Posted on 05/31/2005 3:31:43 PM PDT by CHARLITE
My daddy told me civility and courtesy would be a good thing.
Thanks. Everyone should hold out for what he or she deserves. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't.
"Thanks. Everyone should hold out for what he or she deserves. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't."
Well, I am as well. I had been in a couple of relationships with very needy women and that made me step back and become more cautious. I am patient and can wait for what is best and right.
Good for you. I kind of feel sorry for the needy types. They must be very insecure.
Ahmed was a . He was also an and a thief. . . .
(faithful Muslim)=(abusive husband, a bad father, a liar)
Yeh, I know, not true in all cases.....
You must have had some crappy women in your life or you are VERY young.
Grown up women don't usually behave that way.
There aren't a lot of grown up women - young or old. That goes the same for men too, but a lot less than women.
I hope you learn to love women at some point. You will have a very miserable life if you feel this way about all of them.
I am sorry, I just stated something which is probably empirically true. It doesn't show anything about how I feel towards women.
I live with my son and daughter. Ahmed relocated to a town 60 miles away four years ago. He visits his son 5 to 6 hours a week and he says if I contact a lawyer he will return to his country and I will not get a penny.
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I get very little support from this man. Remember, our son is disabled and on a ventilator at home.
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She has no legal representation because this guy has threatened to cut off financial support, yet further on, she says she gets very little financial support from the man.
So if he's not providing much financial support anyway, then what is preventing her from seeing a lawyer?
Maybe I missed something here.
Is there precedent to withold a passport for "risk of flight to avoid child support"?
I'm sure there's a precedent for "Mr. Twelve Gauge Autoloader asks "And where do you think YOU'RE going?"".
Sure, one can feel sorry for the needy types that is not the basis of a healthy relationship. also, these women were very needy as in "all the emotional support for me and none for you" type of needy; a very "one-way" situation. I learned my lesson! Also, I do not find low self-esteem to be attractive; in fact, it is a major turn-off for me.
You're correct. Feeling sorry for someone is no reason to enter into a relationship. Needy guys are a total turn off to me. I avoid 'em like the plague. I suppose the best solution is for the needy women to hook up with the needy men. How would that be for dysfunctional. : )
Hey, someone should start a dating service for the needy people! Getting all of those needy folks off the market will make it easier for us emotionally stable folks to get together!
"Are you an emotionally needy person? Are you looking for your perfect match? Well, look no further! Join our 'Dating for the Needy' group today and we'll help you find that perfect mate. Someone who's just as emotionally needy as you are! Just call 800-I AM SO NEEDY or log on to our website: www.iamsoneedy.com."
Egad, folks would call in by the droves! We would need a large call centre within a week.
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