Posted on 09/24/2025 6:43:27 PM PDT by MrsMNJohnnie
I just need help
Law can vary a lot from state to state. So you need a family lawyer licensed in your state. Second, if you need a good lawyer, avoid ones that advertise on billboards or the sides of buses. Third, probably avoid county or state bar referral services. Yes, they’ll give you names, but the really good experienced ones don’t need to sign up for the referral services.
Best place to get a good referral is from someone who is unhappy with how their lawyer did. Ask who the lawyer on the other side of the case was.
Not to make light of your request but, please consult an actual attorney.
If it involves older people, such as a parent or aunt, find a lawyer that specializes in elder law, and fast. Old folks can be fleeced big time & fast.
Some states might be able to help if you can’t afford an elder law lawyer. Be aware that at the late stage, elder care is expensive and will tend to eat up an unprotected estate of modest value.
“I need Legal Family Advice”
Ok.
If I were you, I’d sue.
That’ll be 1/3rd of your settlement for my legal advice.
There are reviews online.
Go to at least two review sites if time permits.
That was what I was trying to hint at.
People do not understand the difference between private (the person is not going to spread it around) confidential (you are in a legal relationship where the person will incur penalties if they do talk to people outside a warrant ) privileged (Usually will not talk even with a warrant except in a few cases) and sacrosanct (can not talk. ever. however this is only under the seal of a confessional. Things mentioned outside are still fair game to be forced out of them).
They do not understand their therapist, doctor and other professionals have a legal "duty to report" on any number of topics.
Situations where an elder law or family law lawyer are needed will almost never get better on their own.
I practiced family law for 25 years. Based upon the facts as provided, my considered advice is that you crack a quart of Jim Beam, find a clean glass, settle back in the recliner, ask Alexa to open Spotify and listen to every one of these songs, starting with #1.
1. - Drop Kick Me, Jesus, Through The Goalposts Of Life
2 - Get Your Biscuits In The Oven And Your Buns In The Bed
3 - Get Your Tongue Outta My Mouth ‘Cause I’m Kissing You Goodbye
4 - Her Teeth Were Stained, But Her Heart Was Pure
5 - How Can I Miss You If You Won’t Go Away?
6 - How Can You Believe Me When I Say I Love You When You Know I’ve Been A Liar All My Life?
7 - I Been Roped And Thrown By Jesus In The Holy Ghost Corral
8 - I Changed Her Oil, She Changed My Life
9 - I Don’t Know Whether To Kill Myself Or Go Bowling
10 - I Fell In A Pile Of You And Got Love All Over Me
11 - I Flushed You From The Toilets Of My Heart.
12 - I Keep Forgettin’ I Forgot About You
13 - I Wanna Whip Your Cow
14 - I Would Have Writ You A Letter, But I Couldn’t Spell Yuck!
15 - I Wouldn’t Take Her To A Dawg Fight, Cause I’m Afraid She’d Win
16 - I’d Rather Have A Bottle In Front Of Me Than A Frontal Lobotomy
17 - I’m Just A Bug On The Windshield Of Life
18 - I’m The Only Hell Mama Ever Raised
19 - I’ve Been Flushed From The Bathroom Of Your Heart
20 - I’ve Got The Hungries For Your Love And I’m Waiting In Your Welfare Line
21 - If I Can’t Be Number One In Your Life, Then Number Two On You
22 - If Love Were Oil, I’d Be A Quart Low
23 - If My Nose Were Full Of Nickels, I’d Blow It All On You
24 - If You Don’t Leave Me Alone, I’ll Go And Find Someone Else Who Will
25 - If You Leave Me, Can I Come Too?
26 - Mama Get The Hammer (There’s A Fly On Papa’s Head)
27 - My Every Day Silver Is Plastic
28 - My Head Hurts, My Feet Stink, And I Don’t Love Jesus
29 - My John Deere Was Breaking Your Field, While Your Dear John Was Breaking My Heart
30 - My Wife Ran Off With My Best Friend, And I Sure Do Miss Him
31 - Oh, I’ve Got Hair Oil On My Ears And My Glasses Are Slipping Down, But Baby I Can See Through You
32 - Pardon Me, I’ve Got Someone To Kill
33 - She Got The Gold Mine And I Got The Shaft
34 - She Got The Ring And I Got The Finger
35 - She Made Toothpicks Out Of The Timber Of My Heart
36 - She’s Got Freckles On Her, But She’s Pretty
37 - Thank God And Greyhound She’s Gone
38 - They May Put Me In Prison, But They Can’t Stop My Face From Breakin’ Out
39 - Velcro Arms, Teflon Heart
40 - When You Leave Walk Out Backwards, So I’ll Think You’re Walking In
41 - You Can’t Have Your Kate And Edith Too
42 - You Can’t Roller Skate In A Buffalo Herd
43 - You Done Tore Out My Heart And Stomped That Sucker Flat
44 - You Were Only A Splinter As I Slid Down The Bannister Of Life
45 - You’re The Reason Our Baby’s So Ugly
46 - I Married Her Just Because She Looks Like You
47 - My Tears Have Washed “I Love You” Off The Blackboard Of My Heart
48 - Don’t Cry On My Shoulders ‘Cause You’re Rustin’ My Spurs
49 - I Can’t Love Your Body If Your Heart’s Not In It
50 - I Wish I Were In Dixie Tonight
The real problem is defamation “if it is a civil case”. Public defamation can be added to greatly harm your legal situation.
But we don’t know if it is a civil case or not yet. Such as against other family members. So better to nip it in the bud in case it is.
Don’t tell say a husband or elder that you are consulting a lawyer, just do it.
If a husband, you might get beaten. If an elder, it will cause a loss of trust in you.
:)
Best advice I have heard in a long, long time.
You can pull it off my retainer.
yep
🙏 for God to help guide you through these troubled waters.
LOL!!! 😅😅😅
If it involves a member of your household, then clear the browsing history after looking at this if you know how.
On Windows, this means Ctrl+H and then clicking on the trash can icon.
You left out “It’s Hard To Kiss The Lips At Night That Chewed Your Ass Out All Day Long” by The Notorious Cherry Bombs.
even messaging and e-mails are not a good place to talk. everything on the internet can be seen by law enforcement...You need to talk to a lawyer in person do not talk to anyone online.
LOL! Where did you get that list?
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