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What Makes a Lady With Cats a "Cat Lady"?
Psychology Today ^ | 3/6/25 | Kaytee Gillis, LCSW

Posted on 11/08/2025 10:48:57 AM PST by DallasBiff

"You must be a cat lady, Ms. Kaytee," the student said to me through laughter. I was working in a school, and had popped into one of the classrooms to assist with a project. This student who had just met me seconds ago assumed that I "must be" a cat lady.

At the time I laughed: I had one cat, yes, but would hardly call myself a "cat lady." I also had a guinea pig, after all. Maybe this was some new Gen-Z slang that I didn't understand? Maybe "cat lady" means "an adult who is super cool"? (One can only hope.)

Fast forward 5 years, and we just adopted a third cat over the weekend. As I sat on my couch with not just one, but three fur babies, I said to myself, "Kaytee. You're a cat lady."

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Pets/Animals
KEYWORDS: cats; dogs
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To: DallasBiff

oh no, fur babies.


41 posted on 11/08/2025 1:00:31 PM PST by ronniesgal ( so is it okay that I said that??? GO TRUMP GO!!!!)
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To: pfflier

thank you! UGH.


42 posted on 11/08/2025 1:02:22 PM PST by ronniesgal ( so is it okay that I said that??? GO TRUMP GO!!!!)
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To: rfp1234

Muslims and Indians give me a wide berth when I take my dog for a walk. She’s a 95 pound Rotten Shepherd, a really sweet dog who is great with my grandkids and their friends.


43 posted on 11/08/2025 1:08:19 PM PST by Night Hides Not (Remember the Alamo! Remember Goliad! Remember Gonzales! Come and Take It! I’m )
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To: doorgunner69

TY for saving them


44 posted on 11/08/2025 1:29:56 PM PST by CottonBall (Librela, the new jab for dogs and cats. Pfizer/Zoetis is making billions killing our furbabies.)
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To: FRiends

100% a Dog Person.

My LibTard sister is the Crazy Cat Lady. Her cats ‘sign’ any and all Birthday and Holiday cards. She posts dozens of pictures of her two current cats on her FB page - DAILY.

We have two cats - but it’s a farm and they are necessary. They’re outside most of the time, but are allowed indoors where they behave for the most part. Both are ‘fixed.’

The bigger male likes to sleep with me - but he’s relegated to one tiny corner of the bed and he knows it. The female couldn’t care less - she’s a killing machine (mice, chipmunks) and she totally earns her keep.


45 posted on 11/08/2025 2:01:58 PM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have, 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set.)
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To: Vaquero

The Simpsons had it right.


46 posted on 11/08/2025 2:24:01 PM PST by Noumenon (They killed the guy who just wanted to talk. Now... now they've got me. KTF)
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To: mewzilla

I know one who is late 70s that is a great person who looks after feral cats and other animals in the area.


47 posted on 11/08/2025 2:34:42 PM PST by wally_bert (I cannot be sure for certain, but in my personal opinion I am certain that I am not sure..)
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To: Veto!

The Cat Distribution System will not be defeated. A few months ago, we were back down to two cats. We had three, but it’s a sad tale. Then the wife spots a cute little mostly tortie, partly tabby at the local shelter website. Miss Cookie. Rescued from a local dumpsite. Hid for 6 weeks until she decided that it was ok to come out. She regards the Large Orange One as her hero. Then, not too long after that, a little black stray whom my wife promptly named Licorice decided that he wanted to be a house cat. Sorta. A trip to the vet for shots and an, ah, attitude adjustment ($200 later) and he’s now a member of the family. Little panther boy has glommed on to his dad.


48 posted on 11/08/2025 2:38:49 PM PST by Noumenon (They killed the guy who just wanted to talk. Now... now they've got me. KTF)
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To: sauropod
Yes. A ‘’cat lady’’ usually starts out as a single, liberal White female who has a need to nurture but the need quickly turns into an obsession.
49 posted on 11/08/2025 2:44:39 PM PST by jmacusa ( Liberals. Too stupid to be idiots.)
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To: CottonBall

Hard to say who saved who.

They keep me somewhat clam and slightly more sane.
I have a bad temper and their sweetness helps.


50 posted on 11/08/2025 3:08:57 PM PST by doorgunner69
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To: sauropod

You’re not supposed to. That’s kind of the whole point.


51 posted on 11/08/2025 4:04:39 PM PST by Romulus ( )
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To: doorgunner69

Awwww I feel the same about my rescue kittens.

I keep in touch with their new owners and getting pictures of them happy and healthy is the highlight of the work

It’s sad that so many conservatives here have no empathy for God’s creatures. Luckily it’s not that way in my real life.


52 posted on 11/08/2025 5:50:37 PM PST by CottonBall (Librela, the new jab for dogs and cats. Pfizer/Zoetis is making billions killing our furbabies.)
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To: DallasBiff

Single (by any means), white, liberal, Karen personality.


53 posted on 11/08/2025 6:02:50 PM PST by vpintheak (The left is violence.)
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To: DallasBiff

More than three cats = Cat Lady.


54 posted on 11/09/2025 7:38:43 AM PST by Pennsyltucky Boy (bitterly clinging to our constitutional rights in PA)
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