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Why Bother?: Why Some Christians Aren’t Fighting Same-Sex ‘Marriage’
BreakPoint with Chuck Colson ^ | June 23, 2004 | Chuck Colson

Posted on 06/23/2004 6:23:17 AM PDT by Mr. Silverback

Things just don’t add up. The polls tell us that a significant majority of American voters oppose same-sex “marriage.” Yet congressmen and senators tell us that their phones aren’t exactly ringing off the hook over this issue. In fact, they’re hardly getting any calls on the subject at all—not even from Christians. What’s going on?

One explanation might be that, for many secularists who oppose same-sex “marriage,” it’s just not that big a deal. The general public often shies away from controversial social issues, especially during election years, and no one wants to seem judgmental, after all, in today’s “tolerant” environment.

But what about Christians? What’s our excuse for staying silent?

I think some don’t really believe this is such a critical battle. To them I can only say—wake up and pay attention. This issue has the potential to redefine and, ultimately, to destroy the institution of marriage in this country—and with marriage goes the family. You can’t ignore this.

But there are other Christians who recognize the importance of the battle over same-sex “marriage” but are still not speaking up. For many of them, I think the problem is a lack of faith.

Now, that may sound harsh, but I can’t think of a better way to put it. A lot of Christians—even some of our most prominent leaders—seem to have succumbed to a “What’s the use?” attitude. They believe that the cultural climate has turned so much against us that we’ll never be able to stop the advance of same-sex “marriage.” And they have heard that we don’t have the votes to pass a constitutional amendment in this session of Congress—so they don’t even want to urge the House and Senate to vote. Some Christian commentators have sounded a defeatist note.

I understand the need to be realistic about the odds we are facing—yes, it’s a tough fight. But it’s quite another thing to believe that because we don’t have the votes today, there’s no reason to fight.

I worked in the U.S. Senate between 1956 and 1960. We fought hard for civil rights bills—against entrenched segregation. Every year the bills were blocked by filibusters. But we kept fighting year after year. So did leaders like Martin Luther King, Jr., and others. By 1964 the voting rights act was passed.

And what about Ronald Reagan, whom we honored just weeks ago—the man who led us to victory in the Cold War? He dared to demand that the Berlin Wall be torn down when almost no one else thought it possible. It took years, but it happened.

Remember, too, Wilberforce and his campaigns against slavery. He had only a handful of votes when he started, but he trusted in God. He battled year after year in the Parliament, and twenty years later, an overwhelming majority voted to end that horrible villainy.

The Senate has, I’m happy to say, scheduled debate to begin the week of July 12. Maybe there aren’t the votes there this year to pass a constitutional amendment, but that’s no excuse not to start the fight. We need a great national debate so we can make our case. And maybe we’ll lose this year—maybe next year we’ll lose again. But we’ll come back year after year—until we win. Like the cause of abolition, our cause is just. And if we trust in God, I believe that during the coming public debates, the public will see this as a great defining issue. And when they do, the pressure will be on recalcitrant congressmen to come our way.

I say let the debate begin. Let us engage the battle.


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To: Know your rights
Much as I'm opposed to gay "marriage," I've never seen this claim adequately defended (and it's usually not defended at all, but simply asserted).

And counterfeit money doesn't hurt the economy and mobile homes don't decrease the value of the neighbors' houses and ebonics doesn't degrade the English language and Elizabeth Taylor would be just as happy wearing Zirconium jewelry and knock-off products don't damage name brand goods.

There is nothing like the real thing.

101 posted on 06/23/2004 10:14:41 AM PDT by N. Theknow (John Kerry knows how to screw the rich - both his wives are millionaires)
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To: PresbyRev
Everything you have said in that post is effectively meaningless in the context of a representative government, especially the part about "discipling nations."

Keep in mind that Christ walked this earth at a time when it was considered perfectly normal for people to live under oppressive, totalitarian governments. And nothing He said ever indicated that this was somehow unacceptable.

102 posted on 06/23/2004 10:18:00 AM PDT by Alberta's Child ("Ego numquam pronunciare mendacium . . . sed ego sum homo indomitus")
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To: seamole
What we need to do is recriminalize abortion, pornography, sodomy, adultery, etc. etc.

