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An army of narcissists?
The Washington Times ^ | 4/11/06 | Cheryl Wetzstein

Posted on 04/11/2006 12:07:23 PM PDT by qam1

A few weeks ago, U.S. champion skier Bode Miller turned in a stunningly poor performance at the Olympics, with two non-medal finishes, a disqualification and two incomplete races.

Unabashed, he told the Associated Press: "I just did it my way. I'm not a martyr, and I'm not a do-gooder. I just want to go out and rock. And man, I rocked here."

Mr. Miller's exuberant self-assessment makes him "a poster child" for "Generation Me," says San Diego State University psychology professor Jean Twenge.

Americans born after 1970 -- including the so-called Generation X and Millennial Generation -- have become "an army of little narcissists," says Mrs. Twenge, who explains her views in her new book, "Generation Me: Why Today's Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled and More Miserable Than Ever Before."

Unlike their parents and grandparents, "GenMes" have "never known a world that put duty before self," she says. Instead, they were raised in a culture obsessed with self-esteem and feel-good mantras such as "Believe in yourself, and you can be anything" and "Never give up on your dreams."

The result is a generation of youths who are tolerant, confident, open-minded, ambitious -- and have wildly unreasonable expectations about how they fit into the adult world.

"They expect to go to college, to make lots of money, and perhaps even to be famous," Mrs. Twenge says. But when reality hits, and they don't get the coveted college placement or high-paying job, or they discover the high costs of housing and health care, many members of Generation Me crash emotionally, she says.......

(Excerpt) Read more at washingtontimes.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News
KEYWORDS: bodemiller; bookreview; clintongeneration; dissthescum; generationme; generationy; genx; mac; narcissists; pimp; pimpdaddy; powerfuldelusion; selfesteem; usteam; wetzstein; whitetrash
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To: Larry Lucido

No doubt it would do him a world of good.

The time to party is AFTER the job is done.

This turd spent his time partying and never once had the brains to remind himself of all the good parties he would have had if he had done his job. he could have been a hero and gotten laid a thousand times, Now he is a dunce and might find a woman who likes losers.


41 posted on 04/11/2006 1:16:22 PM PDT by sgtbono2002
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To: qam1

Blah. Blah. Blah. Blah. Puh-leese. So all the people fighting in Iraq, Afghanistan, and else-where are narcissists? Silly op-ed journalist.


42 posted on 04/11/2006 1:20:21 PM PDT by jjm2111 (http://www.purveryors-of-truth.blogspot.com)
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To: sgtbono2002

You might be right. I didn't read whether or not he bothered showing up for practice. If he really did party and not prepare, then it is an example of wasted potential.


43 posted on 04/11/2006 1:20:29 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: qam1

An assessment of military volunteerism comparing the Baby Boomers to younger generations would strongly refute this article. The most nihilistic overall generation is the Boomers, the second most are Gen Y, whom they raised wrong.


44 posted on 04/11/2006 1:57:18 PM PDT by GOP_1900AD (Stomping on "PC," destroying the Left, and smoking out faux "conservatives" - Take Back The GOP!)
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To: qam1
"Americans born after 1970 -- including the so-called Generation X and Millennial Generation -- have become "an army of little narcissists," says Mrs. Twenge..."

And is Mzzzzzz. Twenge a Baby Boomer, perhaps? I'm a Baby Boomer, and even I know narcissistic projection when I see it. My Baby Boomer generation was the worst generation of spoiled brats and continues to be so. It is the generation that begat the spoiled rotten among the next generation with fatherlessness through feminism. Most of my peers--Democrat and Republican--continue to screech, "Not in my backyard!" and "But what about the cottontail migration trails?" They are also responsible for the feminazi debacle of our corporations.
45 posted on 04/11/2006 2:21:52 PM PDT by familyop ("Either you are with us, or you are with the terrorists." --President Bush)
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To: familyop; qam1

Actually, I enjoyed reading her cv, which I think is useful:

http://www.psychology.sdsu.edu/new-web/news/JeanTwenge.jpg

She's likely no boomer, having gotten her undergrad in 1993.

