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Couples Ask: What?s Wrong With In-vitro Fertilization?
NCR ^ | August 8-14, 2004 | Tim Drake

Posted on 08/11/2004 6:34:48 AM PDT by NYer

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Date: Wed, 12 Mar 2003 02:26:30 -0400

LETHAL INJECTION ABORTION POPULAR AMONG IVF MOMS

LONDON, March 11, 2003 (LifeSiteNews.com) - Dozens of women carrying more than one baby after fertility treatments have had a number of their unborn children "killed by lethal injection" within the womb, says a report from the BBC.  According to the UK's Office for National Statistics, 49 unborn children were destroyed by lethal injection in 2001, the majority of them normal and healthy.

        In two cases, sets of quadruplets in the womb were culled down to one baby -- and in five cases of triplets, the mother had two of the unborn culled.  Part of the reason is the official recommendation of the Human Fertilization and Embryology Authority, which recommends a maximum of two fertilized embryos be implanted in a woman's womb at a time.  The culling process is not considered an abortion because the dead baby is not forcibly extracted from the womb.

For the BBC report:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2835613.stm

Abortion the 6th Commandment

2270 Human life must be respected and protected absolutely from the moment of conception. From the first moment of his existence, a human being must be recognized as having the rights of a person - among which is the inviolable right of every innocent being to life.72

Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you.73 My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately wrought in the depths of the earth.74

2271 Since the first century the Church has affirmed the moral evil of every procured abortion. This teaching has not changed and remains unchangeable. Direct abortion, that is to say, abortion willed either as an end or a means, is gravely contrary to the moral law:

You shall not kill the embryo by abortion and shall not cause the newborn to perish.75

God, the Lord of life, has entrusted to men the noble mission of safeguarding life, and men must carry it out in a manner worthy of themselves. Life must be protected with the utmost care from the moment of conception: abortion and infanticide are abominable crimes.76

2272  Formal cooperation in an abortion constitutes a grave offense. The Church attaches the canonical penalty of excommunication to this crime against human life. "A person who procures a completed abortion incurs excommunication latae sententiae,"77 "by the very commission of the offense,"78 and subject to the conditions provided by Canon Law.79 The Church does not thereby intend to restrict the scope of mercy. Rather, she makes clear the gravity of the crime committed, the irreparable harm done to the innocent who is put to death, as well as to the parents and the whole of society.

2273  The inalienable right to life of every innocent human individual is a constitutive element of a civil society and its legislation:

"The inalienable rights of the person must be recognized and respected by civil society and the political authority. These human rights depend neither on single individuals nor on parents; nor do they represent a concession made by society and the state; they belong to human nature and are inherent in the person by virtue of the creative act from which the person took his origin. Among such fundamental rights one should mention in this regard every human being's right to life and physical integrity from the moment of conception until death."80

"The moment a positive law deprives a category of human beings of the protection which civil legislation ought to accord them, the state is denying the equality of all before the law. When the state does not place its power at the service of the rights of each citizen, and in particular of the more vulnerable, the very foundations of a state based on law are undermined. . . . As a consequence of the respect and protection which must be ensured for the unborn child from the moment of conception, the law must provide appropriate penal sanctions for every deliberate violation of the child's rights."81

2274 Since it must be treated from conception as a person, the embryo must be defended in its integrity, cared for, and healed, as far as possible, like any other human being.

Prenatal diagnosis is morally licit, "if it respects the life and integrity of the embryo and the human fetus and is directed toward its safe guarding or healing as an individual. . . . It is gravely opposed to the moral law when this is done with the thought of possibly inducing an abortion, depending upon the results: a diagnosis must not be the equivalent of a death sentence."82

2275 "One must hold as licit procedures carried out on the human embryo which respect the life and integrity of the embryo and do not involve disproportionate risks for it, but are directed toward its healing the improvement of its condition of health, or its individual survival."83

"It is immoral to produce human embryos intended for exploitation as disposable biological material."84

"Certain attempts to influence chromosomic or genetic inheritance are not therapeutic but are aimed at producing human beings selected according to sex or other predetermined qualities. Such manipulations are contrary to the personal dignity of the human being and his integrity and identity"85 which are unique and unrepeatable.

Respect for the person and scientific research

2292 Scientific, medical, or psychological experiments on human individuals or groups can contribute to healing the sick and the advancement of public health.

2293 Basic scientific research, as well as applied research, is a significant expression of man's dominion over creation. Science and technology are precious resources when placed at the service of man and promote his integral development for the benefit of all. By themselves however they cannot disclose the meaning of existence and of human progress. Science and technology are ordered to man, from whom they take their origin and development; hence they find in the person and in his moral values both evidence of their purpose and awareness of their limits.

2294 It is an illusion to claim moral neutrality in scientific research and its applications. On the other hand, guiding principles cannot be inferred from simple technical efficiency, or from the usefulness accruing to some at the expense of others or, even worse, from prevailing ideologies. Science and technology by their very nature require unconditional respect for fundamental moral criteria. They must be at the service of the human person, of his inalienable rights, of his true and integral good, in conformity with the plan and the will of God.

2295 Research or experimentation on the human being cannot legitimate acts that are in themselves contrary to the dignity of persons and to the moral law. The subjects' potential consent does not justify such acts. Experimentation on human beings is not morally legitimate if it exposes the subject's life or physical and psychological integrity to disproportionate or avoidable risks. Experimentation on human beings does not conform to the dignity of the person if it takes place without the informed consent of the subject or those who legitimately speak for him.

