When you keep.your selection of mates small, he gets to play the field.
Ah, but that’s okay, Harris wants publicly available abortions and Butt-boys says they free men, so he’s safe. Right? /s
Its good work if you can get it.
...just don’t get caught by her father
I have a doctoral degree in public health, specializing in social and behavioral sciences. I’m a smart person, so I blamed myself for missing the signs — though even in retrospect, I couldn’t see any.
So she’s and edjumacated ignoramus!
“130 “smart” women all thought they were this guy’s only romantic partner.”
130? Wow!
80% of the women are chasing 10% of the men. They all think they have earned and deserve such a man. When the 80% decide to settle, they are never really happy with their partner. That is why many men are walking away.
How did the guy possibly find the time?
This is basic stuff.
Women demanded that they earn as much as men. And for the most part, this goal was met.
But, it’s part of female psychology that they want to “trade up” when it comes to men, so they chase men who earn more than they do.
So, we now have a situation where (at least) 80% of the women are chasing (about) 20% of the men.
1) This leaves about 80% of the men thinking, “No woman wants me.”
2) This leaves 20% of the men thinking, “I can have any girl I want and never have to settle down with any of them, because if I do, they’ll just divorce me and take half my stuff. Heck, I might as well have three girlfriends at the same time. There is no downside.
3) Lastly, it leaves a lot of women wondering “where did all the good guys go to?” (refer to point 1).
Quite a few years ago there was a condom advertisement with shadows walking behind each partner showing all the other people you were “involved” with. I wish I could find that video again. My search skills are not up to the task.
Virtually all available women are competing for the same 10% of men. There is going to be some overlap. Still, 130 is an awful lot.
Probably part of the problem.
“Another tactic he would use is when we first started dating he told me he was seeing a therapist, a green flag, and he told me one thing he was working with his therapist on was trying to be better at asserting his needs and setting his boundaries,”
Interesting. I would consider that a big red flag!
NONE of you women were girlfriends...l
You were all booty calls.
She is worried about him taking the dog. LOL. Do you really think he wants 130 dogs?
This lady has a doctorate in public health. She even went on medication for depression. Just the sort of person you want to have input into public health.
Once upon a time the OP posted a topic he was interested in discussing. Now it is hit and run.
All in all, I got in touch with about 130 women.
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Well Samantha, look at the bright side. I think you might have found a new career... detective! I mean, that’s impressive!
She's not too smart by any and all metrics if she doesn't know this.
One can be smart and still be betrayed. He chose well-educated, professional women and quite a few of them. He’s a master at his game, sadly for them.
” All in all, I got in touch with about 130 women.”
You maybe better get in touch with a gynecologist, you might have gotten a Parting Gift from romeo.
Who’s gonna tell her?