[ConservativeMan55]

Its tough because I'm not a party going type of guy. In fact I've never been to a party in my life. But the most interesting ladies go do that kind of thing.

[T Minus Four]

But the most interesting ladies go do that kind of thing.

Wrong. Maybe the most interesting-LOOKING ladies. Don't confuse the two.

[Kevin Curry]

I'm not a party going type of guy. In fact I've never been to a party in my life.

It's probably just as well. The women you meet there tend to be the party-going type--generally superficial and bubble-headed.

How about a different kind of party? Get involved with your political party at the local level, or at your local college or university.

[I got the rope]

What's tough about going to Church? It may look like women are having fun partying and carousing, but in reality my friend they are only trying to fill a void that only God can fill. You probably won't understand this right now at 20 (I didn't until I was 26), but you have to love God first, before you can really enjoy the love and mutual respect of a real woman.

[rwfromkansas]

I will give you some verses from Scripture (not sure if you are Christian or not):

You are COMPLETE in Him. Col. 2:10

Christ...is OUR LIFE. Col 3:4

Ultimately, even if not a single soul likes you, Jesus Christ is your IDENTITY if you are saved in Him. He is YOUR IDENTITY; HE IS WHO YOU ARE. You are complete in Him and Christ is YOUR LIFE. True joy comes from this, even if you don't have a 'significant other.' Of course, with our flesh, it is difficult to truly experience this despite it being a fact.