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Why College-Educated Women Can't Find Love
Daily Beast ^ | September 7, 2015 | Emily Shire

Posted on 09/08/2015 12:28:55 PM PDT by C19fan

You feel like you’re in romantic purgatory.

It’s real. It’s not a hazy paranoia.

And it’s not a matter of being too fat or too loud, too timid or too aggressive, too slutty or too frigid. If you’re a single, college-educated woman in Manhattan, the cards of love are stacked in favor of you remaining single—but it has nothing to do with texting a guy too soon or (not) sleeping with someone on a third date.

As financial reporter and author of Date-Onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game, Jon Birger puts it, “It’s not that He’s Just not That Into You. It’s that There Aren’t Enough of Him.”

(Excerpt) Read more at thedailybeast.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: bitchy; hypergamy; mating; unappreciative; women
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To: Toliph
there are a great deal many boys whose potential we are not developing.

But that's OK.


21 posted on 09/08/2015 12:45:25 PM PDT by NorthMountain ("The time has come", the Walrus said, "to talk of many things")
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To: Chgogal

Great minds think alike.


22 posted on 09/08/2015 12:45:33 PM PDT by umgud
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To: txrefugee
!. Divorce was frowned upon.
2. Women can make their own way in life. In the “olden days” a women could choose between spinsterhood and living off your family (if allowed), marriage, becoming a nun, a teacher or a nanny. Most chose marriage.
23 posted on 09/08/2015 12:45:47 PM PDT by Chgogal (Obama "hung the SEALs out to dry, basically exposed them like a set of dog balls..." CMH)
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To: C19fan

College educated women today have been indoctrinated by the feminist radicals in our universities into thinking it is “weak” to be a woman.

You see, American women today do not like being women. They reject it. They fight it. They might dress the part, behave the part, but they have no interest in embracing what it means to be a woman.

Many European, Hispanic and non-indoctrinated American women embrace their womanhood. They know its power, they revel in its glory and enjoy everything about being a woman.

That is the problem.....not a shortage of men.


24 posted on 09/08/2015 12:46:40 PM PDT by Erik Latranyi (Cruz is so far up Trump's rump that they may need a gay marriage license soon!)
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To: tanknetter

Yes you did. That is a good example of an intellectually vain urban woman, riding the carousel too long and hitting the wall. Only to be replaced by a chick with a better (younger) SMV.


25 posted on 09/08/2015 12:47:49 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: txrefugee

Women died in childbirth in your scenario, too—men might have several wives in a lifetime —and consider that a life expectancy of 45 did make for happier marriages.


26 posted on 09/08/2015 12:47:57 PM PDT by Mamzelle
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To: central_va
He must have a certain education, certain wealth, certain wage earning potential, certain height; plus he must have the 'bad boy' factor.

A high-profile lawyer or a Wall Street trader who is at least 6 ft. 2, and acts and dresses like Marlon Brando. Yeah, not a big supply of those.


27 posted on 09/08/2015 12:49:57 PM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: C19fan

How did it work out for the Victorians?


28 posted on 09/08/2015 12:50:12 PM PDT by donna (Pray for Revival.)
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To: lulu16

Considering I was attacked for those very things as a college freshmen in 1995, I find that article rather funny.


29 posted on 09/08/2015 12:50:30 PM PDT by redgolum ("God is dead" -- Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" -- God.)
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To: central_va

All of those dudes already have boyfriends...


30 posted on 09/08/2015 12:50:38 PM PDT by Axenolith (Government blows, and that which governs least, blows least...)
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To: C19fan
Maybe it's the pool of "men" that are available.


31 posted on 09/08/2015 12:51:31 PM PDT by Signalman
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To: central_va
Perfect guy 20-30 yr old biker with a Phd, his own business with a million in the bank and with looks like a young Brad Pitt and is 6'5".

I was close, only I was only 6'4".

32 posted on 09/08/2015 12:51:42 PM PDT by dfwgator
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To: C19fan

Problem is nature dictates to a woman she should mate with someone “more powerful” than she is. That used to be defined by physical size and strength which was easy to find. Now that power is defined more by how much money you make, women don’t want to date someone earning less than they do. But paradoxically they’re trying to focus on their career and earn more and more and themselves, continually pricing themselves out of the dating market as they see it.

The irony is feminists want us to defy biology and gender differences all the time when it suits them. But women don’t even consider defying their own instincts and dating a man who earns less than they do, even when reality has shifted to the point where the instincts no longer apply.

Not that it’s a good idea for a man to date a woman who earns more than he does. Defying those instincts are not easy for anyone, but especially for a woman. So most likely she will be unhappy in that relationship and she will let him know it.


33 posted on 09/08/2015 12:52:53 PM PDT by JediJones (The #1 Must-see Filibuster of the Year: TEXAS TED AND THE CONSERVATIVE CRUZ-ADE)
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To: tanknetter

And a man is not going to be interested in what a woman does for a living, or how much money she makes, it’s all about can she be a good mother and look good on his arm.


34 posted on 09/08/2015 12:53:10 PM PDT by dfwgator
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To: donna

Two things:

1: New “respectable” occupations for women from nursing, teaching, etc. So middle class daughters had more opportunities to support themselves.
2: Explosion of new middle class jobs for men from clerks to what are now called white collar jobs.


35 posted on 09/08/2015 12:54:41 PM PDT by C19fan
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To: KC_Conspirator

awalt


36 posted on 09/08/2015 12:56:47 PM PDT by VAFreedom (maybe i should take a nap before work)
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To: JediJones

Just saw a marriage break-up in my own extended family over this. She worked in the medical field and earned WAY more than he did (though his wages were by no means poverty-level).

She could just never get past that. Nagged the hell out of him for years to become more ambitious and strive harder for the brass ring before getting a divorce and moving on.


37 posted on 09/08/2015 12:58:46 PM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: C19fan
Q: What do you call a College Girl who is taking courses to get a useless degree that has no real world job applications?

A: A Cat lady in training.


38 posted on 09/08/2015 12:59:06 PM PDT by GraceG (Protect the Border from Illegal Aliens, Don't Protect Illegal Alien Boarders...)
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To: C19fan

Have you ever tried to talk to a young woman who’s graduated with a ‘Studies’ degree? That’s sort of like the college version of ‘Special Education’.


39 posted on 09/08/2015 1:00:52 PM PDT by JJ_Folderol (Just my opinion and only worth what you paid for it.)
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To: C19fan

Of course! Thank you.

My personal made up theory for today is that as women enter a profession, the men leave. Feminism is a culture killer.


40 posted on 09/08/2015 1:00:55 PM PDT by donna (Pray for Revival.)
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