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Too much praise can turn kids into narcissistic jerks, study finds
ABC7 Chicago ^ | 03/09/2015

Posted on 03/09/2015 3:47:59 PM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum

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Another tragic case of high self-esteem for no apparent reason.
1 posted on 03/09/2015 3:47:59 PM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

Does this apply to presidents too?


2 posted on 03/09/2015 3:51:37 PM PDT by Raycpa
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

I could have told you that. I grew up with those kids.

Endlessly praised for no reason, fed with false encouragement to the point of delusions of grandeur. So many people who are so arrogant about little achievement.

These smug kids were set up for failure, all probably intentionally so they come crying to the state for serfdom.


3 posted on 03/09/2015 3:52:44 PM PDT by Shadow44
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

The problem in our world is not “too much self esteem.” That is never a problem. People especially little ones, need as much love and encouragement as they can get.


4 posted on 03/09/2015 3:53:52 PM PDT by PapaNew (The grace of God & freedom always win the debate in the forum of ideas over unjust law & government)
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This may explain the bamster and the entire rat party.

The MSM never says anything bad about any of them.

5 posted on 03/09/2015 3:54:00 PM PDT by Lakeshark
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I remember in the 1980’s there was much concern about the self esteem of children. Now I meet a lot of adults in their thirties and early forties who have too much self esteem. They are full of themselves.


6 posted on 03/09/2015 3:54:11 PM PDT by forgotten man
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

Another “No sh1t, Sherlock” moment from America’s “best and brightest”.


7 posted on 03/09/2015 3:54:23 PM PDT by WayneS (Barack Obama makes Neville Chamberlin look like George Patton.)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

From my observation every little tyke(most) will be a narcissist jerks.
Moms in stores asking “please” to a little undeveloped jerk......
please be quite please settle down please this please that..Give me a break


8 posted on 03/09/2015 3:55:30 PM PDT by CGASMIA68
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and it only took raising two generations brimming with false esteem, no talent, brains, ambition or accomplishments to figure it out...

go figure

9 posted on 03/09/2015 3:58:07 PM PDT by Chode (Stand UP and Be Counted, or line up and be numbered - *DTOM* -w- NO Pity for the LAZY - 86-44)
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OK yes. whadabout some of the names these overindulged brats now sport....


10 posted on 03/09/2015 3:58:32 PM PDT by CGASMIA68
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

That’s one of the reasons I kept my kids out of the Gifted & Talented program when they were still in middle school.

At age 12-13 every kid is gifted & talented at something and IMHO telling them they’re special at that age gives them an unrealistic sense of their abilities.

It’s like a little league pitcher who physically matures a little faster than his peers.
He may be hot stuff at 12-13 but if he starts thinking that he’s gifted then he can be in for a real shock at 18-19 when the rest of his age group have caught up with him physically.

I don’t think you do a kid any favors by telling them that they’re any more gifted or any more special than anybody else.


11 posted on 03/09/2015 3:59:56 PM PDT by snarkybob
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

Uh, duh.


12 posted on 03/09/2015 4:00:24 PM PDT by Politicalkiddo ("In politics the middle way is none at all."- John Adams)
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"Narcissistic individuals think they're better than everyone else, live for personal success and expect exceptional treatment . . . "

Sounds like the definition of a liberal.
13 posted on 03/09/2015 4:01:05 PM PDT by Steve_Seattle
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Another more common, and greater tragedy is convincing elite children they’re mediocre or inferior.


14 posted on 03/09/2015 4:01:56 PM PDT by Born to Conserve
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I for one am laughing my Ass off! I just sent this to my one and only child, he 20.
I always said to him when he was little and in High School..
“We do NOT believe in self esteem in this house…we believe in results.”

He still jokes about it it but he is a pretty good kid…had his moments though


15 posted on 03/09/2015 4:02:33 PM PDT by acapesket
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"It’s like a little league pitcher who physically matures a little faster than his peers."

That happens a lot. Precocious physical maturity is mistaken for exceptional talent, and people are fooled.
16 posted on 03/09/2015 4:03:45 PM PDT by Steve_Seattle
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Well, it certainly seems to have worked for Obama.
I can’t say I can recall a more stuffed up little prick.


17 posted on 03/09/2015 4:03:51 PM PDT by tet68 ( " We would not die in that man's company, that fears his fellowship to die with us...." Henry V.)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

Where’s captain obvious?
People have kindergarten “graduation” now days. Big deal. You don’t crap your pants any more.


18 posted on 03/09/2015 4:05:45 PM PDT by TurboZamboni (Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable.-JFK)
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>>The problem in our world is not “too much self esteem.” That is never a problem. People especially little ones, need as much love and encouragement as they can get.<<

Thy also need to fail and understand thier role in the scheme of things.


19 posted on 03/09/2015 4:05:50 PM PDT by freedumb2003 (islam: The hands of the Chinese, the mouths of the arabs, the minds of the French.)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

I see this every day when I take my kids to school, soccer, or other sporting events.


20 posted on 03/09/2015 4:08:58 PM PDT by manc (Marriage =1 man + 1 woman,when they say marriage equality then they should support polygamy)
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