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Heartbroken parents of teen who killed himself after 'horrific hazing' sue fraternity: 'It was cruel and senseless'
UK Daily Mail ^ | November 23, 2025 | James Gordon

Posted on 11/23/2025 5:16:31 AM PST by C19fan

A University of Texas freshman took his own life after months of 'demeaning and cruel hazing' which saw him burned with cigarettes and beaten, a lawsuit claims.

Sawyer Lee Updike was allegedly 'speared with a fishhook' during an alcohol-fueled event and had his hip pierced with a staple gun, according to the filing from his parents. The lawsuit also alleges that he was forced to take cocaine.

Updike, 18, died alone in a convenience-store parking lot just months after joining UT Austin's Sigma Chi's Alpha Nu.

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TOPICS: Education; Society
KEYWORDS: abuse; college; education; fraternities; hazing; texas
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To: PAR35; AppyPappy

I am a Sigma Chi.

It was never Catholic fraternity.

Though it is Christian based. It’s founded on the principles of Emperor Constantine seeing a cross in the sky before battle.

In Hoc Signo Vinces


21 posted on 11/23/2025 6:13:20 AM PST by Bartholomew Roberts
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To: DoodleBob

Did you debrotherize in the end?
*******
I personally know people that have depledged once they found out how stupid the “greek” thingy was.


22 posted on 11/23/2025 6:13:28 AM PST by yldstrk
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To: clee1

The whole college system is a huge waste of time, energy, and money.


23 posted on 11/23/2025 6:18:01 AM PST by packagingguy
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To: AppyPappy

My good friend who became a Presbyterian minister was a Sigma Chi at Wake forest.


24 posted on 11/23/2025 6:21:01 AM PST by bert ( (KE. NP. +12) QuidQuid Nominatur Fabricatur)
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To: C19fan

How about charging the perps with murder?


25 posted on 11/23/2025 6:22:02 AM PST by antidemoncrat
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To: packagingguy

as written by a poorly educated person who did not get formally educated beyond highschool


26 posted on 11/23/2025 6:23:31 AM PST by bert ( (KE. NP. +12) QuidQuid Nominatur Fabricatur)
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To: C19fan

They were around in the university I attended in 1989 but I was not the fraternity type at all. Preferred to focus on my studies, playing hockey, and working out at the sportsplex on campus. There was a Sigma Chi chapter there and if you got through their pledge/initiation process, the membership was for about 2 or 3 thousand, so that was another reason for me to have no interest in joining one.

I recall reading a story a number of years ago about somewhere in the U.S., a frat pledge was ordered into the trunk of a car and told to drink all of the alcoholic beverages in the trunk before being allowed out. He ended up drinking himself to death and this is for me an example of how having the drinking age at 21 is a veritable disaster as it does not really teach youngsters about safe and responsible drinking habits.


27 posted on 11/23/2025 6:24:56 AM PST by OttawaFreeper ("The Gardens was founded by men-sportsmen-who fought for their country" Conn Smythe, 1966 )
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To: Cowgirl of Justice

Not sufficient for ongoing abuse. Could simply have gone to police, had girlfriend go home with him, or whatever.


28 posted on 11/23/2025 6:28:36 AM PST by 9YearLurker
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To: C19fan

If true the fraternity should be banned…

I am a Sigma Chi and I agree with you.

Maybe I was just in a good chapter. Maybe most are good and occasionally a bad one pops up. Maybe a lot of the claims made about this one are not true or twisted.

But back in the day, our initiation was by the book and was glorious. Amazing. Like being given a final piece of a puzzle that makes you finally see the big picture.

The only comparison I can make is like being Born Again, just on a smaller scale.

Yea, I was hazed (by today’s standards), yelled at, forced to drink a bit, required to clean the floor after a party or two, made to memorize a tom of information including details about every brother.

But it was worth it.

I was never in the military but I got my boot camp. I grew up more in that six months than any other time in my life. I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

This chapter has possibly run off the rails. What is described is not the building of brotherhood that I knew from 50 years ago. It is Lord of the Flies, not Signa Chi.


29 posted on 11/23/2025 6:32:59 AM PST by Bartholomew Roberts
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To: C19fan

The question is, why did this young man submit to this? Why did he not react to such outrageous attacks?

