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My Life Is a Lie [“Every dollar you earn climbing from $40,000 to $100,000 triggers benefit losses that exceed your income gains. You are literally poorer for working harder.”]
yesigiveafig.com ^ | November 30, 2025 | Michael W. Green

Posted on 12/04/2025 1:53:20 PM PST by grundle

Our entire safety net is designed to catch people at the very bottom, but it sets a trap for anyone trying to climb out. As income rises from $40,000 to $100,000, benefits disappear faster than wages increase.

I call this The Valley of Death.

Let’s look at the transition for a family in New Jersey:

1. The View from $35,000 (The “Official” Poor)

At this income, the family is struggling, but the state provides a floor. They qualify for Medicaid (free healthcare). They receive SNAP (food stamps). They receive heavy childcare subsidies. Their deficits are real, but capped.

Every dollar you earn climbing from $40,000 to $100,000 triggers benefit losses that exceed your income gains. You are literally poorer for working harder.

2. The Cliff at $45,000 (The Healthcare Trap)

The family earns a $10,000 raise. Good news? No. At this level, the parents lose Medicaid eligibility. Suddenly, they must pay premiums and deductibles.

Income Gain: +$10,000

Expense Increase: +$10,567

Net Result: They are poorer than before. The effective tax on this mobility is over 100%.

3. The Cliff at $65,000 (The Childcare Trap)

This is the breaker. The family works harder. They get promoted to $65,000. They are now solidly “Working Class.”

But at roughly this level, childcare subsidies vanish. They must now pay the full market rate for daycare.

Income Gain: +$20,000 (from $45k)

Expense Increase: +$28,000 (jumping from co-pays to full tuition)

Net Result: Total collapse.

When you run the net-income numbers, a family earning $100,000 is effectively in a worse monthly financial position than a family earning $40,000.


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To: Mariner
There is no allowance for employer health insurance. As you go up in income that chance increases substantially.

Exactly. Roughly 90% of American workers work for wages. That means they generally have access to health insurance through their employer. While the quality of that insurance obviously varies, for the most part it's good enough.

101 posted on 12/04/2025 8:31:19 PM PST by Terabitten (Our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor...)
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To: Fledermaus
I paid in and now I’m getting back monthly.

You paid in to somebody else's SS check, and now other people are paying in to make your SS check.

It's a ponzi scheme, or generational theft.

It's NOT an investment, so the term "return" has no real applicability to it. You get whatever Congress decides to give you.

And it’s only my supplement income.

So you're not stupid. That's good.

102 posted on 12/04/2025 8:48:57 PM PST by NorthMountain (... the right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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To: Mariner
There is no allowance for family help in ASSUMED eternal childcare.

Not only that, but some of his numbers are suspect. The author gives a number of $32k/yr for two kids, or roughly $1333 per month per child. He gives no indication of how he arrived at that number.

A quick google search indicates that the average monthly daycare cost for an infant is $1282/mo, which is lower than his but still reasonably close. However, daycare for a toddler, typically defined as a 1-3 year old, drops to $1200/month, and it drops down to $800/mo for a 4 year old.

A reasonable 2 year separation between children would mean the costs would be about $29,784 the first year, assuming a newborn and a 2 year old. The 2nd year (1 year old and 3 year old) would be $28800 and the third year (2 and 4) would be $24000. By the fourth year, cost would drop dramatically as the older child is now in school and no longer needs all day daycare, and the youngest child would be 4 years old and costs would be about $9600/year. By the fifth year, child care costs would be negligible relatively speaking. All the while, the family income continues to increase.

103 posted on 12/04/2025 9:03:42 PM PST by Terabitten (Our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor...)
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To: grundle

The system is designed for dependency. It has nothing to do with a helping hand up. If it did benefits would phase out.

Just about everything the gooberment does has a clif of qualification. One penny above or below the limit and now you pay 100% of the incremental tax or penalty or lose 100% of the previous benefit.

Government sucks and is populated by idiots.


104 posted on 12/04/2025 10:12:48 PM PST by Sequoyah101
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To: Malsua

Not much of an incentive is it? I have been there and had to climb over that mountain to enter a different land so to speak. It was a bitter trip for me. It made me hate the government more than I ever did and still do. The only thing I hate more are the politicians and the voters that put a lot of them in office.


