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"Dad Was Fine When I Came Out of Closet" -- Mary Cheney
Drudge Report ^ | May 2, 2006 | Drudge

Posted on 05/02/2006 1:10:54 PM PDT by meandog

New York, N.Y. – In her new memoir, NOW IT'S MY TURN(Simon & Schuster/Threshold Editions, 2006), Mary Cheney writes that when she told her parents she was gay, the first words out of her father’s mouth “were exactly the ones that I wanted to hear: ‘You’re my daughter, and I love you, and I just want you to be happy.’”

VANITY FAIR editor Todd Purdum reports that Mary Cheney tells her story in a voice very much like her father’s, and that she came out to her parents when she was a junior in high school, on a day when, after breaking up with her first girlfriend, she skipped school, ran a red light, and crashed the family car. Cheney writes that her mother hugged her, but then burst into tears, worried that she would face a life of pain and prejudice.

When Purdum asks the vice president whether he thinks gay people are born that way, Cheney scrunches up his mouth, fixes him with a look that says “Nice try,” then says: “I’m not going to get into that. Those are deeply personal questions. You can ask.”

Mary Cheney tells Purdum that her father “has very little tolerance for bullshit, pardon my French.” She also says that one common reaction from people who have read the manuscript of her book is “‘Wow, you guys really have this close-knit, loving family,’ and it always strikes me as ‘Yeah, of course we do.’ It was very surprising to me that people would think we didn’t.”

When Purdum asks Cheney if he is fatalistic about his heart disease, Cheney says, “I am. I don’t even think about it most of the time. You do those things a prudent man would do, and I live with it.” Asked what he would have for breakfast at Nora’s Fish Creek Inn, his favorite pre-fishing spot in Wilson, Wyoming, Cheney responds without missing a beat: “I’d probably have two eggs over easy, sausage and hash browns,” then hastens to add that that is not his normal breakfast. “The day I go fishing, I get off my diet,” he says.” At a roundtable lunch with reporters a couple of years ago, two who were pres­ent tell Purdum that Cheney cut his buffalo steak in bite-size pieces the moment it arrived, then proceeded to salt each side of each piece.

Cheney tells Purdum that he has not changed over the years, but perhaps many of his contemporaries think he has “because of my associations over the years, or because I came across as a reasonable guy, people have one view of me that was not necessarily an accurate reflection of my philosophy or my view of the world.”

Purdum asks Cheney if, during his “darkest night,” he has even “a little doubt” about the administration’s course. “No,” he tells Purdum. “I think we’ve done what needed to be done.” Of the debate over whether or not the administration hyped the pre-war intelligence, Cheney says, “In the end, you can argue about the quality of the intelligence and so forth, but ... I look at that whole spectrum of possibilities and options, and I think we did the right thing.”

Cheney rejects the caricature of him as the power behind the throne, insisting, “I think we have created a system that works for this president and for me, in terms of my ability to be able to contribute and participate in the process.” When Purdum says that the cartoon characterization of him must not be accurate, Cheney says, “My image might be better out there, this caricature you talk about might be avoided, if I spent more time as a public figure trying to improve my image, but that’s not why I’m here.”

Purdum reports that Cheney travels with a chemical-biological suit at all times. When he gave his friend Robin West and his twin children a ride to the White House a couple of years ago, West commented on the fact that Cheney’s motorcade varied its daily path. “And he said, ‘Yeah, we take different routes so that “The Jackal” can’t get me,’” West tells Purdum. “And then there was this big duffel bag in the middle of the backseat, and I said, ‘What’s that? It’s not very roomy in here.’ And [Cheney] said, ‘No, because it’s a chemical-biological suit,’ and he looked at it and said, ‘Robin, there’s only one. You lose.’”

Purdum talks with former New York Times reporter and former executive editor of The Philadelphia Inquirer, James Naughton, who asks of Cheney: “Does he acknowledge that he is not as pleasant as he used to be?” Naughton knew Cheney as a fellow prankster during the 1976 campaign, and all but sighs in search of an explanation as to why he is so different now. “I guess I would like to believe,” he says, “without any evidence to support it, that coming very close to death has somehow compelled him to act as though he only has so much breath and so much life, that he’s only got so much time to accomplish what he has to do. But the public figure is nothing like the private one that I remember.”

Gerald Ford tells Purdum: “He may have changed a bit, but that was required for the change of circumstances.” Ford, who will turn 93 in July, adds, “Times change, and people change as a result of that.”

“If you’re looking for a change from one point to another, being vice president is sui generis,” Lynne Cheney tells Purdum. “It’s not quite like any other job.”

The June issue of Vanity Fair hits newsstands in New York and L.A. on May 3 and nationally on May 9.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News; News/Current Events
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To: dinoparty

I meant...
If Cheney's daughter were in ambitious and greedy businesswoman INSTEAD OF HOMOSEXUAL, would we even be having this conversation? If not, why not?


341 posted on 05/02/2006 5:59:15 PM PDT by dinoparty
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To: little jeremiah

I agree with you. Is there something about my post that you are referring to?


342 posted on 05/02/2006 5:59:24 PM PDT by Annie5622 (Democrats DO have a plan! They apparently plan to stay stupid.)
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To: All

Maybe the Cheney's don't consider homosexuality to be a sin. Do either of them profess to be Christians?


343 posted on 05/02/2006 5:59:40 PM PDT by twippo
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To: dinoparty

The two are not mutually exclusive.


