Posted on 02/03/2014 10:35:02 AM PST by carlo3b
I FINALLY BELIEVE, IT IS THE WOMANS SOLE RIGHT TO CHOOSE..
For me, it came down to a matter of nature, and fairness. I thought it through, and in doing so, I made sure that I really thought it all the way through..
After all of my many years of standing on the sidelines and observing, as was what I have been instructed to do, as a man, I have concluded that it should be the ultimate decision of the woman to decide whether she should be a mother..
In balancing, deliberating, and reasoning, there was but one undeniable truth, if it was the genius of our reproductive system, and the female of our species was chosen by design, biologically, to bear the burden of child creation, she alone should carry the decision of whether she wishes to reproduce. As such, she alone carries the burden of who should be the sperm donor, where and when the reproductive act should transpire. FAIR, and EQUITABLE, RIGHT?
We all know, or at least we should take a great deal more into consideration before and after making that decision, about how important it is in choosing to have a child or children, how that child will be raised. But one step at a time..
Can we agree that the choice of becoming a mother carries more than a simple yes or no. Far be it for me to interfere with the dynamics that should be considered in a womans priority process, but the requirements in that decision, by nature and necessity, is how and why to choose the potential male donor, for a milieu of reasons. By carrying the SOLE access to the starting point of reproduction, also carries the sole responsibility for the results of that decision, the wellbeing of the resulting baby..
Assuming we are all on the same page, the donor (THE MALE OF THE SPECIES) has a limited, but vitally important contribution in the process, the seed, or sperm. The donor, has decisions to make as well, first and foremost, does he agree with her choice of him as the contributor, and her choice of where and when, and even in some cases, with all of the new technologies, how..
As a summary, how many choices are involved in the decision to reproduce for the woman; Do I want to reproduce, or will the act be for some other reason that I should take the risk? What are the criteria for choosing a potential mate, or participant? Who will be the contributor, or partner, for whatever reason? What planning, or precautions, if any, should be required before the act? When and where the act should take place? What will I do if the act has produced the intended results, a child? What if the planning went awry and there are unintended consequences? What if I become pregnant, who else should suffer the resulting consequences? Are there any limitations on my decisions? What if I didnt plan, what are my responsibilities? What is my last resort?
As we have outlined, there are a list of choices that a woman has with her reproductive activities, and natural tools to consider, all of which she has the ultimate choice to advance, or reject along the way. With all of these options, who should be responsible for her decisions, other than the one that made them?
So, since I had no choice, no rights to contribute to her decisions, and, unless I was the contributor to the act, leave me or anyone else that were forced out the resulting process, out f the problems, RIGHT?
GOOD LUCK, AND GOD BLESS
A man..
She made her decision, and took the goalie out of the game. Puck’s in the net, so to speak, and the scoreboard already changed.
You can’t take the goal out of the net, so you play the game. At the end, you get the prize, or you don’t.
You can give that prize away to someone who finds the prize worth having, if you do not.
I can assure you, however, that the decision is one the ENTIRE team is responsible for making, not just the goalie.
In those cases where she never had a choice, THEN and only then is the decision up to her. (Rape, incest)
Kids all want to come to the party, then go home. Nobody wants to stay and clean up. The ‘cleaning up’ part is what men and women do.
You want to play street hockey? Fine, but good goalies are hard to come by.
In other words, abortion is for sore losers. You screw up? No problem. I’m going to make somebody else pay. In this case, its a little baby, and they pay with their life.
Easily the most puerile conclusion any person of either sex could come to: leave it up to the woman. Scared, selfish, hormonal, and angry, and your policy is ‘hey, I’m a good shot, what do you want from me? Let her decide.’
You already committed adultery. Why commit murder on top of it?
Please let me know if you want ON or OFF my Viking Kitty/ZOT ping list!. . . don't be shy.
Au contraire, I submit this is the ultimate reality that anyone with an ounce of sense and humanity would embrace.
Suicide by ZOT!
If you have an ABORTION, it's just fine, but if you CUT OFF YOUR ARM OR LEG , YOU GO TO A MENTAL HOSPITAL!!!!! WHY??? Becaue NO ONE in their RIGHT MIND KILLS A PART OF THEIR BODY INTENTIONANLLY!!!
Gee, after all these years I would never have figured you for the head in sand type, dude! Are you under the mistaken impression that not standing against evil makes it go away? Shirley not! That would be series!
Carlo, WTF?
Looks like it...
If a man deliberately impregnates a woman, he needs to take responsibility for that child. The woman has no real choice in the matter...commit murder or give birth.
Infanticide should NEVER be an option. If you don’t want the baby, give it up for adoption. That way, all of those involved in the pregnancy and birth will have what they want. And the baby will be a blessing to couples who have been trying for years to conceive.
Why is that so hard to understand?
About time you got here!
Someone wrote me privately and asked what of in the case of rape. I’m very sorry for the rape victim, but I will say in public, I don’t believe murdering the innocent unborn baby is the answer.
Tooooo cute....glad this moron got the zot! :)
Some people think he went crazy because this post is out of character for him, but it’s too late to ask him now.
I MUST agree with you. No matter the cause of rape, the fetus is alive at the moment of conception. If it is unwanted, then “donate” it to a deserving couple. But for the sake of one’s immortal soul, don’t kill a child out of fear.
Carlo3B, eh? I never would’a guessed. That’s a shame, but oh well.
Yep...it’s hard to talk to kitteh food! :)
I'll have to pass on the VK list to someone else. I just can't respond to zots while I am at work.
On Facebook just now——
Carlo3b to Jim Robinson
Sorry Jim. I left you no other option, as I tried to be too cute stirring up a debate.. I understand how it looked and how I placed you in the corner.. Love you Jim, thanks for all you do.. Carlo
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