He could have left. He could have done anything other than submit.

Money? Future prospects? A career? Contacts? Apparently integrity, a conscience and an intact ego are lacking, especially in this sadist group of young men.


30 posted on 11/23/2025 6:46:37 AM PST by OpusatFR
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To: C19fan

Sorry the kid chose this, but didn’t his parents teach him any common sense or how not to have a need to join, or be around stupid or evil influenced people?


31 posted on 11/23/2025 6:48:01 AM PST by b4me (Pray, and let God change you. He knows better than you or anyone else, who He made you to be.)
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To: Bartholomew Roberts

Sigma Chi - I believe their pin is in the shape of a cross.

Regardiing hazing: I believe a bit of hazing is worthwhile. I went through “Hell Week” back when it really was a WEEK.

The brothers made us clean, scrub and wax the fraternity house. We pledges got no sleep, had to do pushups, situps, etc everytime we saw a Brother. At the end there was a ritual and we got to understand the value of unity with one another.

Even today, when I see a brother, I know that he has gone through the same initiation as I and I respect and love him for that.

But these UT Sigma Chis seem to have gone over the deep end. You DON’T do physical harm to a pledge.


32 posted on 11/23/2025 6:50:15 AM PST by FroggyTheGremlim (Hail to Pitt!)
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To: bert

If you’re referring to me I have a doctorate in engineering. My argument is university should be drastically reformed. Far too much time is spent on subjects that have nothing to do with your major but simply rehash what was taught in high school.

A physician I know went to Princeton and she said it was mostly “fluff”. That’s an excellent way to describe what many experienced.


33 posted on 11/23/2025 6:55:29 AM PST by packagingguy
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To: C19fan

I do not understand the “frat hazing” mentality.
You have to suffer to be part of a club? No thanks.


34 posted on 11/23/2025 7:03:07 AM PST by ronniesgal ( so is it okay that I said that??? GO TRUMP GO!!!!)
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To: DrHFrog

is it?
I was raised Catholic, and when I hear Christian, I hear born again.
I am genuinely curious, not arguing your point, to be clear.


35 posted on 11/23/2025 7:05:06 AM PST by ronniesgal ( so is it okay that I said that??? GO TRUMP GO!!!!)
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To: C19fan
Sue them. Sue the college. Sue the parents. Sue the 'kids' who participated and call in the police to arreest the monsters.

36 posted on 11/23/2025 7:07:05 AM PST by GOPJ (Soros & democrats back criminals, dope dealers, illegals & terrorists.<P><I><B><big><center></B>)
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To: 9YearLurker

A desire for acceptance? Freshman? On his own for probably the first time? It can be a rough go for some kids. Heartbreaking.


37 posted on 11/23/2025 7:09:34 AM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts (Perfection is impossible. But if you pursue perfection you may achieve excellence - - Vince Lombardi)
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To: FroggyTheGremlim

Strangest part of the story is that the guy was already initiated.

He was a brother.

I have never seen or heard of a brother hazing another brother.

I don’t think that even counts!

Guys can play some rough games on each other.
But that is not hazing.


38 posted on 11/23/2025 7:19:07 AM PST by Bartholomew Roberts
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To: OpusatFR

“The question is, why did this young man submit to this? Why did he not react to such outrageous attacks?”

Groupthink is a powerful thing. This is nothing new.

Why did so many people willingly participate in excoriating those who saw through the garbage and refused to wear a mask and gloves and who did not submit to a potentially dangerous unproven injection?

Why did so many in the late 30’s and early 40’s stand idly by as the trains left for the ovens?

It is no big mystery. It is the “everyone else is doing it” fallacy.


39 posted on 11/23/2025 7:23:13 AM PST by FrozenAssets (You don't have to be crazy to live here, but it helps)
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To: C19fan

Fraternity hazing should be something you look back on with humor or fondness after you endure it as a new recruit (a “pledge”). It should be for bonding with other pledges and somehow constructive.


40 posted on 11/23/2025 7:26:43 AM PST by UnwashedPeasant (The pandemic we suffer from is not COVID. It is Marxist Democrat Leftism. )
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