The gift of a child

2373 Sacred Scripture and the Church's traditional practice see in large families a sign of God's blessing and the parents' generosity.162

2374 Couples who discover that they are sterile suffer greatly. "What will you give me," asks Abraham of God, "for I continue childless?"163 And Rachel cries to her husband Jacob, "Give me children, or I shall die!"164

2375 Research aimed at reducing human sterility is to be encouraged, on condition that it is placed "at the service of the human person, of his inalienable rights, and his true and integral good according to the design and will of God."165

2376 Techniques that entail the dissociation of husband and wife, by the intrusion of a person other than the couple (donation of sperm or ovum, surrogate uterus), are gravely immoral. These techniques (heterologous artificial insemination and fertilization) infringe the child's right to be born of a father and mother known to him and bound to each other by marriage. They betray the spouses' "right to become a father and a mother only through each other."166

2377 Techniques involving only the married couple (homologous artificial insemination and fertilization) are perhaps less reprehensible, yet remain morally unacceptable. They dissociate the sexual act from the procreative act. The act which brings the child into existence is no longer an act by which two persons give themselves to one another, but one that "entrusts the life and identity of the embryo into the power of doctors and biologists and establishes the domination of technology over the origin and destiny of the human person. Such a relationship of domination is in itself contrary to the dignity and equality that must be common to parents and children."167 "Under the moral aspect procreation is deprived of its proper perfection when it is not willed as the fruit of the conjugal act, that is to say, of the specific act of the spouses' union . . . . Only respect for the link between the meanings of the conjugal act and respect for the unity of the human being make possible procreation in conformity with the dignity of the person."168

2378 A child is not something owed to one, but is a gift. The "supreme gift of marriage" is a human person. A child may not be considered a piece of property, an idea to which an alleged "right to a child" would lead. In this area, only the child possesses genuine rights: the right "to be the fruit of the specific act of the conjugal love of his parents," and "the right to be respected as a person from the moment of his conception."169

2379 The Gospel shows that physical sterility is not an absolute evil. Spouses who still suffer from infertility after exhausting legitimate medical procedures should unite themselves with the Lord's Cross, the source of all spiritual fecundity. They can give expression to their generosity by adopting abandoned children or performing demanding services for others.

Stepping away from God’s law always introduces chaos into our lives. Nowhere is this truer than in the case of in vitro fertilization. The reproductive revolution has had the ability to separate genetic parenting from gestational parenting and from social parenting; and the agent who brings it all about, a biotechnician, will be still another person.

In other words, we can arrange from the outset that one or more of the genetic parents are different from the woman who will carry the child, or the couple who will bring the child up. One or both of the donors might be deceased, for even the eggs might be extracted from aborted fetuses or a recently deceased woman.

Sperm and eggs are being bought and sold and wombs are being rented. Typical prices for ova are $6,500, sperm $1,800 and surrogate motherhood $45,000. In California there is a Nobel Prize Winners’ sperm bank where someone can purchase “genius sperm” in the first step towards the “designer baby.” Anyone who has enough money can contract for the production of human beings according to the desired specifications.

Scientists are already testing the embryos in the petri dish or in the womb to determine whether the child has desirable characteristics. One common reason for these tests is sex selection. Those Feminists who favor abortion should know that the embryos destroyed on this account are usually on the distaff side.

The legal problems that arise from in vitro fertilization are legion. The number of persons who might assert parental rights is now expanded to five: the sperm donor, the egg donor, the surrogate womb mother, and the couple who raise the child. One wag has observed that the prospect of children with multiple parents is a marketing dream for the greeting card industry, and it is certainly a bonanza for lawyers.

As problems of infertility and sterility become more common, people are turning to science for solutions. Modern science has developed various techniques such as artificial insemination and in vitro fertilization. In addition, there are also ancillary techniques designed to store semen, ova, and embryos.

        The fact that these techniques have been developed and have a certain success rate does not make them morally acceptable.  The ends do not justify the means. In this case, the ends are very noble: helping an infertile couple to become parents. The Church, however, cannot accept the means.

MARRIAGE:
         The Sanctity of Life

  The Catholic Church teaches that marriage is the only morally acceptable framework for human reproduction. Marriage and its indissoluble unity are the only venue worthy of truly responsible procreation. Accordingly, any conception engineered with semen or ova donated by a third party would be opposed to the exclusivity that is demanded of a married couple. Such a procedure would be a violation of the bond of conjugal fidelity. It is also an anomaly for a donor to contribute to the conception of a child with the express intention of having nothing to do with that child’s upbringing.

Donation of semen or ova, and the use of surrogate motherhood to bear the child are both contrary to the unity of marriage and the dignity of the procreation of the human person. All of these procedures face a further difficulty in that they lend themselves to commercialization and exploitation when people are paid for donating their semen or ova, or for surrogate motherhood.

