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To: TheDon

For all you out there wanting to blame only her - think about all the people who would have condemned her for having a baby out of wedlock. Family members too. Maybe her husband.

Girls who got pregnant in those days were severely punished. The guys just walked away, sometimes with a smile.


7 posted on 04/17/2026 7:42:10 PM PDT by ladyjane
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To: ladyjane

A lot of people talk about repentance and forgiveness but very few actually believe in it. But their lust for vengeance is real enough even if they’ve never heard of the person or the crime they’re condemning.


9 posted on 04/17/2026 7:50:57 PM PDT by TigersEye (The Democrat Party - like the love child of La Cosa Nostra and Al Qaeda )
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To: ladyjane

How did she get pregnant? I’m just a few years older than her, it wasn’t the Puritan era at that time. She might have been shamed in some social circles, but we were past the hard condemnation, and I am confused why women are exempt from from consequences. There was a time women recognized sex outside of marriage had consequences. Now we kill those consequences.


10 posted on 04/17/2026 7:55:52 PM PDT by Yogafist
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To: ladyjane
Did she murder the baby?

Then she is the only one responsible.

There were any number of other options.

She chose murder.

12 posted on 04/17/2026 8:01:52 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (The tree accused of killed Sonny Bono was planted.)
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To: ladyjane

Are you kidding? It was 1981 not 1941. Wasn’t nearly as bad as you make it out to be in America in those days unless you lived in some kind of an Amish society or something. Taking a babies life in 1981 was downright selfish and unforgivable. There was always adoption you know? Murder should never have been an option.


23 posted on 04/17/2026 8:25:26 PM PDT by Bullish (My tagline ran off with another man, but it's okay... I wasn't married to it.)
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To: ladyjane

It was 1981 not 1921. Out of wedlock births were no longer a scandal. I assume she was hiding her pregnancy so she could just as easily have hidden giving birth.

She was a college student who, instead of going to an ER and giving the baby up for adoption, suffocated her newborn and threw away the body like a piece of garbage.


24 posted on 04/17/2026 8:26:09 PM PDT by CaptainK ("No matter how cynical you get, it is impossible to keep up” )
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To: ladyjane

Maybe in 1955, but not 1985. BTW, one of my sisters got pregnant at 16 in 1966 when we lived in Vallejo, California. She was not shunned by my parents or anyone else


25 posted on 04/17/2026 8:26:27 PM PDT by shotgun
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To: ladyjane

::Girls who got pregnant in those days were severely punished.::

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Oh, please. Seriously?

The one severely punished here was the poor murdered baby. But I guess that innocent child does not count in your estimation.


30 posted on 04/17/2026 9:09:11 PM PDT by Bigg Red ( Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.)
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To: ladyjane

Girls who got pregnant in those days were severely punished.

What BS.

I don’t know how old you are.

But we who were in HS and collage in the 70’s. Can tell you a different story.

The 80’s there was even less problems for unwed mothers.

Several of my HS and collage classmates got pregnant.

They Ethier got married and went onto raise their children by themselves.


34 posted on 04/18/2026 3:34:38 AM PDT by riverrunner
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To: ladyjane
Girls who got pregnant in those days were severely punished. The guys just walked away, sometimes with a smile.

"The good old days," to some of the men on here.

37 posted on 04/18/2026 5:59:45 AM PDT by A_perfect_lady (The greatest wealth is to live content with little. -Plato)
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