'I Think Kids Who Are Spanked Will Be Better-Behaved': Strict Aunt Ya Hui Shares Views on Corporal Punishment

AsiaOne ^ | JULY 19, 2024 | Drima Chakraborty

[nickcarraway]

Who's Yehoodi? by Cab Calloway

[TribalPrincess2U]

That’s why you start from the beginning. The voice!
My first grandson was/is that way. He is very busy, but the girls have always come first. They matured well under both parents.

I’m so proud of him/them.

[minnesota_bound]

My parents beat their kids. We do not miss them.

[dfwgator]

[TribalPrincess2U]

I was paddled in class, over the teachers lap in 1st grade for eating my best friends cookie. More embarrassing than hurting.

[circlecity]

Some spanking is necessary. My grandmother and father went way overboard. When I was 13 and was becoming an an athlete I swore the next time my father beat me I wouldn’t make a peep. When it happened, with monster welts on my legs, I looked him in the eye and asked “Is that all you got?” He never touched me again. Crazy enough, we got along great after that. I think he was truly sorry.

[dkGba]

I always thought standing in corner effective

[doorgunner69]

Is Ya Hui related to Huac Tua?

[Blueway]

Our oldest was so well behaved that he rarely needed any punishment.
The youngest, however, was very adventurous and stronger-willed than I was.
I never spanked him, because I was half afraid that if I did, I might not be able to stop.

[Round Earther]

I have been reading about Corporal Punishment for decades.

When will he finally be promoted to Sergeant?

[alternatives?]

I remember seeing ads from the 50’s where husbands spanked their wives. I wonder if the wives behaved better.

[imardmd1]

A child's behabior is no different that for an adult. If the individual errs through lack of instruction, you describe the issue and inform the penalty of a subsequent incident. When that happens, the rule is invoked and the penalty is immediately applied to obtain a consequence. No more "telling."

Regarding a child, the Bible is very clear, and Dr. Benjamin Spock's theory schown to be futile for instaling disciple into a child's life.

Proverbs 10:13 (AV):

In the lips of him that hath understanding wisdom is found: but a rod is for the back of him that is void of understanding.

Proverbs 13:24 

He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

Proverbs 23:13,14 (AV) 

Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.

Proverbs 29:15 (AV):

The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
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It is because of ignoring ages-old well-defined and proven wisdom that we have successive generations of fools applying Spock's doctrine of eliminating corporal chastening of children, denominations preaching this non-Biblical doctrines from the pulpit, undisciplined college professors teaching it from lecterns to rebellious-minded students, and thus a progressive incorrigible "wokeness" controlling our culture and its supportive media.

[kawhill]

When I was a kid attending St. Bernard’s Catholic School, the Nuns would proverbially “preach Heaven to you and beat the hell out of you”. A long time ago.

[Prince of Space]

I was beat with a switch off the tree by my dad when I was 14, but I deserved it. My brother and I took my mom’s car out at 2 am when our parents were asleep. The cops arrested us at 4 am for grand theft auto, out after curfew, joyriding in a residential area, and driving without a license. I was a straight A student and it’s the only time I ever got in trouble with the law, but at least I got to walk on the wild side once, lol.

[ridesthemiles]

All 4 of us kids got spanked-—

OR THE DREADED “SNAP BEHIND THE EAR” from the farm manager.

We got punished for NOT doing chores or for doing them wrong.

ALL 4 of us spent our adult days as SELF-EMPLOYED people.

One had over 60 EMPLOYEES-—with only a HS education.

Another had about 8-10 employees with only one semester of college.

Another had 1 employee-—but not 100% of the time. ONLY HS education.

I worked alone doing bookkeeping -—HS Plus night school in accounting classes.

I AM POSITIVE SPANKING DID NOT HARM US.

[Georgia Girl 2]

I know I was. 😆

[Neanderthal]

"I remember seeing ads from the 50’s where husbands spanked their wives. I wonder if the wives behaved better."

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There was a lot less divorce back then . . .

[Socon-Econ]

Today’s unspanked children are running wild or drugged rather than disciplined. When other means don’t work, spanking will. Its unpleasant, but it’s for their own good.

[Tired of Taxes]

"As for my kid, I never hit him once. No need to., my voice has always been enough."

Bingo. The death stare works well, too. (lol)