Posted on 02/15/2025 10:03:27 PM PST by grundle
"My Standards Are Higher As a Single Mother," Woman Says Men Should Do More For Her and Her Son
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I’d avoid that woman.
I don’t know what’s more insufferable about this woman, single mom raising her standards after having her kid, or this woman posting about her dating life on social media.
Now she wants to raise her standards.
I’m sorry, but that is funny. The reality is that a new man will never be the priority in this woman’s life, because the daughter will always take precedence. He will be the bill payer, but never really part of the home. Rhat is what she wants him to accept.
Any man who willingly accepts responsibility for another man’s child is a beta male by definition.
The only exception to that rule is if she’s a widow.
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Actually by being a single mom she took herself out of the dating market. Now she will only get the bottom of the barrel. It would be different if she was a widow woman, but being a single mom she will always have the baby’s daddy to contend with and another man does not want to deal with that.
“I’ve upped my standards, so up yours!”
Hmmmm ...
I have standards, sweetiepie, and you don’t meet them.
If he’s also a single dad, that could work out.
I agree. That is why the type of male these women go for, at this stage, are males without much experience and perhaps grateful for the opportunity to be with a women.
Personally, I can be a good neighbour with such a women. If she needs some level of help to make her life easier, I can do that. I have the spiritual gifts of generosity and self sacrifice, so I can go a fair ways in being a good neighbour’s, but there is no way that I would consider forming a family with her. I would always be the third wheel in that relationship.
Cee you next Tuesday
Translation: I slept around and you should respect me for that. Nonsense.
If women’s intuition was a real thing, there wouldn’t be so many single mothers.
You can’t unring the bell. You have a child.
It is no longer just you, it is you and your child, and honestly, a woman or man who is raising a child solo standards should be higher, because its not just about you any longer, it is about you and your child.
I am far far more cautious about who is around my kids, that I allow around me. Any responsible parent would say the same thing.
Now I didn’t watch the video, but I really don’t see this as a controversial thing in any way... I would expect anyone to be far more cautious about who is around their children, than when it is just them.
I saw a video where the question was asked if they had the ability to know when a man is cheating. They all said they did. The interviewer then asked them if they knew when a man cheats, then why do they not know when he’s unhappy. None of them could answer.
Not necessarily. My late uncle married a divorced woman with a young son and they went on to have four daughters together in a long and happy marriage. Both also prospered in professional careers. The five children are all married, successful, and on good terms with each other.
>> “My Standards Are Higher As a Single Mother,”
assuming the set of higher standards also apply to her own behavior, that’s a good thing
Some men cheat because they are cheaters.
Oh for sure. Highly desirable men, and women, will often cheat because they can. Cheating is an intersection between opportunity and ability.
However, the point of that video was that these women thought they could tell when their man disengaged from them, but they could not tell that he was in the process of disengaging because she wasn’t attentive their needs.
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