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We're Here, We're Square, Get Used to It (Democratic Party losing housewife vote)
TIME Magazine Online ^ | 5/3/06 | Caitlin Flanagan

Posted on 05/03/2006 5:54:47 PM PDT by TFFKAMM

[T]here is apparently no room for me in the Democratic Party. In fact, I have spent much of the past week on a forced march to the G.O.P. And the bayonet at my back isn't in the hands of the Republicans; the Democrats are the bullyboys. Such lions of the left as Barbara Ehrenreich, the writers at Salon and much of the Upper West Side of Manhattan have made it abundantly clear to me that I ought to start packing my bags. I'm not leaving, but sometimes I wonder: When did I sign up to be the beaten wife of the Democratic Party?

Here's why they're after me: I have made a lifestyle choice that they can't stand, and I'm not cowering in the closet because of it. I'm out, and I'm proud. I am a happy member of an exceedingly "traditional" family....

...Every reviewer and reporter who has encountered my book has assumed that I'm a conservative Republican. At the end of an interview on a national TV network, a reporter said, "Caitlin, I can't let you go without asking you one question." Here was her question: Was it really true that I'm a Democrat? Those reporters' assumptions don't tell you anything about me, nor do they tell you much about the reporters themselves: they made an honest mistake. What it tells you a whole lot about is the Democratic Party and the face it projects to the world. It's a party that supports gay families, as I do, and has vast sympathy for many other kinds of alternative lifestyles. But we let the Republicans have complete ownership of the image of the traditional family. And that's one reason we keep losing elections...

(Excerpt) Read more at time.com ...


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Editorial; News/Current Events; Philosophy
KEYWORDS: angryleft; democraticparty; ehrenreich; left; liberal; losers; women; womensvote
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I had to edit this one quite a bit to get it under the 300-word limit. Read the whole piece; it's quite good.
1 posted on 05/03/2006 5:54:49 PM PDT by TFFKAMM
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To: TFFKAMM
I'm not leaving, but sometimes I wonder: When did I sign up to be the beaten wife of the Democratic Party?

Why the hell not? I have this discussion with my sister all the time: she is strongly pro-life yet continues to vote straight Dem as 'they are the compassionate party'. Ha! They are the party of death, and the party of keeping people down and dependent on the government. The cognotive disonance is astounding!

2 posted on 05/03/2006 6:00:10 PM PDT by Rummyfan
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To: TFFKAMM
Interesting, but the first paragraph of her OP-ED really explains why the DIMs loose elections...It's their IDIOTICY, STUPID.
3 posted on 05/03/2006 6:01:57 PM PDT by Nuc1 (NUC1 Sub pusher SSN 668 (Liberals Aren't Patriots))
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To: TFFKAMM

It is a good article, once you get past the George-W.-Bush-hates-the-poor and all the other shinola.

The dem party of today panders to its most rabid moonbat members, and not to John and Joan Q. Public.


4 posted on 05/03/2006 6:02:03 PM PDT by Theresawithanh (Veni, vidi, velcro - I came, I saw, I stuck around...)
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To: TFFKAMM
"It's a party that supports gay families, as I do, and has vast sympathy for many other kinds of alternative lifestyles"

Except this particular "alternative lifestyle" "gay families" (what is that, anyway?) doesn't keep to itself and instead attempts to damage individuals and society.

This is cultural relativism at it's worse and the fact that even 'traditional' housewives are buying it is disturbing.

next thing you know, they'll be raising their children 'gender neutral', which really is raising your children to be many times more susceptible to questioning their 'gender role' and experimenting with the "gay lifestyle" themselves - in other words, raising their children to become gay. Why would any sane mother want that of her children?

5 posted on 05/03/2006 6:02:13 PM PDT by the anti-liberal (OUR schools are damaging OUR children)
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To: TFFKAMM

Its a good article!

Worth the read


6 posted on 05/03/2006 6:02:34 PM PDT by petkus
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To: TFFKAMM

Caitlin Flanagan is "traditional."


7 posted on 05/03/2006 6:04:24 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: TFFKAMM; Dog Gone; RonDog; Rabid Dog

I'm just wondering ... what exactly did George W Bush do against poor families?

I know Clinton ended welfare as he knew it, so surely she should have voted against him!

I notice a curious surplus of generalities and lack of specifics in the charges against Bush. What has Bush done that's so bad, other than cut taxes and invade Iraq?