105 posted on 12/04/2025 10:17:40 PM PST by Sequoyah101
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To: grundle
At this income, the family is struggling, but the state provides a floor. They qualify for Medicaid (free healthcare). They receive SNAP (food stamps). They receive heavy childcare subsidies. Their deficits are real, but capped.

Not only, but such can also qualify for many non-cash benefits that are not counted as income.

I asked https://www.perplexity.ai/search/what-causes-and-what-can-resol-1xHgDwIiRwKT7pxSNWeOtA#5 to read the link, as well as Welfare and growing dependency upon government. What determines income in Federal Poverty Guidelines as to its veracity. It responded:

 

The piece is directionally right that the official poverty line is an old, very limited benchmark that understates current economic stress, but its claim that the “real” poverty line is about 140k for a family of four is more rhetorical and model‑driven than something standard data would support. Means‑tested benefits and under‑reported income (including cohabiting partners) do complicate the picture and can make some low‑reported‑income households better off than the official numbers suggest, but the scale of that effect is far smaller than what would be needed to overturn the broad story that many working‑ and middle‑income households face real financial squeeze.

What the article gets basically right

Where the 140k “poverty line” is more debatable

How non‑cash and under‑reported resources affect the picture

Fraud, cohabitation, and “hidden” income

Pulling it together

If you like, a next step would be to build a simple spreadsheet for one or two specific regions, using local rent/childcare/insurance numbers, and compare: official poverty line, your own “basic needs” budget, and what various benefit packages would actually cover for a single‑parent vs. cohabiting‑couple scenario.


106 posted on 12/05/2025 2:06:50 AM PST by daniel1212 (Turn 2 the Lord Jesus who saves damned+destitute sinners on His acct, believe, b baptized+follow HIM)
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To: Jim W N
What will it take to DISMANTLE THE 80%+, $3+ TRILLION UNCONSTITUTIONAL PORTION OF THE FEDERAL GOV'T which is poised to destroy America AND HER PEOPLE???

Even if that happens, we would revert to strongman control in states and municipalities. Soon, you would be equivalently taxed unless the people finally rise up and recognize their responsibility for how they vote.

Even people now living in HOAs see that phenomenon today. Our HOA dues have increased by a multiple of 6 over the past 25 years, while participation in community-building measures has disappeared. There are two tinpot BFs running this ethnically mixed neighborhood, and their cousins or friends get the extra jobs now deemed necessary because they don't engage the people to have block captains, do community clean-up days, etc. They don't assess fines as the by-laws would allow on the people who are making messes; they write checks to have things fixed for hauled away, then just raise the dues.

107 posted on 12/05/2025 5:09:38 AM PST by Albion Wilde (To live free is the greatest gift; to die free is the greatest victory. —Erica Kirk)
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To: Mariner
The entire premise is a welfare mom with 2+ kids and no family help.

“Entire?” It really isn't. And let's not forget that women now aged 80 are the ones that entered the mainstream workforce back in the 1960s, meaning that neither mom nor grandmom is available for childcare, because they are still working to pay off that mortgage before retiring—and great-grandmom (the 80-year-old) may only be marginally capable of running after toddlers. We have become Sovietized.

108 posted on 12/05/2025 5:18:36 AM PST by Albion Wilde (To live free is the greatest gift; to die free is the greatest victory. —Erica Kirk)
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To: Bobbyvotes

Go back to India.


109 posted on 12/05/2025 5:27:39 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn... )
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To: Tired of Taxes

Benefits are color coded.


110 posted on 12/05/2025 5:28:57 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn... )
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To: kawhill

Social Security has passed several SCOTUS rulings.


111 posted on 12/05/2025 5:30:42 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn... )
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To: Sequoyah101

Sorry but marginal income tax rates do not work like you say.


112 posted on 12/05/2025 5:35:02 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn... )
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To: Brian Griffin
The two moms would switch childminding. If the moms work 10 hours a day, they’d average 35 hours a week.

In an ideal world. Finding another person with conservative values that align is like finding a marital partner—not that easy. Even back in the 80s-90s when I was raising mine, elementary teachers, Sunday School teachers and other parents in the scout troop were wanting to demonstrate condoms on bananas and similar enlightened ideas.