Seeing how none of the things you propose would ever happen (except maybe the repealment of the popular election of Senators) without a civil war and the establishment of some form of Christian theocracy, why do you even bother proposing them?

103 posted on 06/23/2004 10:19:03 AM PDT by Modernman ("I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members" -Groucho Marx)
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To: nosofar
However, we have a vote in this country and if we refuse to use this vote in the way one would consider most Christian, then we must bear partial responsibility for the consequences.

Understood. I am not suggesting that we should refrain from all participation in government. I am simply pointing out that we have no obligation to consider the government the legitimate authority in any matter that directly contradicts Christian moral teachings. If one is faced with the choice of breaking a civil law or breaking God's laws, then the appropriate choice is obvious.

104 posted on 06/23/2004 10:20:36 AM PDT by Alberta's Child ("Ego numquam pronunciare mendacium . . . sed ego sum homo indomitus")
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To: ArGee
Forvige me if I ignore the rest of your post. I'm not interested in your selfishness. Your marriage may be intact, but the marraiges of those that follow, including your children's, will not.

(Shrugs). If so, so be it. If people choose to enter into degraded marriages and decide not to take the institution of marriage seriously, that's their loss.

105 posted on 06/23/2004 10:21:43 AM PDT by Modernman ("I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members" -Groucho Marx)
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To: duckln
W should do what Lincoln did, suspend Habeas Corpus. Traitors who have 'outed' themselves should be shipped off to Gitmo for an atitude adjustment. The next election or the remaining Judges, Politicians etc can then sort it all out. But the next time a judge decrees that a dog is a cat, off to Gitmo he goes.

Did you forget your medication this morning?

106 posted on 06/23/2004 10:23:16 AM PDT by Modernman ("I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members" -Groucho Marx)
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To: steve-b
Fortunately, your agenda is prohibited by the Second Amendment.

That would make an excellent tagline.

107 posted on 06/23/2004 10:26:37 AM PDT by Modernman ("I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members" -Groucho Marx)
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To: seamole
Nobody martyrs themselves for depravity. You'll see.

I am confident that Americans would respond to the attempted establishment of a Christian theocracy in the same way we would respond to the attempted establishment of a Muslim theocracy. Those types of government are equally repugnant to thinking Americans.

108 posted on 06/23/2004 10:29:18 AM PDT by Modernman ("I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members" -Groucho Marx)
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To: Mr. Silverback

The institution of hetero marriage is sadly already dead in America -


109 posted on 06/23/2004 10:32:10 AM PDT by Destro (Know your enemy! Help fight Islamic terrorism by visiting www.johnathangaltfilms.com)
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To: Nowhere Man
I see maybe two things coming:

You ignored the most likely scenario: life will go on as always and about a decade from now, we'll all realize that this gay marriage thing never really made a difference in society, one way or another.

110 posted on 06/23/2004 10:33:24 AM PDT by Modernman ("I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members" -Groucho Marx)
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To: *Homosexual Agenda; EdReform; scripter; GrandMoM; backhoe; Yehuda; Clint N. Suhks; saradippity; ...

Homosexual Agenda Ping - Don't have time to read this one right now, but need to perform my duty and pingify you all!

Let me *and* Scripter know if anyone wants on/off this pinglist.


111 posted on 06/23/2004 10:34:27 AM PDT by little jeremiah (http://www.mikegabbard.com - a REAL conservative running for Congress from Hawaii!)
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To: Alberta's Child
Maybe you're right. But some have argued that the Roman empire fell because Christians stopped caring about the public order and devoted themselves exclusively to their own salvation. That's an oversimplistic explanation -- there certainly were other and more important reasons. It may also be that Rome deserved to fall, and that Christians ought to have put salvation first. And perhaps gay marriage isn't a "fall of Western civilization" issue.

But individual actions do have an effect on larger institutions and on society as a whole. If you want to do good, that may involve taking an interest in what happens to the institutions, including government, that protect order.

This seems to be the way things work: Christians do generally withdraw from public life, until the point comes when things get so muddled, that they reenter the public and political spheres in the hopes of making sense of things, saving what can be saved, and doing some good. Hopefully they act in time. Eventually political action doesn't fulfill the hopes they have, and they retreat again.

