Posted on 10/22/2007 5:58:59 AM PDT by Global2010
Howdy,
King Vanity and I have made it thru 3 flu bugs in 8 weeks.
We are lucky we have a roof, food and medicine in our homebound needs.
Well the latest. King Vanity's um Dad is coming with a whole bunch of family.
I went through with no protest on his Dads side the 9th circuit court so his Dad could never claim and I made my own finance ability govt free and have cared for KV 28yrs. So no legal attachment.
KV's Dad is coming to see him with the family and that is fine.
I was adopted and have no blood family though I know of them they are/were not pro life.
So other than giving us ideas of digging a hole I need suppport.
His Dad last came 10yrs ago I have lived in my Oregon home for 20 and left everyone behind so I could raise my son as a Freeper LOL you get it.
Last time his Dad and family came up I was really nice, fluffy so and he spent time holding and touch time with KV.
This time I am doing things diff.. He is coming with 5 folks I am going to make him stay and work through every shift I have to and see what it takes to Love my son. With 5 family members I will not keep food on hand and suggest they bring me a meal and if his darn Dad gets faint well we have 2 men coming up that can prop him up.
IOW I am not going to accomadate the beloved family I am putting them to work to assist me.
I will change out is trach, do day surg ect. Dad will assist.
In the end wipe my brow take a shower and then his Dad can rub his sons arm and say "I love you, son"
God gave me a gift. Others are at this point going to have to work to share it.
This is not spite this is reality, my life 24/7 and KV's Dad wanting to make another decade 10hr visit...it will be a working visit.
I already asked him if he could stomach it ...yes was his answer but he is as I stated bringning 5 family members to help.
Those who Pray for KV will understant my putting aside my human emotions but know this guy is going to work.
BTW King Vanity is SO happy to see his Red Neck Dad. (not a racist statement)
OHTH All those folks who have loved KV here in Oregon are ticked that I would allow my son to feel/touch his Dad.
So they will not be here. Fair. Many love KV and I can't hurt those who have been with us in spirit 20 yrs. But I cannot deny KV with his declining health a moment to touch/smell and laugh with his Dad. I left Cali twenty yrs ago and it was healthy. I will leave the rest up to God to judge in the end....BTW his Dad is coming because his Mom/Dad told him too...
I am going to be a big girl.
Prayers for you and KV and hope he has a great visit with dad. Good luck.
Can you please ping for spiritual help...the one sister comimg up is a Christian buddy of mine...KV’s famiy has always been supportive but not always with me and they supported me ....they praise God as we have held on and lived our life.
They love Chris.
I chose to give KV a better life and God led us to this life but I cannot deny his request to see his Dad, Aunts and cousins.
I need Prayer to swallow a lot of Pride.
Can you ping the other prayer warriors?
Nov 9.
None of the support folks who love Chris here want to be apart of this visit and I don’t blame them it is hard for me.
King Vanity OTOH has sprung up and got a psuedeo chipper and so happy and well, I know it is what it is.
Thank God all coming up are living God’s will.
LOL They are worried about our Labs biting his Dad. RRRRRR Kidding.
I moved your thread from Miscellaneous into Vanity. Just letting you know.
Seems to this outsider that you are doing everything exactly as you should. I will pray that you will have strength through this visit and always.
Thanks Jim.
Glad to have FR up but we had work to do any way.
Not easy to swallow pride ect and let a guy named Dad come from Pittsburg Cali with his family so they can all touch and love the “boy”.
KV is in Red Neck Heaven.
I again have to swallow my pride.
God Bless you and King Vanity. You are doing the right thing by letting this happen, and i think you are also doing the right thing in presenting this visit as REALITY to his dad, rather than making it some storybook reunion. i will pray that it goes well with as little stress upon you as possible.
Tears falling.
I have my big girl pants on ...
I have to remove all my feelings and allow this to be for KV.
I am going to share our around the clock care no fluff.
Thank God his sister who is my sister in Christ will be here.
Ya’ll have to see the Perk in KV to understand this is a good thing.
Human wise no, God Blessed wise Yes.
you are being incredibly unselfish and God will bless you for it.
Sounds like a great plan Global2010.
There is no one who has kept up with your KV posts who doesn't know of your love, devotion, and care, for KV. IMHO, this is another example.
The very fact that KV is so happy, and looking forward to seeing his dad, under the circumstances, is evidence that your love for your son, and desire for his well being, has been and is your top priority.
God bless you and KV...I pray that the visit goes well, and that it is the blessing that I know you desire for KV.
((((hugs))))
Just stick with the plan, open every day with prayer, lean on your sister in Christ, and know that we will be here praying for everything to go well and for you to be strong.
You are right on the money that King Vanity is the important one here, make this a great visit for him and it will be a star in your crown.
Bingo Open every day up with Prayer.
Hence I am estactic is if his one Sis can come as we have been “in Christ” buds. I love her and feel like a hug (I don’t hug) from her is Comfort.
Heh heh He asked about the temperment of the Labs.
Prayers for you Global, as you encounter your ex-husband. I like your plan of action.
Blessings to King Vanity too!
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Sounds pretty fine alright, to me.
More power to you and KV.
Your heart guides you quite well in such matters . . .
Praise God for your pluck and loving sacrifices.
A great testimony and model to us all.
LUBB, BLPH,
Qx
Please post your replies to Global2010;
Please know that I am praying. May God provide healing in this situation.
Blessings,
[Salvation for] trussell
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Sure, prayers!
Now, sis . . . pride is beneath you.
You have modeled better and learned better at KV’s side lo these many years.
Let his Dad have all the poisonous pride. You rise above it—hear?
Show them ingrates what Jesus sacrificial Love and humility are truly like—you are well able as few are—to model such at an Olympic Class Gold Medal level. So . . . JUST DO IT!
LUBB,
Qx
Thank God his sister who is my sister in Christ will be here.
Ya’ll have to see the Perk in KV to understand this is a good thing.
Human wise no, God Blessed wise Yes.
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OF COURSE! No other realities make sense.
No other realities are a priority.
No other realities are truly real.
No other realities are worth the dreadful deadly, dead-end prices.
No other realities pay healthy eternal dividends.
No other realities are worthy you or KV. So there! LUBBB
GOODNESS!
PLEASE ask the Sis in Christ to give you HUG LESSONS! Silly rabbit!
BLPH (Blessings, Love, Prayers, HUGS!)
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