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Defending Marriage, After Massachusetts: What the Court Did and How We Should Respond
National Catholic Register ^ | November 30 - December 6, 2003 | EVE TUSHNET

Posted on 12/03/2003 6:52:34 PM PST by nickcarraway

It's not every day a court gets to stand against all of recorded history.

That's what the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court did Nov. 18 when, in Goodridge v. Department of Health, it ruled that marriage in Massachusetts is no longer the union of a man and a woman but the union of "two persons." The court argued that forbidding a man to marry another man constituted unlawful and irrational sex discrimination.

The Bait-and-Switch

The court drew on several laws and state constitutional provisions in making its case, including anti-discrimination laws, hate-crimes laws and a constitutional provision modeled on the failed Equal Rights Amendment forbidding discrimination on the basis of sex.

There's just one problem: When Massachusetts legislators voted for these laws, they were assured again and again that same-sex marriage would not be the result. There is virtually no chance that these laws would have passed if voters and legislators had believed they would lead to the radical redefinition of marriage.

The Massachusetts court is saying to citizens, "You all go ahead and vote for the laws. Then we'll tell you what you really voted for. Don't expect it to look much like what you thought you agreed to." The rule of law requires that laws be predictable and stable - that laws not be yanked out from under citizens like a carpet in a Tom and Jerry cartoon. The Massachusetts court (like the Supreme Court in Roe v. Wade) has ignored this principle.

The funny thing is, this bait-and-switch approach to judging may be turned against the Goodridge decision itself in the future. As UCLA law professor Eugene Volokh (who supports same-sex marriage) has pointed out, the language the majority used in its decision gives no good reason to bar polygamy or adult incestuous marriages. If marriage is simply about commitment, well, obviously we can make commitments to more than one person. And we can make commitments to people who are already members of our families - for example, siblings. Why should these commitments not be recognized in law as marriages?

Although the Goodridge decision insists that the plaintiffs, and therefore its decision, do not "attack the binary nature of marriage [i.e. you can't marry more than one person], the consanguinity provisions [anti-incest provisions] or any of the other gate-keeping provisions of the marriage licensing law," why should the court expect its wishes to have any more force than the wishes of the voters and legislators the court has already ignored? If the court is willing to proceed from what it deems as the internal logic of various pieces of legislation, rather than either the plain text or the legislators' common understanding of what they were doing, why should later courts not apply the same test to Goodridge?

Procreation

The majority in Goodridge rejected the argument that marriage is an essentially procreative union, pointing out that couples who cannot have children are still permitted to marry. But this objection misses the point.

Marriage - civil marriage, not just sacramental marriage - is essentially a procreative union in two ways. First, marriage only exists because of procreation. Marriage developed as a universal human institution because when a man and a woman have sex, very often a baby is conceived. We've tried to convince ourselves that we have gotten around this "problem." But no matter how many hormones a woman pumps into her body, no matter how much latex we swathe ourselves in, intercourse still makes babies. If nothing else, the existence of almost 4,000 crisis-pregnancy centers in this country should prove that. Marriage developed because the children conceived by men and women need to be protected, and, especially, need strong legal ties to their fathers, whom biology allows to walk away far more easily than mothers.

And marriage developed because sexual risk is asymmetrical: Men and women face different risks when they sleep together. Men risk committing resources to care for children that may not be their own. Women risk being abandoned and left to care for a fatherless child. Marriage developed to minimize these risks. That's why no society - even among those that did have a social role for some expressions of male homosexuality - has instituted same-sex marriage until the past decade.

Second, marriage is procreative because marriage is society's way of ensuring that as many children as possible have mothers and fathers. A couple who cannot conceive children on their own can adopt, thus providing children with a mother and a father. Two men, however, can't replace a mother, nor can two women replace a father.

We see this most obviously in the inner cities, where many families consist of a grandmother, a mother and a child. Here, two women struggle to raise a child without a father. And the children say, again and again, that they need daddies. The sons say they had no one to teach them how to be men. The daughters say they had no one to teach them what to look for in a man, what role a man should play in the family.

Same-sex marriage says that men - fathers - are unnecessary in forming a family. This is one of the most detrimental messages a society can send.

What Now?

At first glance, the Massachusetts court seemed to have left a loophole for the Legislature: The court's ruling would not take effect for 180 days. In that time, court-watchers initially speculated, the legislature could seek to amend the Massachusetts Constitution, defining marriage as the union of one man and one woman. Such an amendment would override the court's decision.

