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Baby boomers can't let go of the past and look to the future
Salt Lake Tribune ^ | 3/20/04 | Ruben Navarrette Jr

Posted on 03/20/2004 8:26:56 AM PST by qam1

DALLAS -- No one can ever accuse baby boomers of having an inferiority complex. In the 1960s and early '70s, their mantra was: "Don't trust anyone over 30.'' Now it has become: "Don't listen to anyone under 40.''

As a 36-year-old, I got a taste of that this week following an appearance on National Public Radio. Invited to be a guest on "The Diane Rehm Show," I argued that the presidential election should be about the war on terrorism and the war in Iraq -- not the war in Vietnam. I maintained that the personal decisions that John Kerry and George Bush made as young men are not as relevant as the political decisions the two have made since Sept. 11, 2001. And, I said, the fact that so many middle-age Americans -- in both parties -- seem intent on using this election to re-fight the Vietnam War is more evidence that the baby boom generation craves the spotlight and enjoys nothing more than talking about itself and its experiences.

That didn't go over well with another guest on the show -- David Halberstam, Pulitzer Prize-winning Vietnam-era journalist and best-selling author of The Best and the Brightest. Halberstam insists that, when it comes to Vietnam, it matters -- even now -- who went and who didn't. He said that those who went to Vietnam tended to, upon their return and for the rest of their lives, "do more reading." And become more engaged in world affairs.

I don't know about that. President Bush didn't go to Vietnam and he's not known to be much of a reader. But, after 9-11, I would say he's pretty engaged in world affairs.

Halberstam also drew comparisons between what happened in Vietnam and what is happening now in Iraq. He said there's enough "historical resonance'' between the two conflicts to "raise again the question of whether absolute American military superiority can be undermined by the political undertow of a country with a very difficult cultural, historical background'' -- one that includes having lived through a "colonial past.''

As opposed to, say, the United States, which started out as 13 colonies? As long as we're poring over history books, why not start at the beginning? Besides, does anyone out there really think that the administration set out to "colonize'' Iraq?

That's nuts. The fact that polls show a majority of Americans still support the war -- even if they question the way it has been managed -- suggests that most people see the conflict for what it is: an extension of the war on terror and an attempt to neutralize what National Security Adviser Condoleezza Rice has called "strongholds'' where terrorist outfits like al-Qaida could find support.

And how did my opinions go over with the NPR audience? Well, judging from the 100 or so angry e-mails, I would say, like the proverbial lead balloon.

Some self-identified baby boomers seemed to want to send me to my room with no milk and cookies.

One letter ended this way: "I suggest that Mr. Navarrette and his Gen X buddies miss an episode of 'Friends' and go visit the Vietnam Memorial in [Washington] D.C.''

Another suggested: "Crack a book now and then. Those video games are bad for your eyes.''

And another said of her cohorts: "I'll admit mistakes. Apparently, we raised a generation of self-indulgent people with no sense of history.''

That's the thing with baby boomers -- such a high opinion of themselves, such a low opinion of everyone else.

Self-indulgent people. No sense of history. These are the same things that, 30 years ago, members of the World War II generation said about baby boomers. How they were self-centered, spoiled and soft, and that they knew nothing of sacrifice and making do with less especially compared to those who lived through the war and the Great Depression.

At least one letter writer hinted as much: "Unfortunately for people my age, there's a group of people older than we are who fought World War II . . . and they've never forgiven us for 'losing' in Vietnam. Those older veterans disrespected the veterans of my era from the get-go. I'm hoping that'll end this year [with a Kerry victory].''

And I bet you thought this election was about where the country is headed. Nope. For some, it's about where we've been. It's about redemption and second chances for a generation that feels like it never got the respect it deserved and which now can't bring itself to respect the generations that follow it.

Now, if you will excuse me, I think "Friends'' is about to start.


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To: qam1
>>And another said of her cohorts: "I'll admit mistakes. Apparently, we raised a generation of self-indulgent people with no sense of history.'' <<

Oh my Goddness. This woman is the Pot calling the Kettle black. I have two Baby-Boomer sisters. One is a self absorbed tightwad who wonders why her kids won't call her, married to Mr. Paranoid who thinks everyone is out to get him (sidenote: Last week discovered that this pair was holding my Sears card in an old prayer book!!!). The other sister is a flaming liberal/recently out of the closet lesbian (after two marriages and four kids) with Munchausen Syndrome who believes that she judges herself when she dies so can do whatever she wants.
Being born on the cusp of the GenXers, I denounce them both and can't understand at all where they came from. My parents were normal.
21 posted on 03/20/2004 8:56:04 AM PST by netmilsmom (Jonathansmommie's daughter was born 3-11-04, both home today!)
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To: Jeff Chandler; All
Actually as a Baby Boomer, I miss my Slip and Slide, I miss the days when I saw kids playing outside without having to be watched nor, did have the worry about being Preyed upon by the latest Child Molestors.