Just wondering ...

D


8 posted on 05/03/2006 6:08:43 PM PDT by daviddennis
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To: TFFKAMM

For a better look at Ms. Flanagan, check out her long-rambling piece called: How Serfdom Saved the Women’s Movement -- in praise of nannies.


9 posted on 05/03/2006 6:11:11 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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This is just the usual media nonsense dispensing advice to the Democrats as they go into campaign season. Yeah, there's lots of "soccer moms" out there and that's why in 2000 Bush had to play the Compassionate Conservative card to stroke their "feeeeling" organs into voting for him. Still if you look at this op-ed all the Democrat talking points are there and they are just picking up with the strategy they announced after their 2004 losses - they are going to find religion and try and look a little more like the American Gothic. It promises to be quite humorous.
10 posted on 05/03/2006 6:12:05 PM PDT by rhombus
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To: Theresawithanh

A wanna be DILF.


11 posted on 05/03/2006 6:14:09 PM PDT by gathersnomoss
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To: TFFKAMM

I just got off a thread where the conservatives are being flamed but what is not understood is the Democrats have big problems too. Both parties have forsaken their bases.


12 posted on 05/03/2006 6:14:20 PM PDT by jwh_Denver (Illegal immigration 24/7, the GOP ain't making it 24/7, Oil 24/7)
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To: TFFKAMM

The women and the blacks are taken for granted by the 'Rats who have found a new group )illegal aliens) to pander to.


13 posted on 05/03/2006 6:17:03 PM PDT by Blood of Tyrants (G-d is not a Republican. But Satan is definitely a Democrat.)
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To: Rummyfan

I left the dems because of their antifamily attitudes, their subtle and not so subtle racism, and their arrogance.

I had rarely voted pubbie and was a dem volunteer.


14 posted on 05/03/2006 6:19:52 PM PDT by Chickensoup (The water in the pot is getting warmer, froggies.The water in the pot is getting warmer, froggies.)
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To: Blood of Tyrants

When I saw the vicious attack on Katherine Harris during the vote recount and hen trashing of blacks and Jews as too stupid to vote right I realized that they just use thee groups and will turn on them in a heartbeat. The dem party is all about electing a few rich white men.


15 posted on 05/03/2006 6:23:41 PM PDT by ClaireSolt (.)
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To: Rummyfan
I wish there was information that someone can give that would enlighten her of the Democrats.
There have been on here ( FR ) a list of anti back - pro - slave material since the civil war, maybe someone here knows were they can get that information or has it, it's real eye opener and maybe you could show your sister that information.
16 posted on 05/03/2006 6:29:19 PM PDT by Prophet in the wilderness (PSALM 53 : 1 The FOOL hath said in his heart , There is no GOD .)
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To: ClaireSolt
When I saw the vicious attack on Katherine Harris during the vote recount and hen trashing of blacks and Jews as too stupid to vote right

And don't forget the absentee military vote the dims didn't want to count.

17 posted on 05/03/2006 6:31:47 PM PDT by Graybeard58 (Remember and pray for Sgt. Matt Maupin - MIA/POW- Iraq since 04/09/04)
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To: durasell

Yep, nannies are great-- if you can afford them.

I find it weird that she beats up women for dropping off kids in day care when she obviously has the means not only to stay at home but to employ a nanny who helps her. Smells like hypocrisy to me... so maybe she could stay in the Dimocrat party :-) I saw her on TV-- she seems really creepy to me. She actually thinks "date night" for parents is bad-- like being able to have a adult-only conversation once in awhile is a bad thing? What planet is she from?

I'd much rather listen to a stay at home mom who has good advice (from experience) about the sacrifices you make to live within your means and still have a mom stay at home. Not an elitist weirdo.


18 posted on 05/03/2006 6:36:01 PM PDT by VictoryGal (Never give up, never surrender!)
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To: TFFKAMM
I'm in charge of the house and the kids, my husband is in charge of the finances and the car maintenance, and we all go to church every Sunday.

I would be interested as to what church she attends, and what they believe.

19 posted on 05/03/2006 6:43:45 PM PDT by SkyPilot
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To: VictoryGal

You want creepy? Her husband makes Barbie movies for a living...yikes!

She's not a hypocrite, she's a package. The latest thing in NY media circles. People package themselves as a pundit of a viewpoint,lifestyle or significant demographic and then base a career on it.


20 posted on 05/03/2006 6:44:19 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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