The “Catechism of the Catholic Church,” quoting from the Vatican document Donum Vitae, (Instruction on respect for human life in its origin and on the dignity of procreation) asserts: “Techniques that entail the dissociation of husband and wife by the intrusion of a person other than the couple (donation of sperm or ovum, surrogate uterus) are gravely immoral. These techniques infringe on the child’s right to be born of a father and mother known to him, and bound to each other by marriage; moreover, these methods betray the spouses’ right to become a father and a mother only through each other” (#2376). Indeed, in the act of procreation the spouses are called to cooperate with God; therefore, the Church teaches that a child’s coming-to-be should be sought only as a fruit of the spouses’ personal loving union in the marital act.

The “Catechism of the Catholic Church” also addresses those cases where the techniques employed to bring about the conception involve exclusively the married couple’s semen, ovum, and womb. Such techniques are “less reprehensible, yet remain morally unacceptable.” They dissociate procreation from the sexual act. The act which brings the child into existence is no longer an act by which two persons (husband and wife) give themselves to one another, but one that “entrusts the life and identity of the embryo into the power of the doctors and biologists, and establishes the domination of technology over the origin and destiny of the human person. Such a relationship of domination is in itself contrary to the dignity and equality that must be common to parents and children” (#2377).

The Church has always taught that there is an “inseparable connection established by God between the unitive significance and the procreative significance which are both inherent to the marriage act” (Humanae Vitae12). In this sense in vitro fertilization, by doing away with the unitive meaning, is the mirror image of contraception which suppresses the procreative meaning of the conjugal act.

God created man and woman in His own image and likeness and gave them the mission “to be fruitful and multiply.” This fruitfulness in marriage is part of their being made in the image of God. The marital act is one of mutual self-giving and mutual acceptance of two persons in love. It reflects the inner life of God in the Holy Trinity, a communion of love.

Conjugal love is at the service of life and at the service of God, the Creator. Pope John Paul wrote in his “Letter to Families” that “in affirming that spouses as parents cooperate with God the Creator in conceiving and giving birth to a new human being…we wish to emphasize that God Himself is present in human fatherhood and motherhood. Indeed, God alone is the source of that ‘image and likeness’ which is proper to the human being, as it was received at Creation. Begetting is the continuation of Creation” (“Letter to Families” 9).

SPARE EMBRYOS:
Human Leftovers

“I formed you in the womb, I knew you and before you were born, I consecrated you” (Jer 1:5). Pope John Paul II, commenting on this Scripture passage, writes: “the life of every individual, from its very beginning, is part of God’s plan...”(Evangelium Vitae #44). Expressions of awe and wonder at God’s intervention in the life of a child in its mother’s womb occur again and again in the Psalms and in the Gospel of St. Luke. In the light of God’s loving regard for life in the womb, the Holy Father raises the terrible question: “How can anyone think that even a single moment of this marvelous process of the unfolding of life could be separated from the wise and loving work of the Creator and left prey to human caprice?” (E.V. #44). Human life is precious from the moment of conception; but, sadly enough, the biblical respect for human life is being eroded in our contemporary society. Without a deep reverence for the sacredness of human life, humanity places itself on the path of self-destruction.

When science and technology open doors that should not be opened, a Pandora’s box spews forth evils that menace humanity. We invented the atom bomb and germ warfare. These inventions are now part of human history forever. Scientists have opened another perilous door: they are manufacturing human life and using their product as an object of experimentation.

Science without the compass of ethical restraints is taking us on a path towards dehumanization in the name of progress. Modern scientific advances have so much to offer, but they must be guided by ethical principles which respect the inherent dignity of every human being. When science embarks on a Promethean quest, fueled by greed and commercialization, our own humanity is placed at risk. The Vatican Document, Donum Vitae, expresses this well:  “By defending man against the excesses of his own power, the Church of God reminds him of the reasons for his true nobility; only in this way can the possibility of living and loving with that dignity and liberty which derive from respect for the truth be ensured for the men and women of tomorrow” (Donum Vitae p. 39).

Theoretically, it might be possible to use in vitro fertilization without destroying any embryos. The grave moral problems concerning the rights of the child, unity of marriage, and the integrity act would still militate against the morality of in vitro fertilization.  However, typically, in in vitro fertilization a woman is given fertility drugs to ensure that she produces several ova which are collected to be fertilized in a petri dish creating several embryos. The healthiest ones are chosen for transfer to the woman’s womb. Many embryos are discarded or frozen. Freezing kills some more. Some embryos are later used for experimentation, which is always lethal.

Recent estimates project that there are 100,000 frozen embryos in the United States laboratories. These embryos are human lives that, given the chance to grow, would develop into a man or a woman. The fate and disposition of these embryos represents a serious moral dilemma which has contributed to a coarsening of the public’s attitude towards the sacredness of human life.

During recent debates before Congress, a couple gave compelling testimony against embryonic stem cell research. The main arguments that they presented were their two young sons who had been frozen embryos that the husband and his wife adopted. We cannot pretend that these embryos are tadpoles. They are human beings with their unique genetic code, full complement of chromosomes, and individual characteristics already in place. Every person alive today started out as an embryo.

In vitro fertilization puts a great number of embryos at risk, or simply destroys them. These early-stage abortions are not morally acceptable. Unfortunately, many people of good will have no notion of what is at stake and simply focus on the baby that results from in vitro fertilization, not adverting to the fact that the procedure involves creating many embryos, most of which will never be born because they will be frozen or discarded.