344 posted on 05/02/2006 6:00:25 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: durasell

Weasel words. Is the ACLU under local control? Is the NEA under local control? Are universities which spew forth teachers leftist controlled or local controlled?


345 posted on 05/02/2006 6:00:54 PM PDT by little jeremiah
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To: sinkspur
They use it as a substitute for rational thought.

Does rational thought trump The Bible?

346 posted on 05/02/2006 6:00:56 PM PDT by steve86 (Acerbic by nature, not nurture)
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To: DJ MacWoW
Sink I can't. My ONLY authority is Scripture. I have none by myself.

Well, let's talk when you can internalize Scripture. I'm not really interested in a Scripture quote as much as what you think that Scripture quote means.

347 posted on 05/02/2006 6:01:40 PM PDT by sinkspur ( I didn't know until just now that it was Barzini all along.)
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To: Annie5622

You were talking about people should come down off their pedastal to help homosexuals. I stated that there are many who do help, but homosexual activists and their assistants (as in the media, educational institutions, government agencies, etc) do everything they can to subvert that help.


348 posted on 05/02/2006 6:02:38 PM PDT by little jeremiah
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To: rintense
Man equates himself to God.

There is One true judge, and no one here is Him.

God tells us to keep one another on the straight path.

James 5: 19-20

My brothers, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring him back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of his way will save him from death and cover over a multitude of sins.

349 posted on 05/02/2006 6:02:56 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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To: little jeremiah

Don't local school boards have some say over what's taught and what isn't?


350 posted on 05/02/2006 6:03:17 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: papertyger

Ok I read the sentence again, and I'm standing by it. The point that I'm making is that a lot of people here seem to think that the best way to help a nonbeliever is to get them to quit sinning. In the eternal scheme this does nothing. Is a non-Christian who follows every word of the Bible any more likely to get to Heaven than one who sins? Of course not. So we must first convice the nonbeliever to accept Jesus before we try to change their external actions.


351 posted on 05/02/2006 6:04:07 PM PDT by Northeastern_Realist
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To: demkicker
I doubt she has but to write a book and not mention it at all would be plain stupid and imagine how the MSM would say.
352 posted on 05/02/2006 6:04:28 PM PDT by snugs (An English Cheney Chick - BIG TIME)
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To: meandog

Vice President Dick Cheney pictured with his daughter, Bill Pullman.

353 posted on 05/02/2006 6:04:33 PM PDT by Sloth (Archaeologists test for intelligent design all the time.)
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To: Sloth

OH MY GOD, BILL PULLMAN IS A LESBIAN IN A MAN'S BODY!


354 posted on 05/02/2006 6:05:37 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: Sloth

LOL, how on earth did you find a photo so similar???


355 posted on 05/02/2006 6:06:30 PM PDT by dinoparty
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To: sinkspur
Well, let's talk when you can internalize Scripture. I'm not really interested in a Scripture quote as much as what you think that Scripture quote means.

Their meaning and mine was clear enough for you to tell me that I was wrong.

You don't want to debate Scripture. You want to debate opinion. My only authority is Scripture.

356 posted on 05/02/2006 6:06:36 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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To: little jeremiah

Oh, I see. I was referring to life in general - as far as people coming down from their pedastals. You are correct, in that people have to be willing to accept help. However, perhaps that help needs to be presented in a more Christ-like manner, instead of with brickbats. And, btw, I don't believe there are any gay activists that have the true well-being of gays in mind. Or government agencies, for that matter.


357 posted on 05/02/2006 6:07:20 PM PDT by Annie5622 (Democrats DO have a plan! They apparently plan to stay stupid.)
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To: Hildy
LOL! I find that the HEIGHT of hypocracy from you, someone who judges EVERYBODY.

You just think that.

Someday maybe you'll figure out the difference between judging between right and wrong in the political sphere and condemning people. The first is necessary to keeping the world from descending into chaos, and the latter is God's business, not ours.

358 posted on 05/02/2006 6:07:34 PM PDT by EternalVigilance (George Allen's conservatism is as ephemeral as his virtual fence.)
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To: Annie5622
Perhaps in the 1700's the problem was being too rigid. In the 21st Century, the overwhelming problem is being too soft, too weak and non-commital. Live and let live. Whatever works for you. If it feels good, do it. I want you to be happy. Even those of us who solidly believe the right thing in our hearts, most of the time can't share it with the people in our lives. We are weak. That's the problem of today. It's not judgmentalism. Notice how little people say and compare that with the marriage amendment votes. Everyone has been intimidated into silence. What happens is, the lost stay lost and the weak get weaker. That's the reality. Everyone is supplying the right answer to the wrong problem, and our lack of clarity and fear of speaking the truth has become a cancer that's spreading fast.

Then you have those who want to speak some truth, but they want to corrupt the innocent in the process. They want to provide group therapy in our public schools. That's no answer either. Stop gasping at, "that's gross," and start being thankful that at least a few people still recognize that in fact, the behavior is gross. It's not bullying. It's the truth. There's more truth, but that's a start.

359 posted on 05/02/2006 6:08:12 PM PDT by The Ghost of FReepers Past (Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light..... Isaiah 5:20)
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To: DJ MacWoW

"God tells us to keep one another on the straight path."

But does he suggest we do that by whacking them over the head with a Bible they don't understand? or by teaching them what's in the Bible first? Then if they don't listen, you can whack them with it, k? :)


360 posted on 05/02/2006 6:09:25 PM PDT by Annie5622 (Democrats DO have a plan! They apparently plan to stay stupid.)
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