I hope I honored my late wife's memory properly

[Chickensoup]

How nice. An urn that celebrates the joy of you both

[Bookshelf]

She hears you.

[EvilCapitalist]

I’m sorry for your loss. Looking down from heaven, I’m sure your wife understands you’re sorry about the fight. God bless you and lift you up in your time of grief.

[Jonty30]

You did the best you could. Nobody can ask more from you than that.
Your relatives did you wrong and owe you an apology, if they have not given you one.

[combat_boots]

So very sorry

[LibertyWoman]

It’s beautiful...

[VTenigma]

I’m sorry for your loss, prayers up.

[cowboyusa]

I lost my Mother suddenly 2 years ago. I have been taking care of my dad since then so I understand.

[Lurker]

Mrs L and I have an agreement. No matter what kind of a day we’ve had, no matter how much one has pissed off the other, the last words we say to each other at the end of the day are “I love you.”

Nothing is guaranteed.

L

[pax_et_bonum]

Please accept my condolences and prayers for your consolation and peace.

[Texas resident]

Wow. My dad went through a similar event. He got up one Saturday and went about his morning routine. He went to wake up my mom about 8 AM and she was cold. He called 911 and when the cops showed up they were really ugly to him accusing him of all kinds of things until the paramedics showed up. The paramedics convinced the cops that she had overdosed on sleeping pills. Very bad day.

[CMS]

i think there was a misunderstanding.

All the police, EMTs, etc were the ones treating me like a criminal

My relatives were very supportive. My aunt who lost her husband to cancer flew out here to spend a few days with me for support and my mother came too.

[dayglored]

I am so sorry for your loss, and your sadness/regret about that last fight.

My wife and I are old now, and one day one of us will wake up and the other will not. We have tried to never go to bed angry, or with the last words being unpleasant, because ... you never know.

Your story touched me deeply, and strengthened my resolve to have our last words of the day be loving.

I pray that your sorrow eases and that you are able to find peace of mind and comfort in the way that you honored your wife's memory.

[sasquatch]

Easy to say and hard to do. Loose the guilt and remember the good times. Time heals but it takes a hell of a long time.

[navymom1]

I’m so very sorry for your loss and believe you have shown her great love and honor. Forgive yourself, Love yourself. That is the best thing you can continue to do for her memory.

[HandBasketHell]

So sorry for your loss.

[dayglored]

> Mrs L and I have an agreement. No matter what kind of a day we’ve had, no matter how much one has pissed off the other, the last words we say to each other at the end of the day are “I love you.”

Yes, yes, and yes. (See my comment #14).

[logi_cal869]

I called 911 and everyone showed up, and I was treated like a criminal that potentially murdered her for 3 hours until the coroner arrived...

Deeply, DEEPLY disturbing.

Condolences to you for your loss.

[devane617]

Each time my lovely wife and I have “words” I then pray it will not be our last. Something to think about...

Very sorry for your loss.