

/s


14 posted on 04/05/2016 5:41:12 AM PDT by bert ((K.E.; N.P.; GOPc;+12, 73, ....carson was my guy but now is a Trumplican)
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but don’t you see? it is such prudish and chafing rules made by priests acting as the voice of God that must be discarded. It is not 1000 bc, it is 2016 AD /s

The division between believers and non-believers is getting so wide... something big is going to happen soon.

15 posted on 04/05/2016 5:43:20 AM PDT by DungeonMaster (the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.)
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To: Kaslin

Pardon my crudeness, but who wants to watch, or even hear, women using the bathroom?

The ladies room is not a public peep show.

It should be off limits to anyone who (still) has a penis.


16 posted on 04/05/2016 5:47:00 AM PDT by FrankR (You're only enslaved to the extent of the charity that you receive!)
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To: DungeonMaster

regarding that division, I wonder if there are any Democrat believers. I would lump all progressives in the non believers pile.

Then there is the black population. There are a large number of black believers who none the less toe the progressive line. That is intellectual hypocrisy. I can’t understand what can allow such mental shallowness


17 posted on 04/05/2016 5:48:23 AM PDT by bert ((K.E.; N.P.; GOPc;+12, 73, ....carson was my guy but now is a Trumplican)
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To: bert
regarding that division, I wonder if there are any Democrat believers. I would lump all progressives in the non believers pile.

Bert, you think exactly the same way I do. I've been complaining to Democrats who I can stand to speak with that their party is on the wrong side of the bible on every single issue. They can't offer up a defense because they laugh at the bible.

Then there is the black population. There are a large number of black believers who none the less toe the progressive line. That is intellectual hypocrisy. I can’t understand what can allow such mental shallowness

So that previous thought also take me to the thought of black Christians. It makes me really mad then I have to put politics in perspective.

In my mind I have the following conversation with Rush and destroy his whole show.

Me "What will happen to this country if Hillary wins?"

Rush "Total chaos, total destruction of all that was America, loss of all kinds of liberty, government takeover of more of the economy, dogs and cats sleeping together!!!"

Me "OK, than what am I to think of my neighbors who vote for her?". Rush "Uh, um, well um uhhh"

What Rush espouses can only lead to hating my neighbor as I love myself.

18 posted on 04/05/2016 5:55:20 AM PDT by DungeonMaster (the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.)
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To: FreedomGuru

Our rulers are pederasts who loathe women. Don’t listen to their words, but see what they do to confirm this. Next they will only feel comfortable in a women’s prison. Wanna guess how many times the tranny population will double overnight to get in on that smorgasbord.


19 posted on 04/05/2016 5:58:57 AM PDT by Dirt for sale
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To: DungeonMaster

The logical conclusion then is that you must hate your neighbor to save yourself

If you do not, all that is remaining as good will be lost.


20 posted on 04/05/2016 6:00:06 AM PDT by bert ((K.E.; N.P.; GOPc;+12, 73, ....carson was my guy but now is a Trumplican)
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