The Church’s teaching on the respect that must be accorded to human embryos has been constant and very clear. The Second Vatican Council reaffirms this teaching: “Life once conceived must be protected with the utmost care.” Likewise, the more recent “Charter of the Rights of the Family,” published by the Holy See reminds us that: “Human life must be absolutely respected and protected from the moment of conception.”

Two corollaries of this principle follow very logically. First, pre-natal diagnosis and therapeutic procedures are licit and moral if they do not involve disproportionate risks and are directed toward healing or the survival of the embryo. Secondly, living embryos must never be used for experimentation which is not directly therapeutic to that human embryo. The Pro-Life Department of the United States Council of Catholic Bishops has published a question and answer document on respect for human embryos which explains: “No objective, even though noble in itself, such as a foreseeable advantage to science, to other human beings, or to society, can in any way justify experimentation on living embryos or fetuses, whether viable or not, either inside or outside the mother’s womb. The informed consent ordinarily required for clinical experimentation cannot be granted by the parents who may not freely dispose of the physical integrity or life of the unborn child.”

This unequivocal teaching of the Church has important implications, not only regarding the morality of in vitro fertilization where so many embryos are sacrificed, but also in the area of embryonic stem cell research which requires the destruction of the living human embryo.

Many scientists are anxious to employ “spare” embryos that result from the in vitro fertilization for research purposes. They point to the huge supply of frozen embryos that will eventually be discarded. As in the case of the production of clones for research purposes, the harvesting of the discarded embryos for research represents a conscious choice to use living human beings as mere research material. Sadly, some people would have pragmatism trump morality. It is encouraging that many states have legislation in place which protects the embryo and makes embryonic stem-cell research a felony. In the Commonwealth of Massachusetts the law forbids using embryos, “whether before or after expulsion from the mother’s womb, for scientific, laboratory research, or other kinds of experimentation” (M.G.L. Ch. 112 para. 12).

The New York Times, on Aug. 26, 2001, reported that at fertility clinics the job that nobody wants is that of discarding the spare embryos. Most centers charge a yearly fee that ranges from a few hundred dollars to more than a thousand; but many embryologists do not discard embryos, even when clients cease to pay, “even if years go by”, the news article goes on to say. The director of one laboratory stated that he has to destroy the embryos himself because so many of his staff found the task distasteful. The embryos are thawed as though they will be used, just in case the patients change their minds.  It is obvious that many of the medical staff involved in the in vitro fertilization process are aware of the grave responsibility they have for destroying human life. They have witnessed how these embryos have grown into healthy children. In discarding these embryos, the medical staff become their unwilling executioners, but executioners nonetheless.

The Vatican document Donum Vitae clearly stated that the destruction of embryos harvested from in vitro fertilization procedures is tantamount to abortion. By voluntarily destroying human embryos, “The researcher usurps the place of God; and, even though he may be unaware of this, he sets himself up as the master of the destiny of others inasmuch as he arbitrarily chooses whom he will allow to live and whom he will send to death, and kills defenseless human being” (Donum Vitae, 1987).

FROZEN EMBRYOS:
      Children on Hold

  During the already cited congressional hearings concerning stem-cell research, John Borden stood before the panel with both his sons in his arms and asked, “Which one of my children would you kill?” John and his wife, Lucinda, unable to have children of their own adopted frozen embryos that were “left over” from in vitro fertilization. Their striking testimony demonstrated that embryos are human beings in an early stage of development and therefore should not be sacrificed for embryonic stem-cell research.

The action of this couple and many others raises the question, “What should be done with the frozen embryos?” Dr. Edward Furton of the National Catholic Bioethics Center published a fine article recently: “On the Disposition of Frozen Embryos.” The Church has not taken an official stand on what should be done. It is clear that in vitro fertilization is not an ethical practice. Nevertheless, the children born of this process are human beings, with the full rights and dignity of all members of the human family, and the frozen embryos produced are human and need to be respected as such.

The most acceptable solution for the disposition of these embryos is that they be implanted in their mother’s womb and brought to term. This is the best option in a highly ambiguous situation since the embryos should not have been created in the first place.

If the parents of the embryos are unable or unwilling to implant the embryo in the mother’s womb, what can be done with the frozen embryos? Moralists are beginning to debate this question. Theologians of the status of Dr. William May and Dr. Germain Grisey and Dr. John Furton, editor of Ethics & Medics of the National Catholic Bioethics Center, are of the opinion that it is preferable to place the frozen embryos up for adoption rather than to let them perish in a frozen gulag. Other moralists hesitate to countenance this approach because of the problem of surrogate motherhood. Nevertheless, we agonize over the predicament of these embryos. It is similar to the Church’s pastoral response to children born out of wedlock. While the Church cannot approve the circumstance of their birth since the children have already come into being, the Church must be concerned about their spiritual and material welfare.

No one wants to encourage in vitro fertilization in any way; yet, there is a desire to rescue these innocent human beings that are in the words of Donum Vitae: “exposed to an absurd fate, with no possibility of their being offered safe means of survival that can be licitly pursued” (D.V. I.5).   We are hopeful that in the near future the Holy See will offer some authoritative pronouncements on this very complicated issue.

CHILDREN:
      A gift not an entitlement

Professor Stanley M. Hauerwas, in his testimony on in vitro fertilization before the Ethics Advisory Board of the Department of Health, Education and Welfare, states: “Christians must surely be doubtful of any moral defenses of in vitro fertilization that claim this technique as an extension of freedom from natural necessity. From our perspective, such a claim involves the pretentious assumption that there is no limit to the right of people to perpetuate themselves.”

