Posted on 11/15/2009 9:12:56 PM PST by rabscuttle385
Is it worse for a Republican to have been caught naked on camera or to support gay marriage? Meghan McCain weighs the hypocrisy of the Carrie Prejean scandal.
BY MEGHAN MCCAIN
If you’re a Republican, is it better to be in favor of gay marriage or to make a sex tape? That is the question. At least that’s the question that comes to mind after the reaction to the news that anti-gay marriage champion Carrie Prejean made a sex tape. After watching several of Prejean’s media appearances this week, it was not her incredibly uncomfortable threat to walk out on Larry King that had me most unnerved; it was actually her appearance on Sean Hannity's show. This was Prejean’s first stop on her book publicity tour, and when the sex tape came up, he proceeded to ask her if she was "in love with her boyfriend at the time that she made [it]." I’m sorry, why would being in love matter when it comes to filming yourself in a sexual context?
Frankly, I am sick of all the hypocrisy when it comes to sex and politics in this country—and that goes for all politicians, not just Republicans. Carrie Prejean claims making that tape was “the biggest mistake” of her life—it’s the same one that many other girls have made—but it has since come out that she may have made seven other sex tapes and posed for 30 nude photos.
So I want to send this message to my little sister and other women reading this right now: Making a sex tape is never acceptable. I don't care how in love you are with your boyfriend. Jennifer Lopez made a tape with her then-husband on their honeymoon and she is currently in a lawsuit to prevent it from being released. I am of the mind-set that you should never record anything in private that you wouldn't mind the whole world to see. Because somehow, some day, those images will find their way to the public.
I know I’ve learned my lesson after posting a now-notorious photograph of myself on Twitter—and I had all of my clothes on. So this is not a good message for Sean Hannity to send, that if you were in love with your boyfriend it is OK. These tapes and photographs can ruin your career and your credibility, but it’s the laissez faire attitude toward them that I find so upsetting.
I find it even more disturbing that as long as you oppose gay marriage, filming yourself having sex is taken more lightly. Does anyone else see the hypocrisy in this kind of thinking? And hypocrisy is something the Republican Party can’t afford to have right now as the GOP struggles to find its identity. As I said, we all make mistakes and I don't want to be too harsh on Carrie Prejean. She is only 22, after all, and a former Miss California USA, not a politician. And lest we forget, she feels the same way about gay marriage that our own president does.
The problem I have with my fellow Republicans is why gay marriage is the trump card in any situation. It seems that as long as you are against gay marriage, any scandal in your life can be overlooked or overcome. When you are in favor of it, however—and I have been very vocal about my support—that position defines you.
Sometimes I wonder if I were against marriage equality, whether it would make it easier for some Republicans to accept my place within this party. I have to constantly remind people of my pro-life, pro-small government stance because the only view that seems to matter is the fact that I believe my gay friends should have the same right to one of our founding ideals—that all men are created equal with certain inalienable rights. I think if Republicans truly believe in keeping government out of our lives—that should include not dictating who one can marry.
Many believe that it was Carrie Prejean’s anti-gay marriage views that cost her the Miss USA pageant earlier this year. My question is: When it comes to Republicans, is your position on gay marriage what determines your fate within the party?
Meghan McCain is a columnist for The Daily Beast. Originally from Phoenix, she graduated from Columbia University in 2007. She is a New York Times bestselling children's author, previously wrote for Newsweek magazine, and created the Web site mccainblogette.com.
No, it doesn't.
Her failing to live her beliefs would be underaged premarital sex....(me guilty too..long ago)..if we are to belive she did that...which it seems likely
sending a nudie pic or vid is not unChristian to me between a man and wife
some folks here act like it would be
this idea that one must be perfect to criticize homosexuality and the marriage thing is nonsensical
that sort of logic is what has paved the way for the dismantling of most of very old traditions
that this sort of thinking has adherents on a conservative forum is amusing and troubling
Hey Meghan, please just go join the douche-bag party where you will be welcomed and feel comfortable. You’re an embarrassment to yourself just like your Dad.
it escapes her emotive ideal logic that we are first and foremost against her views and most of those of her dad...her wacky behavior is simply validation..
Not guilty.
I was thinking crack.
Good one!
Bada-bing!
She’s not hot enough to get away with being this stupid.
Congratulations, you are consistent.
Should anyone be prosecuted if she had been 16?...
So now, if you choose to be a spokesperson for conservatism AND relious values, you better either address the skeletons in your closet or be prepared to get the kinds of hits she's getting. What changed my mind about her is her hunger for lawsuits. Personally, I don't like her anymore. Did in the begining..thought she was gutsy. But now she's just another opportunist. Glad she said what she said, but I wish she'd get out of the spotlight and do something with her life.
Normally it is a stupid question, except when it concerns Prejean. The question being asked is "if you are anti gay marriage in a public way and you make a sex tape, will the conservative right wing of the republican party support you"
In the case of Prejean, the answer is yes.
Meghan does miss the more important point which is "if you are anti gay marriage in a public way, will the leftist media go on a dirt digging witch hunt on you, the answer is yes, and if you are pro gay marriage in a public way, will the leftist media cover up numerous indiscresions for you (Ted Kennedy, Sharon Tate's husband, Barney Frank, etc.) the answer is also yes.
Bottom line: Meghan addresses the small hypocrisy of the right wing while ignoring the huge and glaring hypocrisy of the left wing. (but yes, regarding Prejean, the right wing does have a consistency problem)
Being entirely consistent is hard.
I didn’t think I’d lose you at 16 though :-)
The guy was 25 BTW.
Exactly. There's no sense of logic in this article. But, this is what people do to bring down other people: They dig up dirt and throw it at them.
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