But the Massachusetts constitution is difficult to amend, and it is impossible to amend in 180 days. So that route is out.

The Goodridge decision makes the question of the Federal Marriage Amendment all the more pressing. This amendment would prevent both courts and legislatures from enacting same-sex marriage. The most basic version of this amendment would read, "Marriage in America is and shall be exclusively the union of one woman and one man."

Amending the Constitution of the United States is a major project and not a step to be taken lightly. But if we do not take this step, we may lose the fundamental building block of society.

Eve Tushnet writes from Washington, D.C.


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Editorial; Government; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections; US: Massachusetts; US: Virginia
KEYWORDS: conservatism; constitution; courts; family; gaymarriage; goodridge; homosexual; homosexualagenda; laws; marriage; massachusetts; prisoners; romans1; samesexmarriage
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To: BikerNYC
The way to save Marriage is to rope more people into it.

The way to save marriage is to begin at the beginning and remember what it is for. It is not just any relationship of human beings. It is a unique relationship of two human beings--a male and a female--and its binary nature evidences its purpose.

This nation's people once knew what marriage was all about. That was in the days before Roe v. Wade and the great marriage destroying social experiments that have followed in its wake.

The soul-dead, those with seared consciences, can no longer apprehend the special nature of marriage. They would define it down to include the deviency of men who are sexually attracted to other men.

If the shoe fits, where it proudly.

121 posted on 12/06/2003 12:22:09 PM PST by Kevin Curry
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To: scripter
You just proved him wrong and now you're cosigning his post. ROTFLMAOSMH
122 posted on 12/06/2003 12:22:31 PM PST by breakem
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To: Kevin Curry
At the beginning didn't 12 year olds get married. At the beginning didn't the old man kick the wife out if they didn't have children and try another woman.

Does conservative really mean bring back the good old days?

123 posted on 12/06/2003 12:23:56 PM PST by breakem
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To: BikerNYC
bump 114
124 posted on 12/06/2003 12:24:45 PM PST by breakem
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To: All
bye boys and girls and boys and boys and whatever..christmas lights to hang.

I'm sure we will do this again.

125 posted on 12/06/2003 12:25:58 PM PST by breakem
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To: nickcarraway
This piece was beautifully, and thoughtfully, written. Well done.
126 posted on 12/06/2003 12:26:05 PM PST by rodeocowboy
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To: breakem; jwalsh07
Um, nice try but I said that in post 40: "the APA responded and said something about how they didn't mean to endorse pedophilia."

Obviously the twisting and turning has been you all along.

127 posted on 12/06/2003 12:26:17 PM PST by scripter (Thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: Kevin Curry
Al lot of good that high and mighty definition of marriage does when close to half of those who choose to get married later choose to get divorced.

Roe v. Wade didn't cause the decay of marriage. Rather, it was an economic system that encouraged mobility of its workers, and a wage/productivity system that soon made it impossible for one spouse to stay at home.

I think Marx was a jackass, but in this case, he was right. Economics drove social change.
128 posted on 12/06/2003 12:28:32 PM PST by BikerNYC
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To: jwalsh07; breakem
It appears breakem realized his error after re-reading my post 40.
129 posted on 12/06/2003 12:29:08 PM PST by scripter (Thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: breakem
BikerNYC says "the more the merrier." Everyone should be married. Find someone or thing--boy, girl, son, daughter, pet etc--and just marry! In no time marriage will be strengthened beyond our wildest desires.

Historically, the legislatures have acted to establish minimum ages of consent to marriage. I do not believe 12 year olds should have the legal capacity to consent. If my state allowed 12 year old children to marry, I would work hard to elect legislators who would change the law.

Even at that, I am not aware of any state that has ever allowed a 12 year old boy to marry another male. Are you? Are you suggesting this should be allowed?

Apparently, BikerNYC would support it.

130 posted on 12/06/2003 12:30:59 PM PST by Kevin Curry
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To: breakem
When you return you should explain the differences, as you see it, between what I said in post 40 and post 115.
131 posted on 12/06/2003 1:10:39 PM PST by scripter (Thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: BikerNYC
It need not be limited to anything a priori. What did you have in mind?

I'm interested in whether or not you would limit the redefinition of marriage to couples or extend it to any number of people, be it a sexual or platonic relationship.

If you would extend it, then that is a principled position though one I would take a dim view of.

You're also conflating issues as regards marriage. The fact that there are people who do not practice marriage as it should be practiced says little to nothing about the institution of marriage. Similarly, the fact that marxists abound in our Constitutional Republic says nothing about the worth of our Constitution.