Hauerwas’ assertion is certainly taught by the Church: We do not have a “right to have a child.” Such a right would be “contrary to the child’s dignity and nature. The child is not an object to which one has a right, nor can he be considered an object of ownership; rather, a child is a gift, ‘the supreme gift,’ and the most gratuitous gift of marriage, and is a living testimony of the mutual giving of his parents. For this reason the child has the right to be the fruit of the specific act of conjugal love of his parents; and the child also has the right to be respected as a person from the moment of his conception” (Donum Vitae, 8).

One of the greatest absurdities of contemporary society is that our country has approved of people aborting all unwanted children and at the same time permits an immoral technique (in vitro fertilization) that allows a few women to have the experience of a pregnancy. In both of these circumstances the fate of the children is subordinated to the convenience or the personal aspirations of the parents.

In the Old Testament, sterility was seen as a curse and a shameful condition. In part, immortality was understood as living on in your children and in their children. Childlessness then meant to be doomed to extinction and oblivion.

The New Testament teaching on celibacy indicated to believers that not everyone needs to have children. It is a matter of vocation. The example of the consecrated virgins in the early Church testified to the importance of spiritual fruitfulness and gave witness of the Church’s firm belief in the Resurrection. Their lives, like the first martyrs, proclaimed to the world that in Christ we are all called to eternal life. It is therefore not necessary for everyone to have children to taste immortality.

For us, marriage and motherhood and fatherhood is a vocation, and children are a gift. However, even when procreation is not possible, married life does not for that reason lose its value. As our Holy Father writes in Familiaris Consortio: “Physical sterility, in fact, can be for the spouses the occasion for other important services to the life of the human person; for example adoption, various forms of educational work, and assistance to other families, and to poor or handicapped children” (#14).

All of us know childless couples whose goodness and generosity have been directed toward service of the parish, the community, and those in need. Often it is said of such a couple “what wonderful parents they would have been” because their marriage is so faith-filled and so loving.

Adoption:
        A loving solution

The plight of a couple who have difficulties in conceiving a child is something that concerns the Church community. We are pleased that the scientific community has developed some morally acceptable procedures that assist the conjugal act and not replace it: certain fertility drugs, micro-surgery, and treatments aimed at correcting defects in the reproductive organs, and Natural Family Planning techniques that allow couples to know when they have the best chance of conceiving. The Church does urge scientists “to continue their research with the aim of preventing the causes of sterility and of being able to remedy them so that infertile couples will be able to procreate in full respect for their own personal dignity and that of the child to be born” (D.V.8).

Given the Biblical injunction to care for widows and orphans and to welcome strangers, the childless couple might in the spirit of our faith consider adopting a child. It is a decision that should be made after prayer and reflection. We have the example of so many wonderful couples who have taken on this commitment and made a loving family for children who lost their parents or whose parents were unable to raise them.

One of the main factors contributing to the 1.5 million abortions in our nation every year is the poor attitude that Americans have toward giving up a child for adoption. Each year, around two million infertile couples try to adopt a baby in the United States, yet only about 50,000 adoptions take place. There are waiting lists for Down’s Syndrome and Spina Bifida babies and for infants with AIDS. Many couples go to Korea, Russia, Romania, Guatemala, China and other countries at great expense and make many sacrifices to adopt a baby.

It is tragic that each year 1.5 million mothers in the United States opt for an abortion. Somehow they reach the point of making a decision to kill the child in their womb rather than allowing that child to live and to be adopted into a family that ardently desires to make a home for the fruit of an unwanted pregnancy. Even though a pregnancy might be unwanted, or ill-timed, there should never be an unwanted baby. In fact, as the figures show there are enough families seeking to adopt babies so as to provide a home for all of the children aborted in our country.

Those who embrace the Gospel of Life must be enthusiastic supporters of adoption. Some parishes have had special liturgies to celebrate the generosity and love of mothers who have put their child up for adoption, as well as for those families that have received those children lovingly as if they had been born into their family.

This year in our own diocese, in order to underscore the importance of adoption in the Gospel of Life, we are having a diocesan Pro-Life celebration on the Feast of St. Joseph, the adoptive father of Jesus. The fact that in the Holy Family there was an adoptive father should be a source of encouragement to those who give their children in adoption and those who receive them.

Other countries also experience the sad refusal of so many mothers to choose life by giving their children in adoption. Italy is witnessing a negative population growth that has given rise to serious concerns about the future of the Italian people. One parliamentarian has asked the government to support pregnant women by helping them to carry their baby to term so as to put the child up for adoption rather than let that child be lost to abortion.

In our own diocese, and in dioceses throughout the nation, we have made the same offer of help. We stand ready to aid any woman with a difficult pregnancy who wishes to seek an alternative to abortion.

We urge adopted children to help us promote adoption. Their mothers did not abandon them; but rather gave them life and the chance to live. The decision to entrust your child to another person is a difficult one, at times frightening; yet we are sure that it is the right decision. The Bible records the dispute of the two mothers before Solomon. The true mother is willing to give the child away rather than allow the king to kill the baby. When a mother lovingly entrusts her baby to an adoptive family, she has chosen life for her baby and will always be that child’s true mother, even as she shares that vocation with the adoptive parents.

