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Here, women propose marriage and men can't refuse
CNN ^ | February 1, 2007

Posted on 02/01/2007 5:37:07 PM PST by planetearthling

ORANGO ISLAND, Guinea-Bissau (AP) -- He was 14 when the girl entered his grass-covered hut and placed a plate in front of him containing an ancient recipe.

Like all men on this African isle, Carvadju Jose Nananghe knew exactly what it meant. Refusing was not an option. His heart pounding, he lifted the steaming fish to his lips, agreeing in one bite to marry the girl.

"I had no feelings for her," said Nananghe, now 65. "Then when I ate this meal, it was like lightning. I wanted only her."

In this archipelago of 50 islands of pale blue water off the western rim of Africa, it's women, not men, who choose. They make their proposals public by offering their grooms-to-be a dish of distinctively prepared fish, marinated in red palm oil.

It's the equivalent of a man bending on one knee and offering a woman a diamond ring, except that in one of the world's matriarchal cultures, it's women that do the asking, and once they have, men are powerless to say no.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Foreign Affairs; Miscellaneous; Unclassified
KEYWORDS: alcapp; culture; foreign; marriage; sadiehawkins; sadiehawkinsday
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To: Calpernia; All

My fried chicken, and other Southern dishes have the same effect on men.

Luckily for them, I don't eat like that anymore, it's bad for one's health (grin).

Being healthier makes me even more bad for men's health (grin).

Lord, I didn't just say that did I?

Too late . . .


21 posted on 02/01/2007 5:54:38 PM PST by girlangler (Fish Fear Me)
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To: Van Jenerette

"I chased him til he caught me", kinda thing? ...LOL!!!


22 posted on 02/01/2007 5:55:55 PM PST by Birdlady
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To: girlangler

I think it is my shrimp scampi that is the homerun :)

I make killer raviolis too. (stuff them myself)


23 posted on 02/01/2007 5:57:46 PM PST by Calpernia (Breederville.com)
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To: RadioAstronomer

http://granma.cu/ingles/2007/enero07/mar30/05condec-i.html
The Country of Cuba, received HONOR from this country.


24 posted on 02/01/2007 5:59:04 PM PST by rovenstinez
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To: Slings and Arrows

Maybe he is looking for a plate of fish?


25 posted on 02/01/2007 5:59:06 PM PST by Calpernia (Breederville.com)
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To: planetearthling
Guinea-bissau Women, Guinea-bissau personals, Guinea-bissau singles

Jessica4you29 singles in Guinea-bissau, Bissau. 29 years old

every woman need a man

Hmmm, found this personal online.

26 posted on 02/01/2007 6:00:19 PM PST by rawhide
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To: Slings and Arrows
marinated in red palm oil.


Once they're married  that red palm won't  be needing to be marinaded in oil.
27 posted on 02/01/2007 6:01:40 PM PST by grjr21
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To: planetearthling

Fish? No thanks. I'll have the lasagna.


28 posted on 02/01/2007 6:02:54 PM PST by Tall_Texan (NO McCain, Rudy, Romney, Hillary, Kerry, Obama or Gore in 2008!)
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To: planetearthling

Young women in traditional grass skirts walk in a village on Orango island, part of Guinea-Bissau, where women, not men, choose whom they will marry.

29 posted on 02/01/2007 6:02:57 PM PST by rawhide
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To: Calpernia

I'm sure some lucky girl is buying the red palm oil right now.


30 posted on 02/01/2007 6:04:03 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("Facts are a Zionist plot!" --MarkL)
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To: Slings and Arrows

31 posted on 02/01/2007 6:05:20 PM PST by Calpernia (Breederville.com)
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To: mylife
"I brought you some fish"

And I'll be glad to taste it, just as soon as I finish with this ritual disembowelment.

32 posted on 02/01/2007 6:07:23 PM PST by IronJack (=)
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To: grjr21

FRIGIDITY: Medical condition cause by chemicals in wedding cake.


33 posted on 02/01/2007 6:08:50 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("Facts are a Zionist plot!" --MarkL)
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To: IronJack
ritual disembowelment.

"McKinny Kari?"

34 posted on 02/01/2007 6:09:14 PM PST by mylife (The Roar Of The Masses Could Be Farts)
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To: planetearthling; Calpernia; girlangler

"His heart pounding, he lifted the steaming fish to his lips, agreeing in one bite to marry the girl."

My husband was a professional Chef when I married him. One bite of his Fettucini Alfredo and I was his Love Slave from that moment on.

Nothin' wrong with a spouse that can cook! Kissin' don't last...Cookin' do! :)


35 posted on 02/01/2007 6:14:31 PM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (Save The Earth. It's The Only Planet With Chocolate.)
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

My (then future) wife made lasagna for a family gathering I was invited to. As soon as I tasted that magnificent lasagna, I knew she was the one for me … 35 years (upcoming in April) later she still makes the best lasagna and I’m still here. So, I guess that custom works in the US as well.

Years latter she admitted that the whole purpose (lasagna) was to get me to chase her until she caught me. ;-)

35 and counting …


36 posted on 02/01/2007 6:15:50 PM PST by doc1019 (If Obama is elected as President, we will become an “Obama Nation”.)
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To: planetearthling

Welcome to FR. I like this article. We could all use more news from the other side of normal.


37 posted on 02/01/2007 6:16:49 PM PST by jusduat (I am a strange and recurring anomaly)
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To: planetearthling

Good first post for a Newbie, too! Welcome to FR.

You're not some scientist studying us, are you? ;)


38 posted on 02/01/2007 6:17:26 PM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (Save The Earth. It's The Only Planet With Chocolate.)
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To: Calpernia

LOL!

"Chomp"


39 posted on 02/01/2007 6:17:52 PM PST by RadioAstronomer
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

It doesn't? Well that's a bummer!


40 posted on 02/01/2007 6:19:40 PM PST by Calpernia (Breederville.com)
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