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The Offensive Truth: Relativism and Our Kids
Breakpoint with Chuck Colson ^ | 6/20/2007 | Chuck Colson

Posted on 06/20/2007 8:58:09 PM PDT by Mr. Silverback

I was dismayed a while back when I learned that a Barna survey found that “less than one out of every ten churched teenagers has a biblical worldview.” But a survey is just that, a survey. Things couldn’t be that bad, could they? Well, I recently heard a shocking story that vividly illustrates just how far relativism has infected the Church—to the point where Christian kids balk at the idea that Christianity would claim to be, of all things, true.

Four years ago, the BreakPoint staff and I launched Centurions, an intensive, year-long education program designed to equip 100 people each year to defend a biblical worldview and teach it to others.

One of our Centurions participants takes that call very seriously as she works with students at a local middle school. She sponsors a Christian club at the school, voluntary of course, and in accord with all the state laws. The students lead the club, and she mentors those leaders.

The club has been studying the ReWired curriculum, which BreakPoint created with Ron Luce’s Teen Mania. The DVD explores the four basic worldview questions: Where do I come from? Why is the world in such a mess? Is there a way to fix it? Is there a purpose for my life?

Everything was going fine until the group reached lesson 10. Lesson 10 leads the kids through a series of choices to learn to recognize the difference between matters of truth and matters of taste. One of the choices, “believing Islam, Buddhism or Christianity,” flashed on the screen.

Our Centurion—I’ll call her Joanne, told me what happened next: “The students went nuts. All but one of the eight leaders completely balked at the concept of distinguishing Christianity as true and other religions as false.”

The next day when they met again, Joanne told the students leaders that they would not have to teach lesson 10 to other students if they didn’t believe it.

Joanne learned that several of the seventh graders had talked to their parents or pastors over night. But the result of those conversations was shocking. One girl had written a paper that night on “why we shouldn't hurt others feelings by claiming our way is right.” One young lady had met with her pastor, who told her no one can be sure of truth. “It is all perspective,” he said. The students agreed that they should not offend others by saying Christianity is true. Only one was prepared to teach it.

While Joanne respected the authority of the parents and pastors, she encouraged the students to continue to consider the concept of truth, reminding them that Christianity--like Islam and many other religions--makes an exclusive claim to truth. She also reminded them that the words “I am the way, the truth and the life . . . no man comes to the Father except by me,” were Jesus' words, not hers.

What I find really shocking here is what this story tells us about the state of discipleship, not just of our kids, but of parents and pastors. This story is a wake-up call. We must learn what we believe, why we believe it and then instill it into our children, giving them a biblical view of all of life. We can’t stand idly by while relativism undermines the faith of our kids and robs them of the one sure hope they have—and desperately need. Friends, if this story gets to you like it gets to me, it’s time we got busy.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; Philosophy
KEYWORDS: antichristian; anythinggoessociety; atheismandstate; breakpoint; chuckcolson; culturewar; moralabsolutes; moralrelativism; pcrunamok; publicschoolsatwork; relativism; tolerance; whereisyourgodnow
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To: Mr. Silverback
I think my sarcastic post clearly captured the spirit of the last paragraph of Colson's article:

What I find really shocking here is what this story tells us about the state of discipleship, not just of our kids, but of parents and pastors. This story is a wake-up call. We must learn what we believe, why we believe it and then instill it into our children, giving them a biblical view of all of life. We can’t stand idly by while relativism undermines the faith of our kids and robs them of the one sure hope they have—and desperately need. Friends, if this story gets to you like it gets to me, it’s time we got busy.

So the kids aren't buying Colson's version of the Christian message 100%. Colson says it's all or nothing, and wants to "instill" the full 100% of the message into these kids. How does he propose accomplishing that? Pressure? Guilt? Constant reminders and incessant nagging? May not be "coercion" but certainly counts as "ramming."

An earlier poster on this thread told me that "relativism" (whatever that is) teaches that some people are good and others are bad, while Christianity teaches that all people are bad. WOW!! What an uplifting message to teach to middle school students! I used a silly example in my post to lampoon Colson's being shocked, SHOCKED, that kids today adopt the culture but not the theology of Christianity. That's true of most, if not all, faiths -- including the much-feared Islam. Certainly true among the Jewish community in which I grew up.

Finally, yes, telling a nonbeliever that your religion will save their "soul" is indeed "ramming." Once, twice, infrequently, no. But if I understand correctly that Christians are "commanded" to "share the word" as much and as long as it takes for the rest of us heathens to "get it," then yes -- from our point of view, that counts as "ramming." Coercion is not the only form of ramming. I don't have to ask myself why, because I know why.