Pope John Paul II writes in Familiaris Consortio: “Christian families, recognizing with faith all human beings as children of the same Heavenly Father, will respond generously to the children of others, giving these children support and love, not as outsiders, but as members of the one family of God’s children. Christian parents will thus be able to spread their love beyond the bonds of flesh and blood, nourishing the links that are rooted in the Spirit…(F.C. 42).

CONCLUSION

In the rapidly changing culture of today, where everything is seen as experimental or obsolete, it must be growing clearer to believers that the Church’s commitment to the defense of innocent human life and the dignity of the human person is the firm centerpiece of our social Gospel. The very future of our society is contingent on the success of this enterprise: Life will be valued and protected or manipulated and destroyed.

The culture of death can muster armies of celebrities to promote its positions. The media speaks with a roar, the Church in a whisper. The Church’s whisper, however, communicates a very consistent message that can never be silenced.

The issue of in vitro fertilization is complicated. We all sympathize with childless couples who are desperate to have children, but the ends do not justify the means. There is much more at stake here than the public realizes.

The Church’s teaching on in vitro fertilization is very clear and quite consistent with the Church’s teachings on marriage, on the dignity of the human person, and on the life ethic. A lack of knowledge about the ethical implications of this procedure has resulted in many couples having recourse to in vitro fertilization and has given further impetus to public support for embryonic stem-cell research.

St. Paul once commented that people will not respond to an uncertain trumpet blast. I assure you there is nothing uncertain about the Church’s teaching on in vitro fertilization. We have only to turn up the volume of the trumpet.

161 posted on 08/11/2004 1:33:57 PM PDT by Coleus (Roe v. Wade and Endangered Species Act both passed in 1973, Murder Babies/save trees, birds, algae)
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To: Xenalyte

I've heard that too, but haven't been able to read it for myself. Vision problem.


162 posted on 08/11/2004 1:38:57 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: ellery
But with infertile couples, by definition procreation is separated from the conjugal act. That's how they know they're infertile.

There are different kinds of separation. One kind of separation is effect from cause, when the effect fails to result from the cause. The is the kind of separation you are talking about above. When procreation fails to result from the conjugal act, the effect is separated from the cause. This separation is, all things being equal, not caused by man. The couple per se is not causing procreation to fail. Hence, such a separation is not unethical. The kind of separation to which I referred, however, is that in which man separates that which is supposed to be united. In IVF typically man separates the conjugal act and procreation. The separation occurs in any act of procreation that is not the conjugal act (e.g. IVF), and in any conjugal act that is not open to procreation.

As for reproductive technology, where do you draw the line? If I take medication to help me ovulate, I am relying on technology to help get me pregnant. Is that wrong too?

If you carefully read what I wrote, you will notice that I used the word "supplant". In IVF typically, the technology is used to supplant the conjugal act. There are other kinds of reproductive assistance technology which assist but do not supplant the conjugal act. Medication that helps stimulate ovulation (all other things being equal), would be technology of the latter sort.

Finally, the creation of life cannot happen without God. Anyone who thinks otherwise is giving human doctors 'way too much credit.

I agree. But nothing I said is challenged by that. If humans can be cloned in factories, then just because the creation of human life cannot happen without God, it does not follow that such cloning is therefore ethically permissible. Likewise, just because the creation of human life cannot happen without God, it does not follow that IVF is ethically permissible.

-A8

163 posted on 08/11/2004 2:22:58 PM PDT by adiaireton8 ("There is no greater evil one can suffer than to hate reasonable discourse." - Plato, Phaedo 89d)
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To: johnb2004
That is not accurate at all. Someone infertile, through no fault of their own, is not intentionally separating love and sex. It is pathology beyond their control.

Yes, I know -- my husband and I are suffering with infertility. It is not our intent that procreation be separate from the conjugal act -- but it is the reality.

We have not yet done IVF; I don't know if we will. I am taking fertility drugs. And I can tell you that with doctors involved in our intimate life, it is not the "normal" way of things. Doctors track when it's time via ultrasound and bloodtests, and give us our instructions. I guarantee you that under these circumstances, it is much more like a laboratory than a conjugal act. But like most people who pursue infertility treatments -- IVF or otherwise -- we are going through this horrible, clinical process because of our strong love for each other, our strong marriage and our yearning to have children together.

Some might say that we are trying to thwart God by turning to medical help; but that is the same as saying people seeking help for cancer, or heart disease are trying to thwart Him. We're supposed to turn to Him, but also to work, and to help ourselves -- and we are doing all of the above. If the Lord doesn't want us to have biological children, there is no way that someone in a lab coat is going to be able to make it happen.

164 posted on 08/11/2004 2:38:43 PM PDT by ellery (Concentrated power has always been the enemy of liberty. - Ronald Reagan)
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To: adiaireton8

Thank you for your thoughtful answer.

I have trouble accepting that if we want to bring forth a child from our loving relationship, it is unethical for us to do IVF, or artificial insemination. It is still the sperm and the egg, joined together because we lovingly made a choice to try to procreate (even if we need help doing so). We are not supplanting the conjugal act with a petri dish (like a cloning factory would) -- because our conjugal bond remains. We would not be creating disposable biological material -- if we were ever blessed with precious embryos, I would treasure them with my life.

