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There goes the myth of "the Japanese wife".
Uhhhh....NO.
These guys sound like founders of Plenty-O-Wimps.com...
We have a magic hamper at my house. I toss in dirty clothes, and three days later they magically re-appear as clean clothes in my closet. Am I a devil husband? I don't feel real talented.
The woman is demanding, shrill and actively unfriendly. She once explained to my (and her) father-in-law, a Pearl Harbor vet from the USS Arizona, how the US started the war. To his credit, there were no physical injuries.
It's not a fad, it's called being P***** Whipped and it's been going on since there were men and women.
My take on the subject
My ex is half Japanese and mean as a snake. Her mother has been here for 35 years and she's crazy.
They're just now starting to show up...
She's not a wife. She's a mommy.
I believe that for all the way they're spoken of in the US as being oppressive overlords, Japanese men have considerably LESS authority under their home roofs than American men do.
That means that Japanese men ride trains to workplaces where they have to bow and scrape and get shi**ed on alll day, and then they ride back home, where they get shi**ed on all over again by their wives. AND, then when they get alone with their MOTHER, she proceeds to sh* on him for allowing himself to permit himself to be shi**ed on by his wife.
So basically it's 24 hours of getting shi**ed on. So you smoke and drink to escape, and then maybe you go to soapland a bit to get some relief.
There is a clear Freudian pathology here.
Yuk! I hate P***y whippped men. They are useless. If anyman let me walk all over him, it'd be as I walk out the door.
In the Japanese model, the man rules as a Lord in outside of the home venues. Momma walks a half pace behind, and more than likely is a work at home Mom. Japan Momma rules supreme at home and usually is in complete charge of the budget. The home is immaculate and organized.ad is more like an absentee landlord as he must work long hours and schmooze with co-workers in a form of induced solidarity.
In either system it is not particularly healthy to have a man who is "whussypipped." The reason is that sooner or later , the man will have a lover on the side in order to connect with some feminine warmth, and/or to express a secret need for revenge. This makes the marriage a mere shell, and very unhealthy for children who grow up in a world of emotional falsehood and surreptitious insecurity. Thus the patter repeats itself.
Remember that freedom, a value which should be lived by Americans, is likely to devolve if marriage itself is a prison, whether practised by the male and/or female spouse. Freedom isn't free, just as our troops defend our country, so also must we walk the walk in marriage if we talk the talk. That is why the teamwork approach in American marriage, having evolved from the days of the frontier,is such an integral part of our nations freedom. It is now under attack by same sex unions, Broken Back Mouontain proapaganda, and the feeling that foreign authoritarian marriage models have something to offer to the institution of American mariage. Foreign marriage models offer little , except as a reminder that the teamwork approach to marriage is our American legacy. President Bush's relationship with Laura is an excellent example of such an American marriage, while Bill Clinton and Hillary's is and example of the "whussypipped syndrom"
WHUSSYPIPPED AGAIN!!!
Dom/sub. An old, perverted story.
So? Run through the lawn sprinkler, with a box of Godiva dark chocolates and well...use your imagination!
