Divorce Tale/ NY / HELP. (Need a roomate? ;-) )

[cyborg]

Is this a joke?

[diefree]

go to www.craigslist.com, lots of jobs there and it's free

[Reactionary]

It isn't a joke. As it stands now, a woman can screw your best friend, get the kids, the car, the house, and sneer at you as she throws your clothes into a pit.

Equality? My eye.

[The Westerner]

Good luck, man. Hope someone can give you a lead.

[mommadooo3]

Have you tried 'America's Job Bank'?

[1stFreedom]

I've been posting here on FR for a few years. It's no joke.

[FITZ]

You need a female lawyer and try to get custody of your kid.

[1stFreedom]

I mean I'm post quite a bit and don't post jokes. This situation is new and real.

[BCrago66]

"I have no real prospects yet except one job managing OUTSOURCED PROGRAMMERS IN INDIA!"

A lot of people have it worse than you and end up working for Burger King for $7 an hour. The job that you just mentioned seems to be a more lucrative supervisory position - so perhaps you can place your love of money above your hatred for enterprising Indians an reconsider that job.

[FITZ]

Try to get pictures of her spending time with her lover --- and if there were witnesses to her locking the baby in the car. She might be putting the baby at risk --- neglecting the baby to be with her boyfriend --- I'd fight for custody.

[1stFreedom]

Nope. but I've been checking out:
Hotjobs.com
Flipdog.com
Monster.com
Careerbuilder.com
Dice.com
Nettemps.com
NYTimes.com

I check them *daily* and respond immediately to any job I qualify for. I then follow up with a phone call. Not much success.

Many jobs posted on line are either fake or already filled. Check back each day and you'll see the same jobs posted with a new date. I've been doing this for years and sometimes I even see the same generic from the same company posted online. Most of these offenders are contract companies.

[1stFreedom]

Look. It's not worth it. My son needs his mom too. I'd rather he be with her than in daycare. The worst thing I could do is impact my son this way.

[baltodog]

You leave that house and it's her's, man.

[cyborg]

The courts have traditionally been kinder towards the mother than the father for good reason. Now I do not think that is as applicable since the onset of liberal feminism.

[Salvation]

**You need a female lawyer and try to get custody of your kid.**

Legal Aid

[1stFreedom]

>>place your love of money above your hatred for enterprising Indians an reconsider that job.

First of all, it's a caucasion who owns the company I would be working for AND the outsourcing firm in India.

Secondly, I don't hate Indians. I have had the pleasure of working with many in my consulting experience. I actually like working with them and think highly of them.

What bothers me is that I can't get a job because they are being shipped to India. I can't get a job because I can't work for $5k per year.

And, burger king won't pay the 1k rent. Throw child support and alimony, lawyers bills, and then rent for my own hole in the wall (YMCA??) and car payments, and BK will not do anything. Cost of living in NY is high.

[cyborg]

I didn't mean any insult. I know sometimes people post things from the Onion,etc.

[FITZ]

If you don't mind your son being raised by another man and an adulterous that's up to you --- it's doubtful that married women attract the best quality of men though. Just take any job you can -- you'll need it --- you have to at least make sure your kid eats and has child support.

[1stFreedom]

Well, we rent (Thank God!!!)

I told her I refuse to leave without a court order in the form of a divorce/separation agreement.

Why? I don't want to be seen by the courts as having abandoned my child.

And she has plenty more options than me. The only option I have is to live homeless in my car. Her friends will take her in.