Logically speaking, elderly couples or wives who have had hysterectomies would also not be permitted to engage in conjugal acts, correct? That doesn't make sense to me.

I understand we're coming from different perspectives here -- I appreciate the dialog.


165 posted on 08/11/2004 3:01:44 PM PDT by ellery (Concentrated power has always been the enemy of liberty. - Ronald Reagan)
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To: ellery
I'm very sorry to learn of your infertility, and I hope that you are able to conceive.

In order for an act to be ethical, it is not enough for the agent to have good motives. Good motives are a necessary but not sufficient condition for an act to be ethical. Therefore, good intentions of parents are not sufficient to make IVF ethical. So, what else (besides good motives) is necessary for an act to be ethical? Two things: the act has to be a good kind of act, and the right circumstances for the act must be present. The problem with IVF is that it is not a good kind of act. By its very nature it is deficient in the three ways that I mentioned in #147. If in act is not a good kind of act, then there are no motives or circumstances that can make it a good act.

Regarding whether it is ethical for elderly married couples or infertile married couples to have sex, the answer is yes. To be ethically justified, the conjugal act requires spiritual union and biological union. The latter occurs in a unifying reproductive act in which the two become one, for biologically, they are engaged in one biological function, i.e. the act of reproduction (which is a two-person act). Any *particular* conjugal act does not need to lead to conception in order to be a justified act. It has to be an act of the *type* that leads to conception (i.e. sexual intercourse). Hence, one need not be fertile in order to engage in the conjugal act ethically. However, it is unethical to separate purposely the conjugal act from the possibility of procreation (say, by self-sterilization) for the purpose of separating sex from the possibility of procreation. On the other hand, if a woman has ovarian cancer, and has a hysterectomy, she has sterilized herself, but not for the purpose of separating sex and procreation. Here, the principle of double effect applies. She sought to preserve her life, with the foreseen but unintended consequence of losing her fertility. Her conjugal acts are ethically justified because they are (1) spiritually unitive AND (2) biologically unitive in type, without intentional thwarting of the biological function.

-A8

166 posted on 08/11/2004 4:04:55 PM PDT by adiaireton8 ("There is no greater evil one can suffer than to hate reasonable discourse." - Plato, Phaedo 89d)
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To: adiaireton8

Thank you very much for your kind words -- I appreciate them very much. Thanks also for taking the time to explain.

I think it's possible that even what we're undergoing now (fertility meds) cause a separation between the act of (attempted) procreation and the spirit of the conjugal act. As I describe in post 164 (and without getting into too much personal detail), I don't know that it constitutes the true, joyful spirit of conjugal relations when everything's directed by doctors and timed very carefully. It seems no less clinical than IVF -- the only difference is, we're wearing the lab coats ourselves. Maybe that's a critical difference...but it doesn't feel like one from this angle.


167 posted on 08/11/2004 5:12:15 PM PDT by ellery (Concentrated power has always been the enemy of liberty. - Ronald Reagan)
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On CBS's 60 Minutes they are doing a piece on couples who do IVF for gender selection. The California Dr says that in the last 2 years about 70 percent of his IVF patients are there for gender selection only not infertility.


168 posted on 08/11/2004 5:12:30 PM PDT by Jaded ((Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society. - Mark Twain))
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To: MamaTexan; Jaded; Hermann the Cherusker
From Post 168:

On CBS's 60 Minutes they are doing a piece on couples who do IVF for gender selection. The California Dr says that in the last 2 years about 70 percent of his IVF patients are there for gender selection only not infertility.

So MamaT, who thinks it's a "fictional horror story," tell me the Brave New World referred to by our beloved Hermann isn't already devolving.

169 posted on 08/11/2004 6:32:13 PM PDT by litany_of_lies
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To: ellery
"I have trouble accepting that if we want to bring forth a child from our loving relationship, it is unethical for us to do IVF, or artificial insemination."

Personally, I had zero problems with artificial insemination. But IVF was fraught with very upsetting moral questions for us. We opted for adoption, and are extremely grateful for our precious kids.

My years of infertility (and miscarriages) were the worst of my life. If it's that way for you too, hang in there. A better day is around the corner.

My best to you.

170 posted on 08/11/2004 6:48:28 PM PDT by Artist
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To: NYer
Couples Ask: What's Wrong With In-vitro Fertilization?

I ask, "What are you asking me for?"

171 posted on 08/11/2004 6:51:03 PM PDT by HitmanLV (I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, indexed, briefed, debriefed or numbered. My life is my own.)
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To: usafsk
usafsk please don't email me privately. I'm not interested in receiving this gibberish:

Me: "Your reply to me tells me you are emotionally driven, lack common sense and don't think before you reply because your emotions cloud your judgment."

You: First of all, I was obviously being sarcastic. Secondly, your initial response made no sense regarding adoption. Thirdly, my terribly emotional, lacking in common sense self spent the day enjoying a round of golf and having lunch out with my wife and children."

Me: First- your sarcasm wasn't obvious.

Second - my original response was that I see IVF as playing God. If God wanted the female to have a baby she would. I then stated that adoption would be a good option if natural conception was not possible. To most people adoption as an alternative to a forced IVF pregnancy makes sense.

Thirdly, I don't need to know how you spend your time and to be brutally honest, I don't care! You also highlight how immature and childish you are.

