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'These Boots are Made for Walking': Why Most Divorce Filers are Women
American Law and Economics Review ^ | 2000 | Margaret Friedlander Brinig, Douglas Allen

Posted on 09/06/2005 11:05:03 AM PDT by ExitPurgamentum

by Margaret Friedlander Brinig, Douglas Allen

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'These Boots are Made for Walking': Why Most Divorce Filers are Women


MARGARET F. BRINIG
University of Iowa, College of Law
DOUGLAS W. ALLEN
Simon Fraser University



 

 
Abstract:     
Because of the financial and social hardship faced after divorce, most people assume that generally husbands have instigated divorce since the introduction of no-fault divorce. Yet women file for divorce and are often the instigators of separation, despite a deep attachment to their children and the evidence that many divorces harm children. Furthermore, divorced women in large numbers reveal that they are happier than they were while married. They report relief and certainty that they were right in leaving their marriages. This fundamental puzzle suggests that the incentives to divorce require a reexamination, and that the forces affecting the net benefits from marriage may be quite complicated, and perhaps asymmetric between men and women. This paper considers women's filing as rational behavior, based on spouses' relative power in the marriage, their opportunities following divorce, and their anticipation of custody.



TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Extended News; Government
KEYWORDS: divorce; women
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To: k2blader

If you can't understand commitment is the key to a good, healthy marriage, you shouldn't get married. There are many things to be cynical about, but marriage isn't one of them. Either do it and do it well, or don't do it at all.

Who appointed you the expert? Do you try to run everyone's life and tell everyone what they should and shouldn't do?

My advice is get to a prenuptial. If someone chooses not to do it that's their business. I don't presume to tell anyone whether or not they should get married.

381 posted on 09/07/2005 6:43:13 PM PDT by ml1954
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To: Chickensoup
"The check was for the kids not me. I contribute 85% of the income in the household to get it to half of the pre divorce status. Sounds like your ex is more of a jerk than my ex...but they both are jerks."

My ex was and remains a clinically-diagnosed "psycho." However, the money has nothing to do with my opinion of her.
382 posted on 09/07/2005 7:49:11 PM PDT by RavenATB (Patton was right...)
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To: muir_redwoods

It's amazing how manipulative people get over some issues.

It's obvious to anyone with reasonable intelligence that I was making an indictment of how selfish people are in general in relationships this day and age. Once again, you are still trying to use semantics to force me into defending myself as if I attacked you. I'm sorry if you felt insulted or offended by this, but it was you who felt insult or offended by this. You know damned well that you can use generalizations to put people on the defensive when you dont' like what they are saying.


383 posted on 09/08/2005 6:46:03 AM PDT by z3n
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To: Hi Heels
Let' all annoy lentuslusgracchus with this quote?:

When ya got them by the balls, their hearts and minds will follow.

Hello, Hi Heels.

The guy who said that -- and it was a guy -- lost the Vietnamese War.

384 posted on 09/08/2005 11:10:52 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus ("Whatever." -- sinkspur)
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To: lentulusgracchus

All by himself? Dang....


385 posted on 09/08/2005 11:16:14 AM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: repinwi
Went to Mission Viejo High, lived in San Clemente for 3 years, Laguna Nigel and then the high desert.

Where is the "high desert"? You mean east of Tehachapi? Or up in northern California?

Just wondering.

I guess the "low desert" would be around the Salton Sea and down toward Mexico, below Brawley.

386 posted on 09/08/2005 11:28:40 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus ("Whatever." -- sinkspur)
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To: misterrob

Yep, most divorces are filed by women, so it must be the man's fault.


387 posted on 09/08/2005 11:39:11 AM PDT by frgoff
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To: JimBianchi11

Isn't it interesting that working to make the marriage better never seems to be an option?


388 posted on 09/08/2005 11:41:16 AM PDT by frgoff
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To: kstewskis

I would amend the statement.

Too many people have all the wrong ideas about marriage.