I miss seeing Kids run and climb trees and create there own skatboards, build bikes, create "Garage bands" (Producing some of the Best Bands of All time) and seeing the paper-boy throwing papers to all the neighbors.

I miss that the only Fat People we saw were Grandma, and who knew from the word Obese or Atkins, I miss that without Computers, Cell Phones ATM Cards, Palm Pilots, CD's we knew how to enjoy ourselves and let are Creativity Minds think of how we could make life FUN.....

Sure we have all the luxuries of home, in fact now a days you never need to leave your house, that is why we don't know our neighbors, or know how to make friends outside the Internet, if you ask me the only Generation who had it all were "Baby Boomers"

22 posted on 03/20/2004 8:56:58 AM PST by missyme
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To: EggsAckley
I...saw their hypocrisy quickly and backed off. ...hippies themselves were all alike. It was laughable.
Great minds think alike :)
23 posted on 03/20/2004 9:04:37 AM PST by 1066AD
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To: swampfox98
So many times we forget the brave men and women who fought and died in that bloody mess of Vietnam, which Lyndon Johnson made worse by his bungling. We forget also that Johnson was from an earlier generation called the "Criminal Democrats".

You are perfectly correct.
As a Native Texan I must say that Johnson was the worst President that I ever saw up and until Clinton. He was a complete and total criminal a@@Hole! He instigated the murder of many youths of America. There was a book published back in those days entitled, "A Texan Looks at Lyndon". Too bad more people didn't buy it and read it.
Then they could have seen the EVIL B*st*ed for what he was. A "Showboating G*dD*mn*d A**H*le". I Voted for Goldwater and I would Again.
(Screw the texas native political criminal, Johnson)

24 posted on 03/20/2004 9:10:24 AM PST by Fiddlstix (This Space Available for Rent or Lease by the Day, Week, or Month. Reasonable Rates. Inquire within.)
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To: Tax Government
The fact that so many boomers are leftists is an indictment of their/our sanity.

Really, now. What do you have to say about all the FR boomers as opposed to the liberal MTV groupies?

25 posted on 03/20/2004 9:13:08 AM PST by mtbopfuyn
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To: FourPeas
He said that those who went to Vietnam tended to, upon their return and for the rest of their lives, "do more reading." And become more engaged in world affairs.

I thought the same thing about this assertion that you did: I would like to see the data.

In fact, a compelling argument could be easily made that the opposite is true.

26 posted on 03/20/2004 9:13:15 AM PST by gg188
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To: qam1
---No one can ever accuse baby boomers of having an inferiority complex. In the 1960s and early '70s, their mantra was: "Don't trust anyone over 30.'' Now it has become: "Don't listen to anyone under 40.''---

Ok, so tell us what happened on "Friends". We'll listen.
27 posted on 03/20/2004 9:15:18 AM PST by claudiustg (Go Sharon! Go Bush!)
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To: Ben Chad
The Boomers are the ones who spawned disco and the SubUrban cowboy fads.

That's all the reason we need to hate every one of them.......
28 posted on 03/20/2004 9:36:45 AM PST by AlbertWang
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To: qam1
Thanks for the article ping.

The Boomers, surely there are exceptions, have never left the '60's. So many live in a land of make believe wherein they are forever 18, 19 maybe 21 years old - look at the t.v. commercials - Depends undergarments are being marketed as 'hip,' 60 is the new 40, arthiritis and menopause commercials feature women in their 30's with young children pitching pills and potions. Movies - the Boomers (folks in their '50's or early '60's always seem to have teenage 'loser' X'ers for children, while they remain 'with it & worldly, the perpetual overachievers.)

It is going to be a complete freakshow through the 2030's as that generation dies off.

The WW II generation has my respect and admiration - they weren't perfect, but neither are those of us styled X'ers. But, they knew when to grow up and they forged a world in which America has come out on top in a Pax Americana. The Boomers have seemed obsessed with throwing that away for four decades.

Perhaps X'ers and Millennials can clean up the Boomers messes. I hope.

I could rant on, but won't. Thanks again for the ping.
29 posted on 03/20/2004 9:40:45 AM PST by PresbyRev
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To: qam1
"A line of tension between mature and maturing exists in most animal societies. Its visibility is increasing in human societies today."

"The thoughtful, disturbed adult may say, 'But why now? It wasn't this way when I was young.'"

"And I must agree that it was not this way at Chicago in the Class of 1930"

Robert Ardrey 1970

Just a small history lesson. :)

30 posted on 03/20/2004 10:06:26 AM PST by WASH
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To: WASH
Right, it is not like every generation is not self-absorbed. The difference with the baby boom generation is there were so many of us. There were so many of us that from the beginning to close to the end advertisers have focused on the biggest consumer group out there. That is the nature of selling.