You: I then did a little email and grilled out steaks. I topped it off with a trip to Sam's to buy my wife some SAM-E and flowers. Took one of my daughters with me.

Me: Who cares! I'm surprised you didn't tell me about your potty breaks before and after all these activities.

You: My clouded, overly emotional judgement has led to an early retirement at 41, a wonderful set of kids, and a wife who I think loves me in spire of my many faults. I wish you well in life, just try not to be so judgemental and critical of others. All I asked you to do was have the courtesy to read all of the posts I'd written because I'd already addressed your issue.

Me: I can't say we are hurting financially however I donut' feel the need to announce it. Again, arrogant bragging is something children routinely do.

All I ask is that you don't e-mail me privately with such dribble and honestly I'm not interested in your boring life.
You might want to consider a different forum since differing views seem to upset you to no end. In a forum people do make JUDEMENTAL calls. That's typically the basis of the debate. Grow UP! I will be as "critical" and "judgmental" as I please in a forum debating topics.
You: Night night.

Me: Have some warm milk and cookies with the kids. Most likely they think you're one of them.
172 posted on 08/11/2004 9:01:42 PM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: Hermann the Cherusker

Er, no. The purpose of real combat is not to injure the opponent but to impose your will upon him.


173 posted on 08/12/2004 5:11:14 AM PDT by steve-b (Panties & Leashes Would Look Good On Spammers)
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To: adiaireton8
If in act is not a good kind of act, then there are no motives or circumstances that can make it a good act.

Shooting someone dead is clearly not a "good act", but it's trivially easy to describe circumstances (self-defense) under which it is ethically appropriate to do so.

174 posted on 08/12/2004 5:18:52 AM PDT by steve-b (Panties & Leashes Would Look Good On Spammers)
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To: steve-b

You impose your will upon him in combat by injuring or killing him.


175 posted on 08/12/2004 5:30:01 AM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: usafsk
Such a statement begs the question, how many adopted children do you have?

I disagree. Most of my children are biological, some are adopted. But most people who adopt are people who have trouble conceiving.

Many of my grandchildren are adopted because their forever mothers were unable to carry babies to term. International adoption is often much less money not to mention much less stress than IVF. (It usually around $15,000 although there are children available for under $10,000). I understand the biological urge to parent, what I don't understand is this obsessive need to parent a child with one's own genes.

176 posted on 08/12/2004 5:42:49 AM PDT by old and tired
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To: Xenalyte; freeangel

Begs the question - what if He wants the kid you may adopt to grow up without parents......

My wife was scarred by appendectomy when she was 16 - after 16 years of marriage we decided to try IVF - We have a son due in October.

Anyone that spouts the "turn your life over to God's will" crap is a complete hypocrite unless they have also decided to forgo ANy MEDICAL TREATMENT FOR ANY REASON.

That splinter that will infect and perhaps cause you to lose your finger - God's will - that radiation treatment for cancer - uh-oh - you would be subverting God's will, Your adopted kid gets a fever and dies without treatment because it was God's will - oh well - it must be divine intervention.

MY belief - it is God's will that we have such marvelous medical techniques that preserve life.

God gave us the tools (sperm and egg) to perform IVF - IVF is not creating life by any intellectual view - it is merely assisting life. Just like EVERY other medical procedure.

Your argument about wasting fertilized eggs is meritless because God wastes eggs and sperm every day by design. Where is your outrage about that?

And I am Catholic and I do disagree with MAN's perspective on this issue. I believe God loves IVF. To question the love and commitment between my wife and I because we could not concieve naturally is true evil.


177 posted on 08/12/2004 5:46:59 AM PDT by Southern62
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To: ellery
I do not want to speak to your personal circumstances other than to say I am sorry to hear about your fertility problems.

I must disagree with your assertion that seeking IVF and other illicit technologies are on par with cancer therapy or the like. That is not even close to the truth. We certainly have a right to correct a pathologic condition, within reason, but we do not have any right to correct it by using immoral means. Just because I may be sick does not mean I have recourse to every possible way to correct it if it means violating the moral law.

Also, people in lab coats, like other folks, have a free will. God will not violate anyone's free will. So, even if they want to commit an evil, God will not stop them. If they want to thwart God's will and plan for human reproduction, He will not stop them. In fact, like all sin, at some point God will turn them over completely to their sin as punishment. They will seek even greater ways to thwart God's will, and still say it is not sinful.

178 posted on 08/12/2004 6:27:50 AM PDT by johnb2004
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To: Southern62
"Anyone that spouts the "turn your life over to God's will" crap is a complete hypocrite unless they have also decided to forgo ANy MEDICAL TREATMENT FOR ANY REASON."

Nonsense. That is illogical. Try following the posts and you might learn something about morality, God's will and eternal truth.
179 posted on 08/12/2004 6:29:31 AM PDT by johnb2004
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To: johnb2004

It's not illogical - it's simply an extension of the fundamentalist argument that is being proposed against IVF.

Some are drawing a distinction between facilitating conception and facilitating extended life through medical techniques.

I offer that life is life and there is no distinction between a sperm and an egg and you.

Therefore, if medical intervention is bad it is bad in all cases - I think to selectively select areas where it's ok completely invalidates the "it's God's will" argument.


180 posted on 08/12/2004 7:10:00 AM PDT by Southern62
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