[cyborg]

Is this a joke?

[diefree]

go to www.craigslist.com, lots of jobs there and it's free

[The Westerner]

Good luck, man. Hope someone can give you a lead.

[mommadooo3]

Have you tried 'America's Job Bank'?

[FITZ]

You need a female lawyer and try to get custody of your kid.

[BCrago66]

"I have no real prospects yet except one job managing OUTSOURCED PROGRAMMERS IN INDIA!"

A lot of people have it worse than you and end up working for Burger King for $7 an hour. The job that you just mentioned seems to be a more lucrative supervisory position - so perhaps you can place your love of money above your hatred for enterprising Indians an reconsider that job.

[baltodog]

You leave that house and it's her's, man.

[YankeeinOkieville]

As you state you've posted on the subject of your wife and her friend before. You need to make a decision to either keep her or boot her. If you keep her then both of you need to grow up and act as man and wife. If you decide to divorce,then make a clean cut and leave the woman to lead her life. Yes you share a child, but you cannot use him as an excuse to stay nor as a weapon if you go. Either way the people here at FR cannot live your life for you. So, just make your decision and take responsibility for it.

[Agnes Heep]

I haven't got any particular experience that would help you with your marital problems, other than to say that you need to do some self-examination and coldly determine what culpability you might bear for them. Most programmers I've ever known tend to be anal-retentive types, and while that might make for a great programmer, it's really hell on relationships.

The market for programmers may be tight, but it's not nonexistent. Find yourself some other kind of work, even if it's only keyboarding for a local temp agency (that's how my career in networking started). Either something will come up in your own field or you can branch out into something else. The important thing is to be working, not only for the money, but to help you maintain your self-respect.

[Cindy]

FYI Link...

DADI.org
http://www.dadi.org/

[ThreeYearLurker]

Here ya go!