What in the world is the matter with me?

[ConservativeMan55]

Its tough because I'm not a party going type of guy. In fact I've never been to a party in my life. But the most interesting ladies go do that kind of thing.

[Cvengr]

Consider it a blessing. There's a reason for it in His plan. Follow Him and you'll be more blessed than any other course you can follow. if it's a curse, then remember that for every cursing there is a blessing. Just turn the cursing into a blessing and don't turn the blessings in to cursings. Good luck and keep the faith.

[bigfootbob]

IMHO it's the size of the unit.

[Aggie Mama]

Wow, you sound like me at 20. I never dated in hs, and only had a few dates in college until I met dh my senior year. I hope this doesn't sound trite, but pray about it. God has a plan for everything and everyone, even if it doesn't seem like it sometimes. I promise you, there are plenty of women out there that would go head over heels for a guy like you. They are probably thinking the same things that you are right now. =)

It's worth the wait. I'm glad I didn't waste my time on serial dating -- dh was my first and only serious love and I feel blessed for it.

[the_doc]

It's kind of hard to explain, but I wouldn't date the kind of girl who would date you.

[meadsjn]

God already has someone picked out for you. You may be ready, but He's still working on her.

Proverbs 24
27 Prepare your outside work,
Make it fit for yourself in the field;
And afterward build your house.

[ezo4]

Dude check this out.

Me and my girl friend are going to split up after 7 years. She has to move back to CA to help with her sick parrents. I wont live in CA for any reason mainly the firearms laws. So I have to let her go. I have my prorities.

So I get on line (this is actually kinda funny) on match.com and few other sites to see the availablity of nice women out there. So I do search and low and behold there tons of women out there. pages and pages of them.

Ok I live by Seattle. Seattle is liberal nightmare place in case you dont know.

I do a personality search and only look for "conservitive" women. Guess how many I fine.

9 in all Only nine women.

Wha hahaha hahah

Its going to be lonely for a few months or posibly years. Or maybe I need to move.

[stanz]

You're gonna hate this, but "when you least expect it,the right one will come along." Yeah, I used to hate that too, but it has merit. For now, just have fun and stop looking so hard, you're only 20.

[ConservativeMan55]

I checked for that halitosis and I don't have it, LOL!

[T Minus Four]

But the most interesting ladies go do that kind of thing.

Wrong. Maybe the most interesting-LOOKING ladies. Don't confuse the two.

[Hoosier-Daddy]

Stop looking and don't worry about it. Focus on becoming successful. You won't have a problem attracting women then. Getting women is like selling: if you act like you need the sale, you most likely won't get it. When you don't need the sale, they come fast, furious and often.

[Senator Pardek]

Feign confidence. It works.

[T Minus Four]

Can he have your ex's number? LOL!!!

[ConservativeMan55]

I'll agree with that.

[Lando Lincoln]

Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?

Greetings CM55 - couldn't resist......I think it goes back to the cave man/cave woman. The cave woman always chose the dominant, aggressive male as her mate. Helped her survival. Well, after generation upon generation of that....well it's kind of written in their genetic code.

Well, it's one theory, anyway....Good Luck!! ;>)

[Sloth]

I know how you feel... most women just want to be treated like dirt. Keep in mind that it only takes ONE woman who is different... and be patient. I just got married 2 months ago, at age 27.

[DouglasKC]

I find it extremely peculiar that the ones that are taken are dating the guy flipping pancakes down at IHOP treating them like S^%&%. Seriously folks...something's happening here, and it ain't buffalo springfield.

This has been a problem for quite a while. You don't want the ones that want men to treat them like dirt. They have problems. You want to hold off, wait, and be patient until the one who loves you and responds to being treated nicely comes along. Unfortunately I married her 20 years ago so you'll have to find someone else. :-)

[Balata]

Does anyone know why women end up dating guys who treat them badly or are unsuccessful?

Here's your homework assignment. Go to Starbucks that's connected to a Barnes and Noble, order a grande non-fat latte then purchase a book titled "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert A. Glover. Then sit down right there and start reading it.

[apackof2]

Its not any easier for us conservative women!