"My Standards Are Higher As a Single Mother," Woman Says Men Should Do More For Her and Her Son

YouTube ^ | February 15, 2025 | Anton Daniels

[Jonty30]

It’s the sexual dynamic of women. When they are at their most attractiveness, they typically, especially today, aren’t interested in Mr. Reliable Provider. They want Mr. Alpha, who will not commit to them. They think that because they can spend the night with him their sexual value is a lot higher than it is in reality. It is only when she can no longer get the attention of Mr. Alpha does her attention turn to Mr. Reliable Provider. It’s basically an insult to the Provider male, because her expectation is that he should be grateful that she finally is paying some attention. That’s what the original video is about.

This young woman freely gave herself away to the most attractive males, but now that she has a kid, she expects Mr. Reliable Provider step up to earn her hand. Mr. Alpha didn’t have to do anything to get her, but the man who is expected to provide gets all the duties and has to earn any attention.

Men are cluing in now. If a women becomes interested in a male, when he is over 30, she really doesn’t want him but she lacking alternate options.

[Kudsman]

Or maybe she got really good at ‘knowing what boys like’. Women have never been stupid. Imo

[dfwgator]

“Sucker!”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsneH0mOq-0

[Kudsman]

Calculating? Manipulative? Cunning? Yep. Met them all.

[Kudsman]

Ha! Love you.

[rellic]

Most the time you are correct!
How do you like that!
You are mostly correct!

Sometimes you come across a diamond
that looks like a POS stone.
That is what a little faith
does for you.

[Jonty30]

Women are not stupid. However, in many cases of this dynamic, the woman will offer the Gordon Ramsay full menu. However, to the provider husband he gets the original McDonald’s menu of options and experiences.

[Kudsman]

Ok i agree, if that is all he aspires to. I prefer a chef’s salad. I suppose my point is that nobody can put anybody in a box. I may be voracious, and she may want that. Some other dude may want to get pegged before he rails her. What we each do is our own business and i just count myself lucky i found one more to vibe with. In short, don’t give up. Negativity sucks.

[neverevergiveup]

I’m happy that she’s raised her standards, because her number one responsibility is to do what’s best for her child. Although I understand the criticisms leveled at her (particularly that she’s posting this on social media), at least she’s being careful about who she brings into her child’s life. We’ve heard so many horror stories over the past several decades about ‘the boyfriend’ harming a child.

[Jonty30]

I’m not concerned for myself, so there is nothing to gain or give up.

I’m fully convinced that we are in the Last Days and it may be better to be alone in these times. Many of those who are married are going to be betrayed and abandoned and perhaps even turned in.

My needs on the matter can wait. I have other priorities right now.

[Secret Agent Man]

Its not that there aren’t any diamonds out there. But there are so few real ones, its not worth the risk.

For men its just too risky even with a non single mom, woman.

Statistically also, not in the guys favor.

Even if for some reason you still want to be involved, never let them move in, never pay her bills, and never ever marry her.

[af_vet_1981]

Regardless of your own experience, single moms are a horrible deal for men:
You raise another mans kids

Too much generalization;
Remember the fallen women who were restored by the Messiah. Avoid those whose behavior is incompatible with one’s calling.

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

[Kudsman]

Ok. I get it. I just like people. We good?

[Night Hides Not]

My parents divorced when I was six. She remarried about a year later. My stepfather raised me, best thing that ever happened to me. He was always there for me, never raised a hand against me, though I knew he was fully capable of kicking my arse.

He was also one of the smartest men I ever knew. His advice was invaluable to my growth. I honored him by giving his name to my son. Instead of being the "3rd" (I was a Junior), Francis was my son's middle name.

[Jonty30]

I mean it.

[Kudsman]

Awww. I am very fond of you too. Glad we touched base again. 100 legit.

[Secret Agent Man]

I think the dismal, disappointing stats on relationships and marriages and divorce back up my reasoned level of generalizations.

[Lauren BaRecall]

Theoretically, an adult human male, but some men are not adults, and some men are inhuman.

[FLT-bird]

Exactamundo. It is one hell of an imposition to ask anyone to raise somebody else’s child. You better have a LOT to offer to balance that out. The vast vast vast majority do not.

[Kudsman]

You should be a Supreme Court Justice. One of them probably couldn’t answer so resolutely. Congrats.