121 posted on 06/23/2007 12:06:26 AM PDT by Freedom_no_exceptions (No actual, intended, or imminent victim = no crime. No exceptions.)
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions
I do not like any theology because I do not believe that any religion reflects the complete truth.

Why?

Oh, and did you realize that in the second paragraph of your post you assigned Chuck Colson two positions that he does not hold and has never expressed in any Breakpoint commentary, much less this one we're discussing?

122 posted on 06/23/2007 12:08:59 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: cantfindagoodscreenname

I hope you continue to make progress with her. Prayers up!


123 posted on 06/23/2007 12:11:12 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: MrB
Yes, to my “liberal” mother in law, those who are most offensive are those that are firm in their beliefs.

A quote has become common among the local peaceniks, something that originated in the Unitarian circles about how the people who do the most damage are the ones who are certain. I had been hoping one of them would spring it on me, so I could say "Martin Luther King Junior wasabsolutely certain he was right. Are you saying he was a force for evil?" Then i would move away to watch their heads explode from a safe distance.

124 posted on 06/23/2007 12:17:30 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: Mr. Silverback
No, you should accept Christ because you're a sinner and desperately need His love. You should accept Christ not because you might die tonight, but because you will live tomorrow, and the day after that...

No, what I desperately need is a girlfriend and more stable employment. And you really should renounce pizza toppings other than meatball. Thus spaketh Freedom_no_exceptions, unto whom the Great Chef of the Universe exclusively bestowed His divinely delicious knowledge.

I've got plenty of faults as a person, but "sinner" is not one of them. Sorry to disappoint.

125 posted on 06/23/2007 12:18:07 AM PDT by Freedom_no_exceptions (No actual, intended, or imminent victim = no crime. No exceptions.)
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To: JamesP81

Great post.


126 posted on 06/23/2007 12:20:21 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: JamesP81; Freedom_no_exceptions
This illustrates one of the many disconnects between Christians and non-Christians. The non-Christian world classifies people as either good or bad. On the other hand, in the Bible God teaches that there really aren't any truly good people.

Ah well then, that would make it positions Colson never took that Freedom-no-exceptions assigned to him in the post we're discussing. My bad for miscounting.

127 posted on 06/23/2007 12:22:30 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: wmfights

Lutzer’s a good preacher.


128 posted on 06/23/2007 12:23:18 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: Elsie
Most people spout “Judge not, lest ye be judged” because they do not want what they are doing to come under condemnation!

Had a teachable moment with my son the other day. A TV character said "Don't judge me" and I asked the boy, "What does somebody really mean when they say 'Don't judge me?'" It didn't take him long to figure out the lesson: "Don't judge me" is code for "I know what I'm doing is wrong, but I don't want to hear about it." I went on to point out that if someone believes what they're doing is right, they don't ask you to withhold judgment; instead they defend what they're doing.

129 posted on 06/23/2007 12:28:28 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions
I've got plenty of faults as a person, but "sinner" is not one of them.

God disagrees:

This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God 24and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.--Romans 3:22-24, emphasis mine.

130 posted on 06/23/2007 12:36:49 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: Mr. Silverback
Me: I do not like any theology because I do not believe that any religion reflects the complete truth.

You: Why?

I don't have time for a lengthy reply to something like this, so I'll instead post a link to an atheist "how-to-talk-to-believers" speech that explains why I'm a skeptic. I hope this works, because I never posted a link on FR before.

Everyone's a Skeptic--About Other Religions

131 posted on 06/23/2007 12:42:52 AM PDT by Freedom_no_exceptions (No actual, intended, or imminent victim = no crime. No exceptions.)
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions
I'll try the link again:

Everyone's a Skeptic--About Other Religions

132 posted on 06/23/2007 12:45:04 AM PDT by Freedom_no_exceptions (No actual, intended, or imminent victim = no crime. No exceptions.)
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions
May not be "coercion" but certainly counts as "ramming."

What Colson's talking about here is Chriatians passing their values on to their kids. So, are you saying you didn't learn any values from your parents, or are you saying that they rammed it all down your throat?

An earlier poster on this thread told me that "relativism" (whatever that is) teaches that some people are good and others are bad, while Christianity teaches that all people are bad. WOW!! What an uplifting message to teach to middle school students!