132 posted on 12/06/2003 2:24:18 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: Kevin Curry
Kevin, you said go back to the beginning on marraige and I said like when they married at age 12 and got rid of the barren wife. Then you said you didn't want that. Well either you miss the good old days or not.
133 posted on 12/06/2003 3:12:12 PM PST by breakem
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To: scripter
Hell, you can't explain your own comments, why would I try to explain them.

You get the spinner of the week award. And now you are using the time-honored losing technique of claiming a victory. It is especially disingenuous when you have to make up a new version of what is here in front of everyone.

I am now bored with another failed attempt to get you to admit the obvious. So you can have the last word. Please limit yourself to one reply so you don't stack up my comments function.

If I get interested in pointing out your methods on another hate-the-homo thread, I'll reply. If not, you can have the usual freedom to spread your propaganda.

It's been............interesting if nothing else.

134 posted on 12/06/2003 3:18:47 PM PST by breakem
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To: jwalsh07
Since many marriages stop being sexual, I would not restrict marriage to sexual relationships and have the people to be married somehow verify that they have sex with each other.

As far as who should be able to get married, I will take those issues as they come. I am convinced that there is a sufficent number of relationships between gay people who hold themselves out to be everything but married, that to deny these people the means to get married is to teach young people that it is not necessary to be married if you have a serious loving relationship. That does not help marriage as an institution.

David Brooks was right. We should insist that gay people in committed relationships get married to each other, so that it becomes quite clear to young people that people in serious relationships get married. To act otherwise is to provide an alternative to marriage that is too atractive to ignore.

It's not just that there are some straight people who are not practicing marriage the way it should be practiced, it's that close to half of straight marriages end in divorce. The exception, in a sense, is gobbling up the rule. If it gets to 90%, what's the point?
135 posted on 12/06/2003 3:43:54 PM PST by BikerNYC
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To: Kevin Curry
Kevin:

There are an awful lot of laws that would have to be changed to give gay couples the same protections for as married heterosexual couples. I remember having to learn about some of this years ago in law school classes. Issues for same sex couples come up in family law, tax law, wills trusts and estates and so on. Don't be fooled into thinking it's all so simple. It's enough to make your head spin. Gay couples who can afford it sometimes end up entering into complicated contracts that may or may not be valid from one state to the next and that need to be reviewed fairly often to see that changes in the laws haven't rendered portions of them invalid . They end up doing all sorts of things like even going so far as adopting one another to enjoy some of the same protections married couples enjoy. There are lawyers who specialize in helping gay clients with these various issues. It's a dangerous area for the rest of us to tread because there are all sorts of pitfalls in creating these contractual partnerships, estate plans and so on for gay couples that could get lawyers who aren't well up on this stuff in a lot of trouble.

I don't know that I would call myself a big proponent of gay marriage. While I don't mind gay people and actually know a few that I like and respect, homosexuality is something that turns my stomach when I think about it. I am certainly not looking for a way to hijack anything or force anyone to do anything. I'm just not so opposed to gay marriage. It seems that at least from a legal standpoint to be something that could simplify a lot of issues. Also it seems that it might promote long term commitments and monogamy for gay couples, which couldn't be anything but good in terms of helping to stop the spread of disease and so on. And again, whether gays are ever allowed to marry or not, my main gripe in this thread was that I don't like idea of amending the constitution for something like this.

I'm really tired of this thread and will not be responding to any further posts. This just isn't my issue and I am done arguing about it.
136 posted on 12/06/2003 6:21:33 PM PST by TKDietz
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To: breakem; All
Hey, anyone and everyone can see what I wrote in post 40 and 115. And I encourage everybody to do just that. If you honestly think there's some difference or contradiction between what I said in either post, please consider taking an extended vacation as you apparently need it more than anything else. If you're just trying to spin this to your advantage, I'll continue to bring folks back to post 40 and 115 and let them judge for themselves.
137 posted on 12/06/2003 6:34:05 PM PST by scripter (Thousands have left the homosexual lifestyle)
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To: johnb838
And we won't last long this way.

Maybe its a good thing!

138 posted on 12/12/2003 4:40:09 PM PST by GregoryFul
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To: TKDietz
You are not moral if you believe that gays should be allowed to marry each other!
139 posted on 12/12/2003 4:41:51 PM PST by GregoryFul
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To: TKDietz
Ah ah! That explains your confusion.
140 posted on 12/12/2003 4:43:03 PM PST by GregoryFul
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