One mother took several of our 8-year-old cub scouts on a "20-minute hike" to see a beaver dam at a mountain campsite to which we had driven for the weekend, and they didn't return for 8 hours, just as the other dads and moms were about to call the state police, our searches having failed. That mother had not followed directions from the man who knew the terrain. They had one soda and one small bag of chips with them for five kids and the know-it-all mom.

Granted, we were living in a city and that's the kind of default liberals who were available, but that's also where the work was. My solution was to move next door to an old-time Catholic Church, where multiple family-oriented grandmothers lived in rowhouses on the adjacent blocks. But today's grandmothers are the pot-smoking blue-haired anti-ICE protesters.

113 posted on 12/05/2025 5:39:06 AM PST by Albion Wilde (To live free is the greatest gift; to die free is the greatest victory. —Erica Kirk)
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To: central_va

Right after you go back to Europe, I will.


114 posted on 12/05/2025 6:13:30 AM PST by Bobbyvotes (Work is worship! .... Bhagavad Geetao)
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To: montag813

That is most definitely not in place in Washington State, where the welfare gravy train has not been interrupted AT ALL yet.

The day one of these welfare leeches has to lift a finger and do any work will be like a bomb going off at the school where my wife works. There will be no other topic at dinner for months.


115 posted on 12/05/2025 6:15:03 AM PST by Uncle Miltie (Communism and islam: failed in every country in modern history.)
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To: central_va

I asked ChatGPT about Indian CEO’s of American companies. Here we are:

Some prominent Indian‑origin CEOs:

Sundar Pichai – CEO, Alphabet & Google.​

Satya Nadella – CEO, Microsoft.​

Shantanu Narayen – CEO, Adobe.​

Arvind Krishna – CEO, IBM.​

Sanjay Mehrotra – CEO, Micron Technology.​

Nikesh Arora – CEO, Palo Alto Networks.​

Vasant (Vas) Narasimhan – CEO, Novartis.​

George Kurian – CEO, NetApp.​

Jayshree Ullal – CEO, Arista Networks.​

Raj Subramaniam – CEO, FedEx.​

Leena Nair – CEO, Chanel.​

Shailesh Jejurikar – announced CEO, Procter & Gamble (from 2026).​

PepsiCo did have a very prominent Indian‑origin CEO: Indra Nooyi, she eventually retired.

These are only a selection; current estimates suggest dozens of Indian‑origin CEOs across the Fortune 500 and other global blue‑chips.​


116 posted on 12/05/2025 6:20:27 AM PST by Bobbyvotes (Work is worship! .... Bhagavad Geetao)
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To: Paul R.

“And when most families run up against that, then our country has a demographic disaster or an immigration / cultural disaster.”

It would be like it’s always been in this country excepting the magical period between 1950 and 2000.

We won’t see that again.


117 posted on 12/05/2025 9:14:11 AM PST by Mariner (War Criminal #18)
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To: Albion Wilde
What will it take to DISMANTLE THE 80%+, $3+ TRILLION UNCONSTITUTIONAL PORTION OF THE FEDERAL GOV'T which is poised to destroy America AND HER PEOPLE??? Even if that happens, we would revert to strongman control in states and municipalities. Soon, you would be equivalently taxed unless the people finally rise up and recognize their responsibility for how they vote.

Well first of all, DRASTICALLY cutting the feds down to what is constitutional will STOP and possibly REVERSE the relentless hidden tax of inflation since around 1900. Since states are constitutionally forbidden from printing money and inflating the money supply, state and local issues would not increase inflation.

Secondly, in all of 100 years during the 1800's when federal gov't spending hovered around 5% GDP, your "strongman" scenario at the state and local level was not a serious issue.

Again the MASSIVE unconstitutional portion of the federal gov't is THE BIGGEST problem we have in America that literally threatens the lives, liberties, and wellbeing of the American People.

118 posted on 12/05/2025 12:21:22 PM PST by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: central_va

Well, you didn’t understand the statement.

Guess you’ve never paid IRMA because that is exactly how that works. One penny over the line and you go into the full amount of the next premium penalty bracket. Go into the next tax bracket and every penny over the bracket threshold is taxed for the full amount of the next bracket.


119 posted on 12/05/2025 1:26:33 PM PST by Sequoyah101
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