Why Men Should Not Marry

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[Mamzelle]

OK--here's what I see. With health not as good as it used to be, nor energy and confidence, the wrinkly little boy attaches himself to the Couple Next Door. They're a kind of Mommy that he wanted for himself, the emotional support he needed but lacked the guts to make for himself. BION, there are quite a few of these in social circles. There is no question that he is lacking something he seriously wants...that sense of belonging and home and the Other. They show up and knock..."My battery needs a jump. Can I borrow eggs, bacon and bread?"

The writer of this article is embittered by life and well as by women--life is a compromised thing. We only pursue happiness--happiness itself exists in fleeting moments.

But these dried-up bachelors are just as pitiful as your bitter writer.

[TASMANIANRED]

Of course it's always the man's fault isn't it?

It would likely be this guys fault.

He sounds like a guy with no depth and a total selfish a$$.

He would likely select someone with as little depth as himself.

Marriage is not something that should be based on love/lust alone but on a whole range of compatability and companionability. Love may sustain you through some wicked things but it is not enough.

If you raise your children properly they should be a credit to their family not a liability. He would probably raise kids that are just as me centered as he is.

[Hemingway's Ghost]

Whoever wrote this sounds like a dork who's in the middle of a "quarter-life crisis." That said, based on personal experience, I think a man's got to be out of his freaking mind to get married before age thirty. Take some time to get it out of your system, to make some bread, and to figure out who you are and what you want out of life before thinking about bringing someone permanently into your life.

[Lazamataz]

Sure does apply to the mother of my child.

..... what a Gal.....

Just as surely, does not apply to my lovely Miss Slippy....

You got a spare one of those lyin' around?

[StoneGiant]

For those who disagree, here's a little song for you:

The Man Song... http://www.pwwhite.com/mansong.swf

[sionnsar]

My grandparents divorced about age 75. My grandfather remarried a few years later (per a friend's dying request, his friend's widow). They remained happily married until they passed away, nearly a quarter-century later.

[Keith]

yea...just keep telling yourself that...

[warsaw44]

Still single in my mid Thirties Ping

[Lazamataz]

He sounds like a guy with no depth and a total selfish a$$.

There's a lot to be said for having no depth and being a total selfish a$$.

[mikesmad]

OK Mrs. Damifino we got it on the first post. Give your husband the mouse back please.

[DOGEY]

She was a big boned woman.

[Lazamataz]

With health not as good as it used to be, nor energy and confidence, the wrinkly little boy attaches himself to the Couple Next Door.

Say, are any vacancies opening up next to you?

[Fierce Allegiance]

You need to read this, son. :)

[HairOfTheDog]

Let me just state for the record that I am very hapily married. About 15 ys. Married the girl my older sister babysat.

You can say that again ;~D

[theFIRMbss]

>Teenage slut celebs who are getting older and will soon be obsolete are the reason men should not marry?

That's right! If I had married one of them, I'd be depressed meeting Skye!

[HairOfTheDog]

There's a lot to be said for having no depth and being a total selfish a$$.

But is any of it good?

[Cloverfarm]

Let's all hide this from my older brother. He might have written the article. I think statistics show married people are happier and healthier, but, what do I know.

[backinthefold]

 The Man Song..

 

that is soooooo funny... omg, I know that guy!!

 

not my fault he married a b**ch

[Gerish]

Words of widsom????? Come on, this guy has a very big chip on his shoulder about a failed marriage.

He not only puts down the whole institution of marriage, but seems to think of children as a burden also. He sounds like a coward and a failure and deserves solitude.

[UpToHere]

And the flip side is:

"At last I've found the perfect girl,
I could not ask for more.
She's deaf and dumb and over sexed,
and owns a liqueur store."

Good luck in your search..