Its reality, not resentment. I see things as they are, not what we want to believe they are or gynocentric society and media tell us they are.
You may be beating the odds. If so I am glad for you.
Yes, I think I beat the ‘odds’.
I knew a lot of really sh!tty men, before I met my husband. They all just wanted to use, and not commit.
I finally met my husband, and we’ve been happily joined at the hip for over 32 years, now.
But it couldn’t have happened to me, if I had carried resentment, and thought that precedent necessarily indicated the future.
You can have a different future, too; if you just DECIDE to.
I believe profoundly that the way people DECIDE to *think* determines their futures.