[FITZ]

If you don't mind your son being raised by another man and an adulterous that's up to you --- it's doubtful that married women attract the best quality of men though. Just take any job you can -- you'll need it --- you have to at least make sure your kid eats and has child support.

[1stFreedom]

>>If you don't mind your son being raised by another man and an adulterous that's up to you

Nothing I can do about that. It's a lost cause in todays courts. Back in the days if one was committing adultery it had an impact on custody. Today it don't mean squat.

>> it's doubtful that married women attract the best quality of men though.

Oh yea. I keep telling her he has underlying motives. She is in denial and says he's just a concerned friend. Well, I tell her that none of her lady friends are doing the same with/for her. She refuses to accept that he has an agenda and she only believes his is acting out of the goodness of his heart. I'm like, he should be treating you no different than any other stranger. Is he offering to buy a phone for some stranger he bumps into? No. Anyway, it's a lost cause.

And, I can't reject the job involving outsourcing unless another comes along. I do have to pay rent. But it is so humiliating since I am so strongly against outsourcing. (I have posted many vanities/breaking news on the subject.)
Just take any job you can -- you'll need it --- you have to at least make sure your kid eats and has child support.