But who in the world do you guys think elected Ronald Reagan?

Concerning the subject at hand, Viet Nam and the current election, Kerry said an unbelieveable MA thing about it recently. He said that he thought time/history showed him right on Viet Nam? What an utter and complete fool. If there is a consensus about Viet Nam it is that it was a poorly run war but a most noble cause. It showed us that the people of a democracy are not willing to sacrifice over too long a period for the freedom of other, particularly when the generation fighting dominates the society demographically. But certainly time/history has show that Kerry was on the WRONG side of that war intellectually as he is today concerning Iraq. The people of Viet Nam then no more than the people of Iraq today deserve to be enslaved. And Kerry was on the side of turning his back on the people of Viet Nam and comdemmng them to slavery and oppression then as he voted to turn his back on the people of Iraq today.

In some ways with Viet Nam this was understandable. Americans can not fight everyone's battle for freedom. The difference is today that the US was attacked and is ala WWII defending itself in a world wide battle.
31 posted on 03/20/2004 10:28:54 AM PST by JLS
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To: PresbyRev
The one thing I resent the most about the Boomers (not ALL Boomers, but the majority) is that they didn't parent the Xers. They didn't teach us how to be parents. Over half of my generation were latch-key kids. We were raised like dogs, moved from one cage to another and left to our own devices the rest of the time. We were told that all our feelings and desires were acceptable before we were mature enough to make decisions and deal with the fall-out.

Now, we're the parents and I'm VERY happily surprised that many of us are going back to our grandparents' values. We remember what doesn't work and we're trying not to repeat our parents' mistakes.

My good friend was asked by her boyfriend what she really wants out of life, college and job-wise. She grinned and said, "Barefoot and pregnant with a loving husband who can provide for our family!" He blinked and said, "But that's sexist!" (We'll see if he can open his eyes and embrace this vision.)

32 posted on 03/20/2004 10:32:58 AM PST by Marie (My coffee cup is waaaaay too small to deal with this day.)
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To: qam1
From June, 1997:

Talkin’ bout my generation

In the mid-sixties hit “My Generation” the Who declared they hoped they’d die before they got old. It appears most rockers have further considered the matter and decided death isn’t that great a career move.

Watching recent inductions into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame was a reminder of what geezers “my generation” has become. Wrinkles, gray hair, and paunches that make Marlon Brando look like a health nut made up the uniform of the day. The “Young Rascals” are older than the president of the United States is, even though they don’t have their remaining hair feathered as nicely.

Something that was obvious was a change in mind-set. As usual in such situations, the recipients rattle off a litany of people to whom they’re grateful. Lots of the rockers thanked God for what He’d done for them. Considering the booze, drugs, and profligate living many rockers engaged in, they should be giving thanks. It’s a miracle some of them are still around. David Crosby of Crosby, Stills & Nash thanked his wife for sticking it out with him while he did a prison stretch for drugs.

One thing that struck me was the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame must be running out of groups to induct. This year it brought in Buffalo Springfield. Buffalo Springfield? They had one, count ‘em, one whole hit, “For What It’s Worth.”

You remember it. It starts:

“There's something happening here. What it is ain't exactly clear

There's a man with a gun over there. Telling me I got to beware.”

It goes on to explain that young people speaking their minds get so much resistance “from behind.” Wherever that is. After telling us that, they go on: “Paranoia strikes deep. Into your life it will creep. It starts when you're always afraid. You step out of line, the man come and take you away.”

Paranoia sounds like something these guys are pretty familiar with. Not to mention a complete detachment from reality. Those of us who were around back then know that most of the time young people said and did pretty much what they wanted with impunity. Protest rallies, shrieking obscenities at the president, using the flag as the seat of your jeans. . . . just about anything went. I only wish that “the man” had come and carried off some of those jerks.

Maybe Buffalo Springfield was inducted because the pooh-bahs who run the Hall of Fame think their song captured the spirit of a generation. It did, insofar as we boomers were – and continue to be – the most self-indulgent and pontificating generation in history.

Our parents made it through two monumental catastrophes, the Great Depression and World War II. They wanted our lives to be so much better than theirs had been. So they coddled us. We grew up spoiled and smug and egocentric.

The smugness was reinforced in colleges and universities across the Nation as we unquestioningly accepted the Leftist dogmas many instructors dished out. Bill Buckley had it right many years ago when he observed colleges claimed to be centers of academic freedom, but in reality they practice indoctrination.

As boomers bought into the liberal bromides, we were rewarded with being told we were the smartest generation to grace the face of the earth. Ever. We even started believing it.

Now we’re attempting to resist the rules of nature. When we were kids 50 was old. Not any more. We have the right to be young forever, darn it. And if we don’t feel like we did 30 years ago, then some doctors had better come up with pills that’ll do the trick. It’s our right. After all, we went to all the trouble of being born and are the smartest generation. Ever.