Wow, what a total way to miss the point! Seriously though, have you ever even looked up Christianity in an encyclopedia? What you've said here is like saying that a mother hates her child because she dares acknowledge that labor was painful. You've left half the story out, and condemn those who tell the whole story. Sure, the message of Christianity is that all have fallen short and none of us are inherently good. But the rest of the story is that when we have Christ as the Lord of our lives we can begin to overcome that evil. We are first saved from Hell and then molded in His image, growing more like Him as we walk with Him.

But if I understand correctly that Christians are "commanded" to "share the word" as much and as long as it takes for the rest of us heathens to "get it," then yes --

If you believe that you have been fed a pure line male bovine fecal matter, my friend. There is nothing in the Bible or the practices of any denomination that endorses harassment. Could you possibly be confusing real Christians with Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses, who are known for knocking on your door on a regular basis until you threaten them? If not, you are again making the accusation of coercion where there is none.

Lastly... What you seem to be saying is that if Bob believes Joe is going to miss out on the coolest thing ever and be in pain forever, and Bob tells him about it, Bob's a bad person. But if he keeps this concern to himself, believing his friend is totally screwed but not doing anything about it, that makes him a stan up guy. Or maybe he's OK if he mentions it twice, but three times makes him horrible? Right?

133 posted on 06/23/2007 12:52:56 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions

The link still doesn’t work, but don’t sweat it. I’ve seen the silly “everybody’s an atheist” argument before and let’s just say I didn’t exactly find it intellectually breathtaking.


134 posted on 06/23/2007 12:57:51 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback (A pacifist sees no distinction between the arsonist and the fireman--Freeper ccmay)
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To: Mr. Silverback
This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God 24and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.--Romans 3:22-24

Who's "God"?

Yeah, I keep hearing this, but...no...still no evidence of a God. I did not post to this thread to debate the existence of a God -- got bored of that years ago, and I do not type fast enough. I posted only to make the point that Colson has a lot of work ahead of him if he wants an entire generation of kids to accept 100% of his beliefs as true.

135 posted on 06/23/2007 1:01:31 AM PDT by Freedom_no_exceptions (No actual, intended, or imminent victim = no crime. No exceptions.)
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To: Mr. Silverback
Yep, you got me. I missed the point entirely. That's been my life...always missing the point. In fact, I can't believe I'm still alive, much less passing a bar exam, paying a mortgage, and posting on FR, what with my mind so defective and all.

Seriously, I know what Christianity is, salvation and all. I just happen to disagree with it. That wasn't my point in posting to this thread -- a point YOU clearly missed. And I only posted the link to the "Everyone's a Skeptic" article (not "atheist" -- another point YOU missed) in response to a question of yours.

So what is Bob supposed to do if he believes Joe is going to hell?? More importantly, when, how often, and at what length? Incessant preaching wouldn't make him a bad person...but pretty f***ing annoying. I know. I went to college with these people. Constantly inviting me to church, prayer, and Bible study did not convert me, the frequency of your replies to me on this thread will not convert me, and if these are the methods Chuck Colson has in mind to "instill" his message in a generation of children, he will not convert them either. That's my point.

Good night...or morning as the case may be.

136 posted on 06/23/2007 1:36:41 AM PDT by Freedom_no_exceptions (No actual, intended, or imminent victim = no crime. No exceptions.)
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To: Mr. Silverback

I’m amazed how so many kids, in my OWN church, have been raised in the pew, and STILL do not have a good understanding of Scripture!

Oh, they may say they’re saved, but can they deFEND that ‘faith’??

Will it stand being bombarded on every side when they go off to college?


137 posted on 06/23/2007 6:29:03 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions
I've got plenty of faults as a person, but "sinner" is not one of them. Sorry to disappoint.

Ouch!


Full Speed Ahead!

The Captain wants to go water skiing!

138 posted on 06/23/2007 6:31:08 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Mr. Silverback
The link still doesn’t work, but don’t sweat it.

It must have died and gone to... Where??

139 posted on 06/23/2007 6:33:03 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions
In fact, I can't believe I'm still alive, much less passing a bar exam, paying a mortgage, and posting on FR, what with my mind so defective and all.

Good!

You are a fellow who will sift thru the evidence to make a sound judgement.

You now are being prayed for (rammed into God's presence?) by folks on this thread who trust in Jesus of Nazereth for their salvation; that you will be presented with 'evidence' of GOD's existance, and, of His love for you.


Myself; I'm off to see the grandkids Play BALL!

140 posted on 06/23/2007 6:36:28 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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