However, conclusions may be intentionally skewed to sell books (bearing in mind book sales to Gen X are probably lower than sales to the Oprah-book-club-reading Boomers) or please superiors (since she's working at San Diego State, and a UChicago/UMich grad, she probably has ambitions to grander things). She has a few studies that lead one to think perhaps her bent may be typical psychological babble, but I think she's done some interesting research. Nonetheless, if I bother at all with it, I'll read the book on the shelf instead of buying it.

What's funny is that she has on the SDSU site a q&a about this that will lead everyone here to realize what a psych major she is. Her theory is that Gen X was built to high self esteem and when Gen Xers don't meet their own expectations, they lash out against attackers. This is particularly funny, because anyone who disagrees with her conclusions from Gen X will be in her eyes a typical Gen Xer. So this whole thread would 'confirm' her theory.

Doesn't that sound like some of the circular logic other psychobabblers have thrown at us? We're slackers...so we're bitter...so we're cynical...so we're slackers...

Never could stand psych majors.


46 posted on 04/11/2006 4:11:20 PM PDT by LibertarianInExile (Freedom isn't free--no, there's a hefty f'in fee--and if you don't throw in your buck-o-5, who will?)
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To: LibertarianInExile

...agreed. Many of the psych. and soc. majors and instructors at my university had a reputation for being nutty. It's no wonder, as much as people from those departments told others about themselves (and about their disfunctional families, etc.).


47 posted on 04/11/2006 4:17:02 PM PDT by familyop ("Either you are with us, or you are with the terrorists." --President Bush)
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To: qam1

the Clinton Generation comes of age.


48 posted on 04/11/2006 5:22:20 PM PDT by the invisib1e hand (Polls show Jesus' approval ratings at all time low, after a triumphant reception just a few days ago)
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To: NaughtiusMaximus
When I was a young man, I was full of piss and vinegar too

when I was a young man, a pussy like this wouldn't have lasted a week at my school.

49 posted on 04/11/2006 5:25:30 PM PDT by the invisib1e hand (Polls show Jesus' approval ratings at all time low, after a triumphant reception just a few days ago)
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To: the invisib1e hand
My generation, (what do they name the generation after GenX? I was born in 1985) is pretty greedy, and are very used to being satisfied almost immediately. Think about it, we've grown up with cable tv, computers, the Internet, fast good, and cell phones. I have noticed that overall my generation is rather fiscally conservative, whether they realize it or not. Many people on my campus (university of Illinois Urbana Champaign) have some pretty conservative ideas, but they end up getting caught up in Bush=fascist idiot. Most don't like government involvement in their lives.

I think this generation will turn out better than the Greatest (welfare creating) Generation and the Baby (aborting) boomers.
50 posted on 04/11/2006 5:42:27 PM PDT by RHINO369
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To: qam1
Every generation has it's narcissists. Every generation has it's heroes. It has always been that way and it will always BE that way.

The big difference is who the media chooses to focus on, who the media is enamored with, and who the media holds up as role models to the next generation. I blame so much on the narcissist running Hollywood and the News outlets who believe that everyone is as vapid and self-centered as themselves.
51 posted on 04/11/2006 5:47:25 PM PDT by pollyannaish
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To: qam1

I'd rather be an Xer than boomertrash anyday. Boomertrash ruined this country. What your generation needed was a few more Kent States.


52 posted on 04/12/2006 12:46:11 AM PDT by Big Guy and Rusty 99 (what?)
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To: RHINO369

I call you the "Clinton Generation." Nothing personal.


53 posted on 04/12/2006 9:09:58 AM PDT by the invisib1e hand (Polls show Jesus' approval ratings at all time low, after a triumphant reception just a few days ago)
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To: RHINO369

I call you the "Clinton Generation." Nothing personal.


54 posted on 04/12/2006 9:25:18 AM PDT by the invisib1e hand (Polls show Jesus' approval ratings at all time low, after a triumphant reception just a few days ago)
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