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US married father's horror after wife places his child with an adopted family without telling him
Daily Mail [UK] ^ | 3 December 2012 | Nina Golgowski

Posted on 12/04/2012 12:24:52 PM PST by Slings and Arrows

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To: drjimmy

I wish FreeRepublic had ‘Like’ buttons. I agree, this father has always wanted the baby, and she should never have Ben taken from him!


61 posted on 12/04/2012 2:11:22 PM PST by passionfruit (When illegals become legal, even they won't do the work Americans won't do)
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To: Chickensoup
Our children were born in ‘63 ‘66 and ‘72. When were yours born?
62 posted on 12/04/2012 2:12:37 PM PST by Ditter
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To: rovenstinez

When you’re in a hole - STOP DIGGING.

This latest reply does nothing to help alleviate your remarks in post 5.


63 posted on 12/04/2012 2:13:07 PM PST by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: Slings and Arrows

That child was sold or given by her mother to an “adoption” agency that is obviously dabbling in quasi-legal human trafficking-that is kidnapping. The mother of the child likely did the deed for money and to get back at her soldier-husband for some slight, and I think she ought to do hard time for fraud-someoner paid cold hard cash for that baby-child theft and selling isn’t free.

The couple adopting the child are apparently trying to play a religion card to keep the child, even though they knew the adoption was bogus from the gitgo-they should shut up and give the kid back NOW, not in 60 days as ordered, or be arrested for being a party to a child abduction.

That human trafficking syndicate posing as an “adoption agency” should be closed and the owners jailed.

As soon as the little girl is returned to her father, I hope he sues the bogus adoptive couple, the agency, and especially his selfish ex-wife. Poor man...


64 posted on 12/04/2012 2:15:28 PM PST by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up your boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: Chickensoup

“It is not legally yours until all rights are signed off.”

Or forcibly removed by court order.

We adopted two, in May of this year, 2 fathers, one mother. One father signed off, one father ignored the whole procedure after being notified repeatedly.

The mother showed up at two hearings and missed three, she was in jail during one of them. The judge read her criminal and drug addiction history and removed her rights.

“Two new additions to our family” - (with pictures):

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2886877/posts


65 posted on 12/04/2012 2:19:31 PM PST by Graybeard58 (What G.O.P.e. candidate is in store for us in 2016?)
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To: FR_addict

there are laws to protect military on deployment for just such events.

In this case

1. The court would have ordered paternity FIRST.

2. This is no different than picking a random child and literally selling them for adoption. Rember you can’t sell children but you do have to pay for lawyer fees, agency fees, and “living expenses” of the mother.


66 posted on 12/04/2012 2:19:52 PM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: Fightin Whitey
Is it here? (On the left side.) It's got "contumely," "ignorant" and "Russell Baker," and it's 29 years old.

Remarkably, in its history the NYT has printed about a dozen articles with the words "contumely," "Russell" and "Baker." (And not all of them by Russell Baker.)

67 posted on 12/04/2012 2:24:17 PM PST by untenured
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To: Fightin Whitey

Here’s another one:

http://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=1310&dat=19830327&id=-KZYAAAAIBAJ&sjid=QOIDAAAAIBAJ&pg=6909,6305516


68 posted on 12/04/2012 2:28:28 PM PST by PLMerite (Shut the Beyotch Down! Burn, baby, burn!)
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To: facedown; Mr. Lucky; Fightin Whitey

Hey - stop right there!

If anyone dares to call me ContumaciousTex, I’ll bop him right in the nose. hrrrumpphh!

;>D


69 posted on 12/04/2012 2:30:22 PM PST by RebelTex (Soli Deo Gloria, "To God alone the glory")
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To: Slings and Arrows

That child was sold or given by her mother to an “adoption” agency that is obviously dabbling in quasi-legal human trafficking-that is kidnapping. The mother of the child likely did the deed for money and to get back at her soldier-husband for some slight, and I think she ought to do hard time for fraud-someoner paid cold hard cash for that baby-child theft and selling isn’t free.