This may not be the right issue or the right time to get activist. But Christians have gotten involved in politics in the past, and when the stakes are high, will do so again in the future.

112 posted on 06/23/2004 10:34:38 AM PDT by x
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To: Taliesan
I can't imagine how the free love movement affected anyone who did not subscribe to it.

So you don't think it affects children when nobody they know has the same last name as their parents? Then how about this example:

The homosexual movement is a direct descendant of the free love movement. My daughter is involved in an end-of-year performance where several of the kids' parents help out backstage. Yesterday one little girl came up to my daughter and said, "Guess what, my mommies are going to help you get dressed for the show?"

My marriage is stable. My daughter understands what love, sex, and marriage are. And two lesbians will be helping my daughter dress for a show. Maybe lesbians aren't as likely as gays to be predatory but I'm not happy about it.

Evil impacts everyone. It does so every time. And don't be mistaken - homosexuality is evil. It's not wrong, it's not a bad idea, it's not sick. It's evil.

We could argue about what love is. I note that from Matthew to Revelation it had nothing to do the state of the world.

And I will say to them, "I was hungry, and you did not feed me, I was naked and you did not clothe me, I was homeless and you did not give me shelter, I was sick or in prison and you did not visit me." (my own loose memory translation)

Let's add, "I was ensnared in a gross evil, and you did not try to help me see the truth."

Paul also explains why the government bears the sword on G-d's behalf - or are you presuming Christians should not be involved in something done on G-d's behalf.

BTW: I was in a bad mood this morning and I took it out on you - I'm sorry.

Shalom.

113 posted on 06/23/2004 10:40:36 AM PDT by ArGee (After 517, the abolition of man is complete)
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To: NathanR; Taliesan
The net result is that you get fewer horses.

The real issue, of course, is that calling a donky a horse is not the same as calling evil good. There is a very specific woe directed at the latter.

Shalom.

114 posted on 06/23/2004 10:42:05 AM PDT by ArGee (After 517, the abolition of man is complete)
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To: steve-b
It did? You've taken up the practice of "swinging"?

I would tell you not to be an a$$, but you ignored that advice a long time ago.

Shalom.

115 posted on 06/23/2004 10:42:49 AM PDT by ArGee (After 517, the abolition of man is complete)
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To: Modernman
If people choose to enter into degraded marriages and decide not to take the institution of marriage seriously, that's their loss.

The breakdown of the black family is everyone's loss - including those blacks that have strong families.

Evil impacts everybody every time.

Shalom.

116 posted on 06/23/2004 10:44:10 AM PDT by ArGee (After 517, the abolition of man is complete)
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To: independentmind
God's law instructs. Man's law is whatever it is in a given era. If you think that is an artificial distinction, I offer you: Jesus of Nazareth. However much stock and hope He put in the law of the State, go thou and do likewise. This argument is beyond dispute for those who recognize the authority of the New Testament.
117 posted on 06/23/2004 10:45:50 AM PDT by Taliesan (fiction police)
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To: nosofar
children have been raised to believe same-sex marriage is good

Parents' fault.

118 posted on 06/23/2004 10:47:03 AM PDT by Taliesan (fiction police)
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To: Mr. Silverback

>>I worked in the U.S. Senate between 1956 and 1960. We fought hard for civil rights bills—against entrenched segregation.<<

Wonder if he had a day job while he did his "fighting." Wonder if the federal bureaucracy was as inpenetrable as it is today.


119 posted on 06/23/2004 10:47:28 AM PDT by RobRoy (You only "know" what you experience. Everything else is mere belief.)
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To: davisfh

>>We stay silent because we see these people as beyond redemption anyway. We're not supposed to behave that way but there comes a time when Christians simply have to face reality.<<

I think I first said this in 1990: "I feel like a jew in mid-30's Germany.

I bought a book of matches, a can of gas and a fiddle. I'm just waiting for the day to use them.


120 posted on 06/23/2004 10:49:47 AM PDT by RobRoy (You only "know" what you experience. Everything else is mere belief.)
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