Posted on 01/18/2026 4:08:15 AM PST by where's_the_Outrage?
A TikTok video recently caused a stir on social media. Posted by user @filimonovadrian, it presents a surprising social experiment that questions our perception of others. The premise is simple: to observe whether a small change can cause a noticeable difference in the attitudes of passersby (especially men).
In this experiment, a young woman is filmed with a hidden camera while walking with cardboard boxes. She deliberately drops them to simulate a situation where she might need help. The video is in two parts:
In the first part, the woman is wearing jogging pants, a simple and comfortable outfit often considered "casual" or "unprepared" according to certain social norms. The images show that, in this version, male passersby ignore her much more often; no one seems to notice that she needs assistance.
In the second part, the same woman is dressed in a short skirt. Same situation, same gestures: this time, the men's reaction changes radically, many stop to help her spontaneously.
The contrast is striking and immediate: this simple change of clothing seems enough to influence the attention and attitude of the men around her. This highlights that many men intervene based on their own perceptions: when she's wearing jogging pants, few help her, whereas when she wears a dress or skirt, short......
Reactions are multiplying under the video. Some people express dismay: "It seems like clothing matters," "It's sad to see that appearance counts so much," while others recall the fundamental principles of solidarity and kindness: "Regardless of appearance, helping someone in need should be automatic."
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The article tries to make it about kindness and decency but does not specifically mention sexuality and feminism, though it is implied. Guys will help a feminine female rather than one that looks like a Karen.
And the videos showed older men not helping but the younger guys did.
Men are more visually oriented than women.
Men are inclined to become familiar with attractive women.
Hide the sexuality and a lower level of response is expected.
It is instinct. Don’t overthink this. We dudes sure don’t.
I refuse to help women unless they are under 25, in high heels, and wearing a bikini.
Duh!
I always noticed that my male co-workers were nicer to me on the days I dressed up.
It is good to have standards.
Works both ways.
Bikini AND high heels? Hmm... so, during a Miss America photoshoot, basically? That’s the time to drop a box! LOL!
Shocking! When the woman is dressed like a man, the men treat her like a man. When she’s dressed like a lady, the men treat her like a lady.
You know... it probably does.
And I am sure they were nicer too when they observed you noticing them noticing and didn’t freak out. See, isn’t love grand!???
Finally. Someone understands me. 😁
It’s huge when flying, too — or it used to be, pre-9/11 when seating was more flexible.
If I dressed in a feminine suit and was careful with hair and makeup, I would often be upgraded to first class when I checked in at the ticket counter.
Sexxxy Clothes Matter
It appears that women who advertise their wares attract more men. Duh!
Like Kudsman said, don't overthink this. At the end of a hard military day you just want a cold beer and something nice to look at, and more of it is better so long as it isn't screeching Karen like noises at you.
“Some people express dismay: “It seems like clothing matters,” “It’s sad to see that appearance counts so much,””
Yes, that is the attitude that has governed this world since creation, including the ones whining about it.
I am a nice guy.
I would have zero expectations that being helpful would evolve into anything more serious than a side walk, "Thank you."
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