Don’t forget that, you young whippersnappers. Or we’ll have the man come and take you away.

Michael M. Bates: My Side of the Swamp

33 posted on 03/20/2004 10:38:23 AM PST by Mike Bates (Artist Formerly Known as mikeb704.)
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To: qam1
Sacrifice replaced by Selfish.

...the last few generations have been brought up with too much and to little: too much opportunity and things, too little gratitude and obligation.

We actuallly have a large segment of population (Gen. X & Y )that couldn't imagine giving without getting, sacrificing out of obligation, suffering out of responsibility, or following through out of honor. Dr. Laura Schlessinger

34 posted on 03/20/2004 11:06:22 AM PST by GrandMoM (GOD is working in secret, behind the scenes even when it looks like nothing will ever change! JM)
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To: JLS; Marie
You both are stating that your parents generation made mistakes in raising your generation even though you're from different generations.

Perhaps this is a common ground between "boomers" and "Xers"

There are theories that the decline of the family was the result of the Industial Age. While some may think there are other reasons, it is interesting that the meaning of family seemed to have fallen during the Industial Age, while it is now recovering during the Information Age.

35 posted on 03/20/2004 11:10:38 AM PST by WASH
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To: JLS; Fiddlstix; marron
Kerry . . . [recently] said that he thought time/history showed him right on Viet Nam? What an utter and complete fool. If there is a consensus about Viet Nam it is that it was a poorly run war but a most noble cause.
marron had a great read on Vietnam:
Mom, Apple Pie, and the Ghost of Quagmires Past
Nixon visited South Viet Nam as VP, and came back saying to Eisenhower that the U.S. should keep out, and when Kennedy took office there were some military advisers (who of course "never" did any fighting) but they probably numbered in the hundreds.

Kennedy let the CIA participate in the overthrow of the Diem government in order to try to get democratic government in a country fighting a civil war. That morally committed us to giving S. Vietnam a decent government. A month later Kennedy was assassinated, and then Johnson proceeded to try to win a war by playing defense - making the baby boomer troops into targets.

The huge terrorist strike known as the Tet Offensive resulted in the complete decimation of the Viet Cong insurgents, leaving the North Vietnamese Army to do the subsequent fighting in a war of conquest. But Tet also demoralized the Democratic Party (and especially its contingent which was known as "objective" journalism). And the Democratic Party has been opposing efforts "to provide for the common defense" ever since.

John Kerry can prattle as he will about having medals for valor in Vietnam, but Kerry was a leader of the post-Tet anti-American Democrat movement. And as such John Kerry has no grounds for questioning the courage of anyone who is younger than himself and who essentially followed Kerry's advice not to fight in Vietnam. To make the case that Vietnam was an ignoble cause, Kerry must make the case that hundreds of thousands of South Vietnamese deserved to die in camps or at sea in little boats.

To make the case that the US was no better than the Soviet Union, John Kerry must argue that our nation should collapse like the USSR did, or that the USSR should be reconstituted.

To make the case against the Republican Party, Kerry must say that Nixon was responsible for not instantly giving up on Vietnam after Kennedy had committed the US to it and after Johnson had put 500,000 troops there - but he must not admit that he voted for the man (Johnson) who fouled Vietnam up so royally that, after all the blood and treasure that the US had put into Vietnam under Johnson, Nixon should have instantly pulled out.

Kerry will have all the help journalism can give him to evade that conundrum, but with Dick Cheney and talk radio and the INTERNET he will need every bit of help he can get. And, probably, then some.


36 posted on 03/20/2004 11:12:15 AM PST by conservatism_IS_compassion (No one is more subjective than the person who believes in his own objectivity.)
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To: JLS
Sorry I meant "Mike Bates" reply, not yours. Sorry
37 posted on 03/20/2004 11:18:20 AM PST by WASH
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To: netmilsmom
Your life could be a made-for-tv movie starring shirley mclain and meryl streep as the sisters.
38 posted on 03/20/2004 11:20:54 AM PST by monkeywrench
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To: Mike Bates
Wrinkles, gray hair, and paunches that make Marlon Brando look like a health nut

LOL!! That's very funny - and very true.

I sometimes look at online dating services (been widowed a long time). I'll read thru a person's musical tastes and see that they are similar to mine. Then I look at the picture and see an old man. I wonder how come that old guy likes the same stuff I do - and then note that the 'old guy' is in my same age range (50-55). Scary stuff, dude.

39 posted on 03/20/2004 11:40:33 AM PST by radiohead (Over toning the opponent since 2003)
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To: qam1
Gee....another article about nothing. But I bet he looked good writing it.
40 posted on 03/20/2004 11:47:26 AM PST by Khurkris (Ranger On...)
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