The couple adopting the child are apparently trying to play a religion card to keep the child, even though they knew the adoption was bogus from the gitgo-they should shut up and give the kid back NOW, not in 60 days as ordered, or be arrested for being a party to a child abduction.

That human trafficking syndicate posing as an “adoption agency” should be closed and the owners jailed.

As soon as the little girl is returned to her father, I hope he sues the bogus adoptive couple, the agency, and especially his selfish ex-wife. Poor man...


70 posted on 12/04/2012 2:50:00 PM PST by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up your boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: Slings and Arrows

How could she have LEGALLY signed over the child, without his signature? It could be done, if they weren’t married, but marriage should confer some sort of protection for the spouse who is not making this decision. She could have gotten an abortion without his say in the matter, but once that baby was born, it was legally HIS, as well as hers.


71 posted on 12/04/2012 2:55:58 PM PST by SuziQ
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To: Slings and Arrows

Oops-sorry for the double post...


72 posted on 12/04/2012 3:00:38 PM PST by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up your boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: SuziQ

,I’ve heard that the adoption laws are less kind to fathers in some states, but this seems just totally ridiculous-the woman prpobably went to Utah to have the kid where her husband wouldn’t know about the birth, so she could sell/give away the kid to spite him, but is it legal for the “agency” to deceive and hide the facts from a child’s legal and biological father in Utah?


73 posted on 12/04/2012 3:11:09 PM PST by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up your boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: SuziQ

,I’ve heard that the adoption laws are less kind to fathers in some states, but this seems just totally ridiculous-the woman probably went to Utah to have the kid where her husband wouldn’t know about the birth, so she could sell/give away the kid to spite him, but is it legal for the “agency” to deceive and hide the facts from a child’s legal and biological father in Utah?


74 posted on 12/04/2012 3:11:34 PM PST by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up your boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: rovenstinez

Hi, Kristi.


75 posted on 12/04/2012 3:12:13 PM PST by SeaHawkFan
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To: Texan5

In advance, yet-I give up...


76 posted on 12/04/2012 3:12:37 PM PST by Texan5 ("You've got to saddle up your boys, you've got to draw a hard line"...)
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To: rovenstinez

By your thought processes, children placed in foster care at birth and spend the first year and a half or longer in the care of a guardian must be adopted by that guardian, or suffer dire consequences. Or, children placed in foster care in the first three to five years of life, and who move from one foster-care home to another WILL face dire consequences. Unfortunately, there is little evidence that supports your contention.


77 posted on 12/04/2012 3:15:07 PM PST by SoldierDad (Proud dad of an Army Soldier who has survived 24 months of Combat deployment.)
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To: Graybeard58

So the courts signed you off! LoL


78 posted on 12/04/2012 3:16:05 PM PST by Chickensoup (Leftist Totalitarian Fascism coming to a country like yours.)
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To: rovenstinez

“the childs rights”

to stay with the kidnappers?? (as far as I am concerned)

you seriously think the child would make a conscient choice to stay with non-family?


79 posted on 12/04/2012 3:24:14 PM PST by GeronL (http://asspos.blogspot.com)
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To: MAexile

We have a good friend in a Central American who just died from cancer, leaving 4 children, ages 18, 15, 8 & 5, plus an older married daughter. We looked into adopting the children, but we told that the US adoption agency fees would be $10,000 to $15,000 (I was afraid to ask if that was for the whole family, or per child) plus $5,000 for legal fees in the Central American country.

A bit more checking revealed that the adoptive parents can be no more that 45 years older than the child. That ended our quest.

The Adoption Industry, bolstered by The Hague Adoption Convention, seems to hinder, rather than facilitate the process.

(the two youngest children will live with their oldest sister. We will do what we can for the older two, plus they have a very good local church.)


80 posted on 12/04/2012 3:30:39 PM PST by BwanaNdege (Man has often lost his way, but modern man has lost his address - Gilbert K. Chesterton)
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