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Lesbian Couple Files Complaint against Church for Refusing Civil Union Ceremony
LifeSiteNews.com ^ | July 10, 2007 | Peter J. Smith

Posted on 07/10/2007 8:27:34 PM PDT by monomaniac

OCEAN GROVE, New Jersey (LifeSiteNews.com) - A New Jersey lesbian couple has filed a civil rights complaint against a Christian seaside retreat association that refused to facilitate their "civil union."

Harriet Bernstein and Luisa Paster filed the complaint June 19 with the state attorney general's office on the grounds of discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation after the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association declined the use of their Boardwalk Pavilion for their civil union ceremony, planned for September.

Bernstein and Paster demanded "whatever relief is provided by law" including unspecified "compensatory damages for economic loss, humiliation, [and] mental pain."

New Jersey's anti-discrimination laws currently forbid those who "offer goods, services, and facilities to the general public" from "directly or indirectly denying or withholding any accommodation, service, benefit, or privilege to an individual" on the basis of sexual orientation.

However the OGCMA has stated that it must adhere to the rules of the United Methodist Book of Discipline, which forbids homosexual civil unions from being performed in churches and other areas for worship.

"The facility that they requested is a facility we have used exclusively for our camp meeting mission and worship celebrations since 1869," Scott Hoffman, OGCMA's chief administrative officer told LifeSiteNews.com.

The Pavilion is routinely used for worship ceremonies and gospel concerts, and used to be available for weddings until recently, Hoffman said. "Right now we're waiting for a response from the attorney general's office as what to do next."

The application required to use the facilities does inform applicants that the facilities are only "available for usage that is consistent with the United Methodist Church Book of Discipline." (http://www.ogcma.org/files/fac.tif)

On top of that, the form Bernstein and Paster submitted in February would have also agreed to "indemnify and hold harmless" the OGCMA from claims arising from the use of the facility.

Although the OGCMA had 20 days to respond to the charges, Hoffman said his group "requested another 10 days so we would be able to fully and adequately prepare our response."

The group is considering all options, and contacted the Alliance Defense Fund for added legal expertise over its first amendment rights. Hoffman said his church group will attempt mediation with Bernstein and Paster to keep it out of the attorney general's office, but will not compromise.

"We are most definitively a religious organization, our mission statement is to provide a place for spiritual birth, growth and renewal in a Christian seaside setting," said chief administrative officer Scott Hoffman. "We don't think that by the way the rules are written now that churches are required by any stretch of the imagination to adhere to those policies, and we don't think we are either."


TOPICS: News/Current Events; US: New Jersey
KEYWORDS: civilunion; homosexualagenda; homosexuality; lawsuitabuse; moralabsolutes; newjersey
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1 posted on 07/10/2007 8:27:37 PM PDT by monomaniac
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To: monomaniac

If they wanted a civil service they should have gone to the court house.


2 posted on 07/10/2007 8:29:03 PM PDT by TASMANIANRED (Taz Struck By Lightning Faces Battery Charge)
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To: monomaniac

Oh boy!

I live in New Jersey.

It’s queer heaven. I will try to follow this.


3 posted on 07/10/2007 8:30:44 PM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: TASMANIANRED

dont the church have civil rights too? These people are trying to force their view onto others. It has moved from a private matter to something that will effect others


4 posted on 07/10/2007 8:31:05 PM PDT by 4rcane
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To: monomaniac

Soon they will be able to charge the owners with a thoughtcrime, errr, hate crime.


5 posted on 07/10/2007 8:31:14 PM PDT by jtal
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To: TASMANIANRED
Yep. A church is not obligated to offer its facilities to non-believers.

"Show me just what Mohammed brought that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached." - Manuel II Palelologus

6 posted on 07/10/2007 8:31:26 PM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives In My Heart Forever)
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To: monomaniac

It’s like a Christian going into a mosque and demanding a Christian ceremony.


7 posted on 07/10/2007 8:31:30 PM PDT by SteveMcKing
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To: TASMANIANRED
If they wanted a civil service they should have gone to the court house.

But of course that's not what they're really up to, is it?

8 posted on 07/10/2007 8:31:30 PM PDT by Bernard Marx
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I hear ya but Corzine is a supporter of this crap.
9 posted on 07/10/2007 8:32:08 PM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: Bernard Marx

No.

They want to destroy what marriage is and churches that are God fearing.


10 posted on 07/10/2007 8:33:13 PM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God) .)
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To: monomaniac

Abit like demanding the right to rent a Baptist hall in order to have a casino night.


11 posted on 07/10/2007 8:33:43 PM PDT by RobbyS ( CHIRHO)
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To: monomaniac
Membership to a church is voluntary (WELCOME TO THE USA!)

If you do not agree with the basic teachings of the church, do not join.

These people are like BullDikes in a china shop.
12 posted on 07/10/2007 8:36:12 PM PDT by elizabetty (Perpetual Candidate using campaign donations for your salary - Its a good gig if you can get it.)
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Don’t sue; just keep looking for a church that will do this nasty deed. I’m sure you will find a church that will, and in short order. GOD save us all!!!!


13 posted on 07/10/2007 8:39:37 PM PDT by doc1019 (Fred Thompson '08)
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Lesbian Couple Wants Access to Religious Property for Civil Union
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1863156/posts


14 posted on 07/10/2007 8:42:57 PM PDT by PAR35
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To: monomaniac

What the.........?

So you can’t pray in school because of Separation of Church and State but the state can infringe upon the church?


15 posted on 07/10/2007 8:43:47 PM PDT by Tzimisce (How Would Mohammed Vote? Hillary for President! www.dndorks.com)
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Lesbian Couple Files Complaint against Church for Refusing Civil Union Ceremony

Because, of course, they just want to be left alone to live their lives in private (/extreme sarcasm)

16 posted on 07/10/2007 8:48:21 PM PDT by fwdude
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I take it the A.C.L.U. will be helping the Studs.


17 posted on 07/10/2007 8:50:26 PM PDT by ustanker (Secure the border!)
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To: monomaniac

Why does Harriet Bernstein want to get married in a Christian facility in the first place?


18 posted on 07/10/2007 9:00:58 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ( “A nation without borders is not a nation.” —Ronald Reagan)
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To: TASMANIANRED

You can’t terrorize a church if you go to the courthouse : )


19 posted on 07/10/2007 9:12:52 PM PDT by stephenjohnbanker ( Hunter/Thompson/Thompson/Hunter in 08! "Read my lips....No new RINO's" !!)
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To: Albion Wilde

She doesn’t. She is probably ACLU.


20 posted on 07/10/2007 9:13:55 PM PDT by stephenjohnbanker ( Hunter/Thompson/Thompson/Hunter in 08! "Read my lips....No new RINO's" !!)
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