389 posted on 09/08/2005 11:43:29 AM PDT by frgoff
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To: EricT.

Bingo.

"Oh, but he was perfect when I married him, then HE changed."


390 posted on 09/08/2005 11:45:59 AM PDT by frgoff
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To: frgoff

391 posted on 09/08/2005 12:01:24 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: Hi Heels

I'll be sure to inform my wife of 15 years and mother of my nine children of your opinion. She always enjoys a good laugh.


392 posted on 09/08/2005 12:05:20 PM PDT by frgoff
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got to ping this one out.


393 posted on 09/08/2005 12:14:03 PM PDT by little jeremiah (A vitiated state of morals, a corrupted public conscience, are incompatible with freedom. P. Henry)
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To: frgoff

Some people are fortunate to find the right person at a young age. Some people aren't. Some people, if you'd care to read the thread before commenting, marry a law student who, 20 years later, decides to experiment with drugs. It happens. It was his choice. My choice was not to subject my daughter to it. My choice was to demonstrate to her that she, as an American woman, did not have to tolerate a man who plays around and risks her health, does drugs and risks their property, disrespecting her, their children and the families involved. HE filed for divorce after HE stole my car. HE also left us penniless and behind in the rent. Thank God for the church who helped bail us out. Now, you show all that to your loving wife and then show her your response and see if you get lucky tonight. Life happens. People change. Careful not to paint with so broad a brush. It makes you look self-righteous.


394 posted on 09/08/2005 1:02:17 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: frgoff
Too many people have all the wrong ideas about marriage.

Maybe it's the other way around.

395 posted on 09/08/2005 1:37:59 PM PDT by lentulusgracchus ("Whatever." -- sinkspur)
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To: lentulusgracchus

Maybe, but it sure seems today that everyone is talking about how marriage is all about making me happy, not about bringing children into the world and raising a family.

Or to paraphrase that great speech by Henry Fonda in His, Mine and Ours:

"Love isn't about going to bed with somebody, it's about getting up with them, and changing diapers, and wiping noses, and making sandwiches and cleaning up vomit, and staying up worrying, and cooking and cleaning and having your heart break and all the pain and glory of children."


396 posted on 09/08/2005 2:56:46 PM PDT by frgoff
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To: z3n
"Once again, you are still trying to use semantics to force me into defending myself"

I took you at your word as you expressed yourself. If you want to call that a semantic argument go ahead. Please be aware that I am not overly concerned with your thoughts, expressions or opinions.

397 posted on 09/08/2005 3:47:16 PM PDT by muir_redwoods (Free Sirhan Sirhan, after all, the bastard who killed Mary Jo Kopechne is walking around free)
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To: frgoff
Or to paraphrase that great speech by Henry Fonda in His, Mine and Ours: .....

Actually, I think his kids ratted him out as very distant, unfeeling, unavailable, and inflexible. Among other things. But then, that's Peter and Jane talking, so who knows if he was a good dad or not?

398 posted on 09/09/2005 3:23:41 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus ("Whatever." -- sinkspur)
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To: muir_redwoods
I took you at your word as you expressed yourself. If you want to call that a semantic argument go ahead. You took them as you wanted them. You decided to take them personally even though they were quite obviously not framed that way. Please be aware that I am not overly concerned with your thoughts, expressions or opinions. However, you continue to play the "last word" game with me, so even if my thoughts and opinions don't seem to matter to you, you sure do love to act as though they do. Although, I suspect you are only doing what I am doing, and that is to simply check all of your "New Posts to You" link daily. muir_redwoods, would you be at all interested in addressing my original points? And if you are still unclear about them, I would be happy to clarify them in a way that relies less on generalizations as well as being specific in not attempting to associate them with you personally?
399 posted on 09/09/2005 6:19:03 AM PDT by z3n
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To: lentulusgracchus

His, Mine and Ours was a movie with Henry Fonda and Lucille Ball.


400 posted on 09/09/2005 8:40:13 AM PDT by frgoff
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