1. He's doing an interview in the offices of a company that proudly proclaims itself a Thai bride-by-internet company.
2. He says American women lack a certain femininity, which is often a code word for "submissiveness." Whenever you hear a guy trolling for Asian mail-order brides using the word "femininity," I'm highly suspicious. Plus he's finding himself a woman half his age.
3. He knew via e-mails he'd met Mrs. Right. That's just not sane.
4. He's an ER nurse wearing a pink shirt, white pants, and an emerald earring. That's reasonable doubt for ya, right there. As an American Woman, one look at an ER nurse in a pink shirt, white pants, and an emerald earring, and all I'd be thinking is GAY GAY GAY.
5. Finally -- and this isn't a perve point -- all the men in the article are complaining that Western women aren't loyal and have been scarred by relationships. Then we hear that these guys are average age 55 - 60 and divorced. So if women in their age group have been scarred by relationships, maybe these guys should look in the mirror and do some soul searching before they say, "I know! I'll marry a "feminine" woman my daughter's age from Thailand!"
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Yes, I do read much, which is why I did not spot your post until pinged. These are all your assumptions. None of that is stated in the article. This is why a good number of men have called you on your comments. You sound like the controlling domineering type with a healthy dose of sour grapes. No man will want that any more than a totally submissive doormat. Good luck in the Freeper dating service.
...As an American Woman, one look at an ER nurse in a pink shirt, white pants, and an emerald earring, and all I'd be thinking is GAY GAY GAY.
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LOL! I thought the same thing.
You wrote: . He says American women lack a certain femininity, which is often a code word for "submissiveness."
And that is so horrible? The last thing many men want in a wife was some woman who is going to argue about every little detail of life and is sure she is just as {blank} as any guy. Smart, strong, assertive, mean, etc. The worst case is she was right. I dated several women who were, and could not possibly imagine forming a harmonious household with them.
Submissivness is not a bad thing if it makes one happy. Not everyone is born to be a dominant personality, but many western women have been convinced they need to be, and pretty much ruin their lives and the lives of the men they marry behind that belief.
Whenever you hear a guy trolling for Asian mail-order brides using the word "femininity," I'm highly suspicious.
Suspicious of what, exactly, dear? That he wants a feminine, girly-girl, submissive wife who wants nothing more than to look pretty, cook well, and love her man. Horrors! Such beliefs must be stamped out!!
Plus he's finding himself a woman half his age.
Oh yes, can't have that! A man who has worked hard making a good career for himself should not even consider finding a mate who is younger, attractive and attentive when he SHOULD be wedding a 40-something western woman who will make his life hell.
Sadly (for you) marraige outsourcing is here to stay. La la la.
This really is what rubs you, isnt it? So if a man finds himself past forty without a family, and decides he wants one, does he have to marry someone his age where many birth related health risks increase, or can he marry someone of child bearing age?
You sound like one of the women that these men are trying to avoid.
Every word of your post spews "bitter, angry, woman". You can choose to stay that way and continue repulsing men, or you could start to soften up and be feminine. I know you hate that word, feminine, you twice put that word in quotes. But as much as you think you want masculine men, we love feminine women.
Real men have an internal driven need to provide and protect our woman and our family. Any guy spending time with you would only spend it worrying about protecting himself.
OK, so let fly with your response and make my point.
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What if the ER nurse with the pink shirt wants grandchildren for his mother?
An American woman might object to being used in a loveless marriage as a social prop and baby maker for a Gay man.
I can see the ads for Gay Magazines: Give Mom the Grandchild she's always wanted - fool the uptight boss, and and live the good life with an unpaid maid and cook... Call now for ThaiBride - your ticket to the good life.
You're right about most of your points. However, he might be looking for someone younger because maybe he's afraid most of the women in his age bracket are approaching menopause which can be a real personality-changer. Regardless, he should be looking for someone nearer to his own age, and possibly closer to his sexual persuasion...Pink shirt, white pants and earring...sheesh...