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Freeper Canteen ~ Sunday Chapel Thread ~ IN GENTLENESS THERE IS STRENGTH~ August 03, 2008
The Canteen Crew ^ | August 2, 2008 | Serving the Best Troops and Vets in the WORLD!

Posted on 08/02/2008 4:57:06 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma


 
 

 

 


 


IN GENTLENESS THERE IS STRENGTH



The parents were devastated. Their young adopted daughter had died in an unusual accident. She suffocated when the drawstring on the hood of her jacket became caught in a playground slide. It was later learned their child was not the first to die this way. Design flaws in both the hood and the slide made this an accident waiting to happen.

Some people might have viewed this tragedy as an opportunity to sue the two major corporations for a lucrative settlement. The parents, however, refused. In an interview, the mother said she would have seen any remuneration as "blood money." She and her husband believed the leaders of the two companies never intended to harm her child or any other child. Instead of a lawsuit, the parents appealed to the clothing and slide manufacturers to correct the design flaws which had led to the death of their daughter. Both companies took immediate action. Today the parents are leaders in a campaign to promote child safety, and the companies involved have contributed substantially toward their cause.

It is not always wrong to sue. There are times when it is the prudent thing to do. It seems, however, that our society has become increasingly litigious, suing without discretion for profit and personal gain. In light of today’s litigious climate, one cannot help but be moved by the choice of these parents not to sue. Instead they chose a "higher ground," earning not only the willing cooperation of both companies, but strong allies in their campaign to promote child safety as well. We might say they took the "pure, peaceable and gentle way" described in the third chapter of James in the Christian scriptures (James 3:17) as opposed to the adversarial way offered them by the courts. An ancient Native American saying reads, "In gentleness there is great strength." Dag Hammarskjold, former Secretary General to the United Nations and recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize, put it this way, "Nothing is so strong as gentleness, and nothing so gentle as true strength." In the end, the gentle, peaceable way of these parents demonstrated the greater strength and wisdom.

CAPT Jane F. Vieira, CHC, USN

 

 


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To: Kathy in Alaska; All
(Graphic by Chuck "Doc" Stewart) A Prayer For Our Troops: God, hold our troops in your loving hands. Protect them as they protect us. Bless them and their families for the selfless acts they perform for us in our time of need. Amen.
41 posted on 08/02/2008 7:54:51 PM PDT by Stephanie32
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To: LUV W

TX is a long way from PHX.


42 posted on 08/02/2008 7:55:23 PM PDT by DesertCoyote (SandRat Using DesertCoyote's Machine)
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To: DesertCoyote

Yep...guess it takes a ~wave~ a while to get here! :D


43 posted on 08/02/2008 7:56:42 PM PDT by luvie (Obama=Change: HIGHER taxes, MORE entitlements, LESS oil for America!!)
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To: DesertCoyote

Well you are a lil stinker!:)

Send her my best will ya please?


44 posted on 08/02/2008 7:57:58 PM PDT by AZamericonnie
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To: DesertCoyote; SandRat
Hello back, DC and Sand.
45 posted on 08/02/2008 7:58:06 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: Kathy in Alaska; All

Hi everyone, hope you are having a nice weekend.

((Hugs))
Steph


46 posted on 08/02/2008 7:58:10 PM PDT by Stephanie32
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To: SoldierDad; vigilante2; jackv; Jemian; sneakers; arbee4bush; Azbushgal; LUV W; mystery-ak; ...
Thanks, Military Families, for your service to our country.


John Conlee ~ They Also Serve


47 posted on 08/02/2008 7:59:15 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: AZamericonnie

I will.


48 posted on 08/02/2008 8:00:18 PM PDT by DesertCoyote (SandRat Using DesertCoyote's Machine)
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Hello Kathy.. from us both.


49 posted on 08/02/2008 8:01:33 PM PDT by DesertCoyote (SandRat Using DesertCoyote's Machine)
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To: The Mayor




HAPPY BIRTHDAY
~~~~~~~~~
RUS!!!
~~~~~~~~~~
MAY IT ALL BE GOOD!!!

50 posted on 08/02/2008 8:06:57 PM PDT by luvie (Obama=Change: HIGHER taxes, MORE entitlements, LESS oil for America!!)
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To: Allegra

Happy Birthday Allegra!

51 posted on 08/02/2008 8:10:08 PM PDT by luvie (Obama=Change: HIGHER taxes, MORE entitlements, LESS oil for America!!)
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To: LUV W; Allegra; MS.BEHAVIN; mylife
Happy Birthday Allegra!

Howdy gang! Havin' fun in Texas tonight!

If mylife seems ta be absent it's because he's hangin' out at my new digs tonight.

52 posted on 08/02/2008 8:26:23 PM PDT by NYTexan
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To: Allegra
Happy Birthday, Allegra!!


Click

53 posted on 08/02/2008 8:26:38 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: NYTexan

AWESOME!!!

Howdy, you two! Hope y’all have been having fun! (((hugs))) to both!

Like....whatcha been doin’?

Did he help you get your stuff put in the proper places?

I am jealous that I can’t be there! :D


54 posted on 08/02/2008 8:28:17 PM PDT by luvie (Obama=Change: HIGHER taxes, MORE entitlements, LESS oil for America!!)
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To: Stephanie32

Good Lord’s Day to you, Steph...hope your day has been good. Prayers continue for your friend.


55 posted on 08/02/2008 8:32:26 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: Jet Jaguar; txradioguy; Laurita; CMS; OneLoyalAmerican; tongue-tied; Defender2; Beagle8U; ...
To our Military -

Thank you for protecting us. Sleep well and safe.
May you be protected. May your families' hearts be at ease.

Thank you to our Allies.

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To those of our Military and Allies who gave their all,
- May your souls rest in peace. May your families be comforted.
May your/our country always remember.


56 posted on 08/02/2008 8:36:03 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: LUV W; MS.BEHAVIN; mylife

We are jabber jaw’n and feastin’ on pizza.

The dawgs are chill’n and it’s still hotter than hell!

My has helped out with the move too...

You can visit anytime ;))


57 posted on 08/02/2008 8:36:05 PM PDT by NYTexan
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To: NYTexan; mylife

That just sounds like a good ole Saturday night in the
big, hot city! We only got up to about 93...and had rain
last night! Hallelulah! :D

I am glad that the doggies get along so well. They could be
brothers!

Glad ya had his help...I was hoping you wouldn’t have to do
it alone! Thanks MY!

....and I WILL take you up on that invite one of these days! :D


58 posted on 08/02/2008 8:39:53 PM PDT by luvie (Obama=Change: HIGHER taxes, MORE entitlements, LESS oil for America!!)
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To: All

The Lord's Prayer

59 posted on 08/02/2008 8:40:57 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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To: blackie

Good Lord’s Day, retired curmudgeon...bless them indeed. I know, every day is the weekend...hope they’ve all been good lately. ((HUGS)) to you and Barb. Enjoying your gazebo?


60 posted on 08/02/2008 8:46:13 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska (~ RIP Brian...heaven's gain...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~)
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